I am a very experienced Gentleman Dom and sadist, and I am seeking cis-gender female sub/slave who is a masochist or has a masochistic tendency, for regular control and use or even total power exchange, possibly resulting in long term relationship with the right lady.

Please do not think of any of the following details - as limits, but rather an idealised description of the person I am seeking. The only thing I insist is that she be single.

Ideally my new sub/slave would be able to travel to the New Forest, be over 35 years old, a size 14+ (UK), and a bra cup size C or larger, but these are not hard and fast criteria.

Again, ideally but not required, she would be at least bi-curious, enjoy rope play, bondage, spanking, flogging, hot wax play, and other play, as well as outdoor play, d and multiple orgasm, and orgasm denial. She would also have exhibitionist tendencies including being watched in play with me, and be open to discussing being photographed and/or filmed during play.

Being a good kisser, and enjoying kissing, is a distinct advantage.

I own a wide range of toys and equipment and I have an inventive and deviant mind regarding their employment in a scene.

After care is guaranteed, in fact promised, and includes cuddling, snacks, in fact anything reasonably needed to help conclude a session in a wonderful way.

All limits will be discussed, agreed and honoured, but these areas are already off limits: , , needles, nails, edge/knife, and asphyxiation play.

I'm not looking for Baby Girls or littles.

BDSM Play Partner35 to 80 years ● 110km around UK New Forest

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