Genuine bisexual guy. Clean, healthy and discreet with a passion for giving my partner/s pleasure. Have been told I’m very good at oral and very attentive (I love to hear you moan).

I am married but due to health effects after cancer/covid/and a back *** out sex life is minimal so I have been given permission but not a fully open relationship so must be discreet as my wife does not want to know and I have no intention to hurt/leave her.

Have been in a few threesomes/ moresomes but always with gay/bisexual men so would ideally like to meet a MF or FF couple or a mixed group for discreet fun and going to events/parties but MM couples and all singles are also welcome to contact me.

Reasonably comfortable nude though wouldn’t count myself as a naturist. Hoping to make some friends (hopefully with mutual benefits).

Always practice safe sex and would not do anything if not 100% healthy and expect the same in return.

Starting to explore my kinkier side (was spanked hard the other day and loved it) and hoping to go to some fetish events in the future.

If you want to know more then just ask, I’m easy going and none judgemental and happy to give most things a try. Would be nice to meet for a drink and see if we get on/where things lead or failing that let me know if your going to an event in Brighton/London and maybe we can meet there.

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BDSM/Fetish Family25 to 65 years ● 10km around UK Lewes

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A pet is a submissive who enjoys taking on aspects of a domesticated animal. Pets enjoy the freedom of being animal-like. They leave all adult responsibility behind to play like their chosen pet. There are many different levels of pet play. Some pets enjoy dressing up with masks and gloves so that the pet can’t speak or use their hands as humans would. Other’s just like to act like pets without any particular specialist gear. There can be a sexual element to pet play but quite often it is just simply about play and the power dynamic between the Owner and their dearly beloved pet.
An owner enjoys pet play but not by becoming pet-like at all. They are the responsible person who looks after the person playing as a cat, dog, pony or other animal. They are Dominant personalities with a kind, caring side. They take over complete control during pet play. Just as any owner would do with a pet. Owners pair up with pets. They may only ever pick one type of pet, being a dog person or a cat person for example, or they might like the variety of owning different pets. They will perform tasks such as grooming, feeding and putting down water for their pets. They may lock their pet in a cage if it’s appropriate. Dog and Cat Pet play owners will do lots of play and grooming activities with their pets. There may be elements of training, rewarding positive behaviour and punishing bad. An owner may choose to lead their pet around on a lead or have a special collar for them that looks just like that of an animal pet. Pony owners might not focus so much on play. Pony play can come in different forms but will include training the pony to do specific tricks and/or having them pull a carriage of some sort or carry a person on their back. Owners take pride in looking after and showing off their pets. They may own one or more. There is a strong bond between an owner and their pet, but that doesn’t necessarily mean it is a monogamous relationship. There can be a sexual element in an owner and pet’s play but often it is all about the dynamic between the pet and the owner. Owners enjoy taking on the responsibilities so that the pet can lose all human inhibitions and completely become a pet for a period of time.
Slaves are submissives who totally give all control over to their Master/Mistress. The main difference from other submissives is that they hand over control of all their life, 24/7 to their top. There can be pre-agreed exceptions to this rule. For the purposes of work for example but by vast majority a slave hands over all decision making to their Dom. BDSM slaves are happiest when serving a Dominant. They tend to not have limits with their Master/Mistress. This is because their dynamic is very close. The Dominant knows his/her slaves limits and keeps to them. This is a very unique relationship and is one to build up to. Slaves start out as submissives first and after time become a slave. Slaves, even more so than submissives, tend to wear some kind of symbol of their BDSM slave status. This can be a collar or a piece of jewellery that symbolises their belonging to their Dominant. Slaves give complete trust to their Dominant, freeing their minds from worry and responsibility. It is a very unique roll and one that only certain submissives can take on.