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Are you ready to explore? Maybe you’re a woman feeling stuck in your personal life, looking for someone to help you find balance and clarity. Perhaps you’ve noticed how certain behaviors or attitudes have impacted your work or relationships, and you’re open to trying something different. Maybe you’ve been curious about experiencing a real spanking—whether for discipline, play, or just the thrill of trying something new—but haven’t met the right person to guide you.

It could be that you’re seeking something more playful, an erotic or lighthearted spanking to feel the warmth of a reddened glow. Or maybe you’re ready to dive deeper into exploring other fetishes and need a space where you can feel completely free to let go and express yourself.

If you’re new to this world, that’s perfectly okay. I enjoy introducing people to these experiences in a way that feels safe, comfortable, and exciting. Respect is at the core of everything I do, and your boundaries will always be honored. Safe words and communication are key, and every session is designed to be a caring and supportive experience.

If you’ve been curious but hesitant, this could be the perfect time to take that step. Let’s explore what excites you in an environment where you can feel truly free.

Looking for a masochist for no sex heavy impact play AFAB preferred or just boobs.

Recently expanded my toy chest with some new impact toys, electrical toys, and restraints. Any *** loving women out there want to help me break them in?

I am looking for a mature masochistic partner, between 35 and 45 years old, male, cultured and loyal, interested in a serious and long-lasting D/S relationship. Someone who enjoys consensually, who knows and respects their own limits. With more than 8 years of experience, I am passionate about practices such as ballbusting, bondage, impact play among others. Respect and trust are key and I am committed to creating a safe and consensual environment.

My limits: feces, saliva, and penetration practices with objects and strap-on, since they are outside my preferences.

Looking for a sub (woman) for regular play meets and maybe more, who has an interest in trying or an existing kink in wearing latex.

Also fond of restraint and impact play among other things.

We are looking for a woman that is down for some cnc, roleplay, breath play, light impact play and we are very open to trying anything once if thats what your into

I love training younger ladies baby girls, ddlg in the lifestyle..Bondage, cnc, wax, impact, pet..If you are ok with age gap, give me a chance.

Seeking Masochist Female Play Partner. No Games. Let's Coordinate a Play Date. DM's Open for Serious Inquiries ONLY

Hi all, I'm looking for a lady who wants to play a few times a month. I can't host but I can get a hotel room. I'd like to meet up with someone who enjoys impact play(receiving), oral(giving and receiving) and sex while being dominated. Brats are welcome! I have no problem with those who enjoy 420. If you would like to discuss details and limits please send me a message. A time thing is cool but ongoing is preferred if we have similar goals.

No diaper players please.

Looking for a mature woman who want to do some sensual impact play

Looking for adventurous partners who are eager to explore and connect. I'm a pleasure dom who thrives on creating a safe, judgment-free space where you can relax, let go, and embrace your curiosities. If you're someone who finds joy in being in control most of the time but craves a place to let the dominant side rest, I’m here to help you unwind and discover new pleasures.

I’ve dipped my toes into the world of kink for a while now, but I’m always eager to dive deeper and explore what lies beneath the surface. My experience is light but meaningful—I’ve enjoyed being a guide, teacher, mentor, and even a daddy to those who appreciate structure mixed with care. While my focus is on creating comfort and building trust, I’m also curious to explore more. Breath play, impact play, and a variety of sensations are all areas that intrigue me, and I’d love to share that journey with an eager, like-minded partner.

As a gentleman and deep thinker, I appreciate deep conversations and connection beyond just the physical. I’m drawn to the mental and emotional aspects of a relationship—understanding what excites you, what you’re passionate about, and how we can blend that into a fulfilling dynamic. I find intelligence incredibly sexy, and I enjoy exchanging ideas, learning about new experiences, and deepening my understanding of the people I’m with. If you’re a sapiophile, we’ll have plenty to talk about.

Outside of kink, I’m a lover of life’s pleasures—good food, excellent wine, thoughtful movies, and gorgeous scenery. Whether it’s a low-key dinner at a local spot or a weekend getaway filled with beautiful views, I’m someone who enjoys creating memorable experiences in and out of the bedroom. I’m just as excited to take part in playful, spontaneous adventures as I am to curl up and enjoy a bottle of wine with someone who appreciates life’s finer things.

I'm also open to couples' play with one of my subs, if that's something you're interested in exploring.

If you’re ready for a partner who can help you explore the depths of your desires while offering you a place to simply be, then let’s talk. Whether you're looking for new experiences or craving a little more structure, I'm here to guide and support you as we explore together.

No limits here, impact, cnc, bondage, asphyxiation, anon, taboo, ect ~ like minded? ~ lets talk about it, HMU 😈 ~ must be ddf, am same here ~ no Trans please

Very experienced with flogs, paddles, whips, and more! Lookping for someone that would like to be on the receiving end of some good old fashioned spanking! No sexual contact required.

I'm looking for a woman/nb to cultivate an impact relationship with, with or without sex

Seeking a submissive female for play sessions, long/short term, curious newbies accepted, preferably around a similar age.

My specialties are based around bondage, denial, teasing, edging, , multiple orgasms, , sweet ***, light-medium impact play/rough (not so much a sadist or masochist but will consider with trust).

