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I want someone to control me, destroy me but after I need you to pick up the pieces and make me feel safe again
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Looking for the perfect little submissive house elf to serve once a week during a week day. I am a professional dom that is very strict and have very specific ways of doing things. Woe betide you if you do not meet requirements. I have a lovely stable and dungeon that always requires fresh meat. All accepted and welcome. We do not discriminate.
I am a little and I am looking for a Daddy-Dom/Caregiver. Please don’t message me anything nsfw, it’s scary 3:
Hi I'm new and wanting to try some BDSM, looking to be a sub or slave. But go slow
Hi everybody ! Im a norwegian girl who found her way to this site. Im very loving , kind , patient , cute and with all my curves on the right spot. Im here to sell pictures or video of : My sexy BIG lips Nudes Feet Your wish is my command. I do webcam after request.... So what are you waiting for daddy
I am still pretty new to the whole Sub and Dom world. At least, I guess letting myself open up to it more. I am listening to more and more Dom ASMR's and I find myself being able to cum so hard just by listening to these. It excites me to think about being with a Dom. As I am learning more about this community, I have learned I am more into softer doms. I've decided I don't want anything serious right now, but just a bit of fun.
Looking for an extremely dominant male to be my master/Dominant. Want to enjoy my life again.
strict mistress seeking a loyal and honest sub to serve her and have a lovely time together
My ultimate goal is to be someone's play thing when it comes to my belly button however I am open to possibly dating. I am not on testosterone yet (have to pay off some debts first) but I plan on going on it in the next year or so. That does put me in the trans category. I already live socially as a guy online, in games, and among my friends so please keep that in mind. I am not opposed to being with a couple either. I am an avid roleplayer via text or games.
Hi all! This pup is looking for a possible owner. If you haven’t guessed by now I’m into pet play, but that’s not all. I’m into a lot of different sub communities and I’d love to share and explore that with someone. I encourage all messages and possible friendships!
Hi!! I'm looking for someone to dom me through cybersex, I'm open to new ideas and experiences, and I have a couple toys -you'll have to gain my trust though!! -no video calls, but pics are okay later on
I’m am a new comer and want to learn. I want to submit and please. I want to embrace my kinky side
I’m an older bbw sub with some shyness. I can be bratty/cheeky, brusque and sarcastic but I am loyal and caring. Needing an understanding, flexible and tolerant Dom for a long term monogamous arrangement. My experiences have been limited in this life, so I need someone that can work with and around this. I would be willing to experience new things but I have my limits and this needs to be followed. Nothing to extreme but we can chat about our limits together. Regular dating to fit around our current daily life. A romance with spice for each of us! A relationship built on mutual trust, honesty, respect and communication. I am NOT interested in fwb or ons set up. NO married or attached men at all. The above obviously means that reasonable distance would be best otherwise what’s the point?! Anyone else is welcome to contact for online friendship, advice and chat. Be respectful.
Hello kinksters 💋 Newish to kink but I guess a brat or SAM (smart-arsed masochist) best describes me. I'm a high value woman who fits in anywhere from high end functions to camping on the beach. Professional, well-read and well-travelled looking for a high value Dominant who can keep up with me and bring me into line - physically and mentally - when necessary. I'm looking for a genuine, lasting connection here, a relationship outside kink as well as a true dynamic, with a single, mono, fit and attractive D-type with a protective and caring side. Intelligence comes in all forms so you don't need to have letters after your name (unless you want to) but emotional intelligence is a must. Locality to Newport/Cardiff area would be ideal as the LDR/travelling malarkey doesn't work for me personally. I have a lot to offer the right man so please get in touch if you think we might create some serious 🔥 together. Last, but certainly not least, my kinks include spanking (OTK, pussy, breast), bondage, throat holding, *** fantasies, prey and CNC. More into 'funishments' than pointless tasks as have a busy life outside kink 😉 Have a particular soft spot for the well hung gentleman but most importantly please be emotionally and physically available as I'd like us to enjoy a very intense connection. I look forward to hearing from you 😈👠
Wanting to date a Dom to see where it leads
The most intriguing profile I ever read had the statement: ‘Unless I'm wearing your collar, don't call me “daddy”.’ Several concepts clicked for me upon reading that. Interested? Let's meet at a local munch to discuss it.
Dom straight male and bi female sub looking for another female to join us for some fun
Hi, I'm looking for subs to attend clubs and events with after the world is back to normal and it is safe to play. I'm a sadistic kinkster with a keen interest in sensory deprivation/overload, ***, impact and electro play. I've recently discovered needle play and how intense this play can be. Ideally aged 30 to 55, experienced and local to West Yorkshire. I'm looking for a hands on d/s relationship, not romantic or sexual or one off play or virtual.
Ideally this person would be in and around North York and able to host.
Joined site March 14, 2021 If your interested please respond because I may just look at profiles. Disclosure: I am always upfront with my partners that I have been blessed with my gift (HSV 1/herpes) for over 20 years. I have never found in the past that this was an issue. Note: With my experience if you are a Dom you speak of your likes and not hide your attributes. you are aggressive in what you want (first contact) you show your face because it is the place I will look into your eyes and wait for gestures. Submissive looking for a Dom that will adhere to limits. Had a Dom that was experienced with stimulation and gradually increased thresholds. Looking for someone with experience preferred but may allow a new Dom the chance to broaden his experience. It is hard to trust just anyone no ego driven individuals aftercare is a must. Please don't play with people safety in this lifestyle. I have been out of the lifestyle for about 10 years raising an 8 year old. I am looking for a stable trusting Dom. He must understand that to be my Dom you know we have to click. I am giving up full control to you. Eyes wide open and looking straight up for each gesture and non verbal que. I am not into knife play or **. Mostly experienced with bondage, restraint, cuffs, Saint Andrews Cross, spreader bar, paddles, floggers, whips, canes, swing, n clamps.etc. No ddlg Visited with a partner in the past mainly Florida swinger's clubs, private parties, hotel events, restaurant closures, nudist events and hotels, theater play with glory holes, and private homes. 100% Submissive 100% Rope bunny 95% Masochist 90% Voyeur 84% Experimentalist 62% Degradee 53% Exhibitionist 52% Brat 50% Slave 32% Primal (Prey) 29% Vanilla 19% Pet 9% Non-monogamist 0% Ageplayer 0% /Girl 0% Switch
An experienced and knowledgeable daddy
I’m looking for an ongoing, open minded play partner who is kink positive and likes to switch it up now and then. He must be passionate and enjoy more than just vanilla sex. All levels of kink are welcome as well as experience. I am open to discussions about boundaries and parameters. No couples please.
I am looking for some excitement maybe a conversation maybe something more. I'm looking for a dom.