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Ok so here goes…, I am 46 and searching for my soulmate.

I like to wear the trousers and control things generally, I like the kind of D/s slave setup but I do not want to be a mistress that just plays with you and fulfills all your desires, i have desires too,

I want to be surprised sometimes and treated like a goddess a princess. Loyalty and honesty are extremely important to me.

I want a man who knows he’s a man, a man who loves and appreciates women and intimacy and love and kink, a man who appreciates women in lace and in fetish clothing or even in comfy clothes, I am NOT into sissies or Crossdressers and I’m not interested in tying men up and doing them with strap ons, or keeping them in chastity. I want a man who tries to please me and gets joy from doing so.

So what am I interested in? A 24/7 TPE relationship where I actually come first, not a situation where it is a guise to only get your secret kinks.

I am a natural leader and control freak, I love men looking like men and acting like men but under my authority, I am kinky but I also want love, deep conversation and to build something so special. I like to take care of and to be taken care of, I suppose my ideal relationship would be what would look like a normal relationship from the outside but i have D/s control, I love the idea of moulding a man to be everything I desire, choosing his clothes, hairstyle and free time.
I love the idea of creating asthetics and atmosphere to explore dynamics on all levels. I want to be able to experiment with my submissive switch side but whilst knowing I can return to my natural tendency of dominance.

I am looking for someone who is more dominant in life but can be submissive to me in a non pathetic way, honest, loyal, fun and intelligent, emotional, empathic and sentimental, has a sense of humour, someone who is patient and kind and calm but can be a little cheeky or play a little bit hard to get or even be a bit dominant sometimes and not just be weak.Yes I guess I’m looking for a submissive Dominant, where the submission and dominance have to be in the right places. I love to chase, i love tease and build up especially mentally.

I have had experiences with men who are liars or destructive and I do not want that in my life, I need someone who values trust and honesty, who can be strong and there for me when I need it. I can be a bit dramatic and need patience, if I get it then I have a lot to offer. Deep conversation is very important to me I am pretty dark minded but I am also very caring and loving and playful and creative. I love being a woman but I am also quite boyish in my interests.

I love gaming, god of war, resident evil, Elden ring, assassins creed, magic the gathering, playing pool, a few beers, occasionally cocktails. I love poker and metal detecting, binge watching tv series and reality tv, I Love eating out and shopping, wandering around markets, escape rooms, BBQ’s jacuzzis, creating themed parties, I love thinking outside of the box, coming up with grand ideas. I love celebrations, like birthdays or summer parties. I love a good massage and I love entrepreneurship. People who are loyal to me I will treat them well and go above and beyond for.

I currently live with 2 D/s slaves/friends. They are platonic relationships. So whoever my soulmate is must be ok with that poly setup and a rather unusual household.

I also have adult sons who I run a property development company with, my goal is to make millions and to be able to create a cool life filled with fun, I want to buy land, a big house, would love to run fetish clubs,and find someone to grow old with when our bodies are too old. Ideally I’m looking for someone involved in the building trade who could come onboard our company.

I am not religious, I edge more towards pagan beliefs, I am very interested in quantum physics and the idea consciousness creates your reality and and I am a bit of a conspiracy theorist.

I love all different types of music, imagine dragons, the weeknd, 80’s, billie eilish, avici, mood and atmospheric

Tv I like Vikings, Dexter, breaking bad, dragons den, apprentice masterchef, survivor, crime, downtown abbey, Spartacus, Clarksons farm, basically decent reality tv and series are my thing, a good movie if it’s well produced.

My negative qualities, I smoke, talk a lot, I’m very possessive. I can sometimes be a bit narcissistic, If you embark on a relationship with me you enter my world and sign up for supporting my life and goals.

My kink interests are :

Roleplay, (I have a big thing for roleplay) Slavery, TPE, collars, D/s control, choosing clothing, monitoring activity, eye restrictions, financial control, being served,, medical, asylum, age play, pet play, kidnap, era play like Victorian schools or slavery or Roman slavery
Flogging, queening, foot worship, tease, cages, latex, straitjackets, there is a lot more I’d do and some more private things but those are my main interests.

If you like my profile, drop me a message and tell me a bit about yourself.

Age
Location
Current living and work situation, skills, any commitments etc.
And more about you in general.

Short messages like hi will be ignored, as will crude or rude messages….yes I know I want a lot, as least I’m honest, if you don’t like my profile you can ignore it.

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I have been sexually starved since my divorce 5 years ago, buried myself in work and know I am running out of years and I am tired of looking at porn. I want to enjoy some sexual fun now. Would you care to join me. Open and willing to try different things. I love giving oral to a woman. Interested perhaps in some strap-o, Never tried it but interested.

I’ve got an idea for a date…

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You’re looking for a trainer and somehow found me. We’ve agreed for you to meet me at my apartment so we can take your measurements and discuss how we will work together to get you fit for summer.

You show up to my apartment and we exchange pleasantries. I tell you that I will take measurements of different areas of your body and that you will need to be in just your bra and panties. You’re a little nervous, but you agree.

You’re now semi-naked in my bedroom. I come and tell you we need to measure your breasts and as I reach around, I not so subtly brush my finger across your nipple. You’re not quite sure if I did on purpose or by accident…

I continue getting measurements of your arms, stomach and hips. I tell you I need to measure each leg. As I wrap the measuring tape around the first leg, my hand brushes up against your pussy. You’re a little uncomfortable, but don’t want to make it a big deal because you’re not sure if it was an accident or intentional.