Also interested in the idea of having a nude/french maid cleaner, to tease and/or humiliate whilst they clean my place, followed by a play session if wanted.

If either of the above sounds interesting drop me a message with what you're looking for and see if we're compatible.

We recently started exploring impact play and Dom/Sub dynamics are are very eager to learn more about this; The correct way to use the tools-of-the-trade, good place to get said tool, how to effectively reach Subspace, etc.

I am Dom/Daddy, naturally a sensualist and caretaker. Impact play, bondage, DD/lg, disciplinarian. I am open to age and race, though if you are not in the metro PDX vicinity, I have no interest in pursuing anything virtual with you.

About Me.
Hello! Im Aaron, a 27-year-old straight male with a strong passion for the BDSM lifestyle. As a Dominant, my approach is rooted in caregiving—I find joy in providing comfort, guidance, and protection to my submissive partner. I thrive on creating a nurturing and supportive environment, but I also have a playful, sadistic streak that enjoys exploring consensual *** and pushing boundaries in a safe and controlled manner.

My Role
In my role as a Dominant, I take pride in being a caring and attentive partner. I believe in building a deep, trusting connection where I can be both nurturing and firm. My sadistic side is expressed in a playful way, always with a focus on consent, safety, and mutual enjoyment.

Interests and Kinks
I have a range of interests and kinks that I love exploring with a like-minded partner. Some of my favorites include:

Caregiving and nurturing
Impact play
Sensory deprivation
Power exchange dynamics
These activities allow me to connect deeply with my partner, blending tenderness with intensity.

Boundaries and Limits
Respect and clear communication are crucial to me. I’m looking for a single, committed partner—no open relationships. Safe words and signals are a must, and I prioritize respecting each other’s limits and boundaries. I’m always open to discussing limits to ensure we both feel safe and respected.

What I’m Looking For
I’m searching for a single, committed partner who shares my passion for BDSM and values trust, communication, and mutual respect. I’m not interested in open relationships; I’m looking to build a deep, meaningful connection within a power exchange dynamic.

Communication
Open and honest communication is key to a successful BDSM relationship. I believe it’s essential to talk openly about desires, boundaries, and expectations to ensure we’re always on the same page.

Safety and Consent
Safety and consent are non-negotiable for me. I practice RACK (Risk-Aware Consensual Kink) and SSC (Safe, Sane, and Consensual) principles to ensure every experience is enjoyable and safe for both of us.

A Little More About Me
Outside of the BDSM world, I’m a software/web developer with a love for technology. I also enjoy the outdoors, whether it’s cycling, hiking, or kayaking. These activities help me stay grounded and balanced.

If you’re looking for a committed, nurturing Dominant who values safety, communication, and a deep connection, let’s connect and see where our journey takes us.

I'm looking for a soft dom or caregiver type who can give me tasks and instructions. If we are able to meet in person, I'd like to experiment with bondage and impact play. I'm aceflux and I like to take things slow, definitely NOT looking for a hookup. I want to chat for a while before playing.

I’m a Basic Dom into CNC, Impact, Knotting, Clamps, light to medium dispensed. I am a Big 6’0” 255# and prefer not to cause that requires medical attention. We will find your threshold gradually. I will occasionally help a sub cuckold her bf/hubby. Brats are fine too. For these vanilla can be tolerated. Clean and free of disease subs with good hygiene. Slender to Thick are my preference. Chubby may be ok on a per person basis. No morbidly obese or anorexic women are desired.

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I’m in an open relationship with my husband but we don’t play together if that makes sense and I’m looking for My Daddy/ owner/ master-
A few things I’m looking for is someone who can be sweet with me sometimes but I also need that sternness for the Brat side of myself
Looking for someone who wants to talk back and forth with me a lot; I require a lot of attention sometimes 😂 so I like lots of contact ie messaging and maybe eventually phone calls as I’m a bit shy on the phone.

I would like an actual relationship as well

I also need rules and structure and will need a firm daddy to hold me to them.

I also have a pet side and learning my little side who loves sweets and Disney
I eat wayy too much sugar and not enough water but oh well
I’m also discovering a pup side and I’m interested in the slave dynamic..

Kinks: Bdsm,anal, primal, & praise, orgasm denial, breeding,impact play, CNC, daddy kink, mask kink, knife play,,hair pulling,choking, wax play, Somnophilia, free use,TPE, being overpowered, being manhandled

Hi. I'm interested in exploring bondag and shibari. There is a company here in San Diego that has classes not only in shibari but also in impact play and pet play. Does that sound fun? I'm looking for a FEMALE friend who would like to explore this as well, or if they've already got some experience would like to explore deeper. It would also be okay if you have plenty of experience and are just looking for someone to tie you up. I am a Daddy Dom and work best with sweet submissives. I'm in the Ramona area and am looking for someone who hopefully is not more than 35 to 50 mi away. Shoot me a message and say hi. Let me know what type of experience you have in this and the things that you would like to do. Speaking of that, feel free to look on my profile at the other kinks that I'd like to explore and let me know if you'd like to explore some of those as well. Let's have some fun and who knows, this may be the start of a great friendship :-)

Recently looking again, 24/7 dynamic preferred , open to light and casual too. Looking for someone who likes deep impact play, ***, open to all genders except Cis males