I now measure your second leg, and this time, I’m a little more bold and slip my finger inside of your panties and actually feel your pussy. That’s it, you pull away from me and say this was a mistake and you want me to stop.

You don’t even know how it happened…

My hand over your mouth as I push you on the bed. The weight of me keeping you pinned as my other hand rips your panties down. You’re eyes wide as you’re facing one of your biggest ***s.

I tell you that you it will be over soon. I slap you so that you know who’s in control and tell you that it will only be worse if you scream. I tell you that I will remove my hand from your mouth if you promise not to scream. You nod your head and I remove my hand…

You start begging me not to do this and that if I let you leave you won’t tell anyone. I have a fitness strap that I use to bind your hands together. I lift your bra so that I can see your breasts. Your nipples are perfect. Your body shudders as you feel my hand against your bare leg.

I push two fingers inside of you and play with your pussy for a few minutes. You can’t help but feel a little slutty since you’re so wet, but you just want it end.

I slide my shorts off and you see my cock. I spread your legs apart and you’re begging for me not to fuck you. You surprise yourself with the moan you let out as I enter you…

I fuck you slowly to stretch you out a bit. After a few minutes, you try one last time to fight me off. I’M SO MUCH STRONGER THAN YOU. I slap you again and tell you how much you fucked up now.

I start breaking you. I’m so rough. My hands around your throat as you’re taking every inch of my cock deep inside of you.

I use you in different positions for what seems like an hour. I finally cum and you’re battered, bruised, tired, disheveled and weak…

How was your first cardio session?

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Of course, this would need to be a consensual and we would need to connect via video to verify. Boundaries need to be discussed and a safe word needs to be established upfront. Obviously, this would take place at my apartment. I value my peace, please don’t bring drama to my doorstep.


Me: White/Black/Asian. I’m 5’11, muscular and actually a trainer. I’m a normal guy with a kinky alter ego. I’m a sucker for a submissive girl who’s down to explore her inhibitions. I’m clean and always smell good. I’m kind, witty, and charming.

I am an attentive lover. I want you to feel safe with me and the sub-spaces we consensually agree to explore. I know when and how to context switch.

You: Submissive. Kinky. Sexy. Open-minded. Charismatic. HWP. Non-toxic.

You’re my new neighbor. You just moved in and don’t have your utilities set up yet. You have a job interview over Zoom in a few minutes and really need a WiFi connection for an hour or so. You’re dressed up, looking GORGEOUS, but smart, hoping to land this new role.

It’s mid-morning, You are fairly certain that I work from home since you’ve seen me during the daytime. You decide to take a chance and see if I’ll be kind enough to let you use my WiFi.

You knock and I open my door. You introduce yourself as my neighbor and explain your situation. I totally get it and say it wouldn’t be a problem. The only thing is that I also have a meeting at the same time, so you’d have to make your call from my BEDROOM so that I could have my living room for my meeting. You’re just HAPPY to have a WiFi connection so you can do your interview. You NEED this job so badly.

I show you my place and my bedroom and tell you that you can get set up and I’ll grab the password from my desk in the living room.

I come back into the bedroom, but you notice I’ve close the door behind me. The look on your face as my hand goes over your mouth to MUFFLE the scream…🥵

I slap you and tell you that this will all be over if you don’t fight it. I put my hand around your throat and pull your panties down. My fingers are inside of you. You’re begging me to stop. YOU keep pleading that you won’t say anything. You don’t understand why you’re so WET though.

I grab my yoga strap and BOUND your hands. The strap is long enough for me to also wrap it around your NECK. I give it a good squeeze and you know there’s no escape. All you can do BEG me to stop and hope that its’s over soon.

I pull my dick out and as I am about to fuck you, you start fighting back, trying to push me away, but I’m so much STRONGER than you. I tighten the grip on the strap and you feel it squeeze a little tighter around your neck.

I push my dick inside of you and you’re BEGGING me not to do this. You’re keep saying “please stop” and that you won’t tell anyone. But I’m DOMINATING you. There isn’t a way out of this.

I take my time using your body in different positions. Every time you try to push me away I *** myself deeper into you and slap you to make sure you understand who’s in control. You know you’re MY cumslut now.

I’m close to cum’n so I use your throat and have you gagging on my cock until I cum all over your face.

You can do your interview now…

Sound fun? I work from home. We can DEFINITELY make this a reality.

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Me: Just shy of 6ft. Black/Asian. I work out regularly. I’m an attentive lover and know how to make my partner feel safe with me and the subspace we enter. I’m kind, witty, charming and interesting. I always smell good.

You: HWP. Submissive. Kinky. Sexy. Open-minded. Charismatic. Sane.

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My DM’s are open. I will want to video verify and have a conversation before I invite you to my home. Let’s establish our boundaries and safe word before meeting.

If you are willing to dress me up (latex, heels, corset etc.), tie me down (Aw come on, tighter than that) and subject me to any or all of the following…

BDSM
Hoods
Gags
Strapon
Fucking/Milking Machine

… anything else that comes to mind, then please call me now.

It will have to be your place or I book a room at Abstrakt.

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I want to submit to you and your strap ma’am and bring you satisfaction as your little sub.

4/20 friendly if that matters to you

Let’s chat - Ask me anything. Im an open book

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