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Anyone want to show me how to be submissive? Changing things up a little.

Hi I’ve logged back in after many months. Wasn’t here for very long before so am still new and a little cautious, but still very curious..

Looking to explore my little side. It’s something I’ve been curious about but not something I’ve ever talked about or pursued. I’m very independent in my day to day life and struggle to ask for help but I have a need to relinquish this and be taken care of, in and out of the bedroom without needing to ask (or help me learn to be better as asking) and to be a naughty and sweet submissive in the bedroom.

In my past I have dated younger men but behind closed doors (in my mind and imagination) I get the most aroused and wet when I think about an intelligent, calm, loving, in control daddy giving me love, attention. Making me feel desired and safe and touching my mind and body.

Psychologically, It’s all about feeling safe and desired and adored. I have some body insecurities so to have my daddy desire me and to feel cherished and erotically wanted by him, would make me feel such a special girl for my daddy and would iron out the anxieties or insecurities I have.

In return, when I feel that safety, nurture and attention is genuinely given to me, I will want to give my love and attention and my all to my daddy. If I trust my daddy, I will want to make him so very happy. I am naturally very attentive and I like to please and tease.. I love seeing daddy lose control when I give him my desire (thats the switch in me).

Please note:
Im all about nuance and sensuality and mental play that naturally builds to something more urgent and dirty. I don’t do 0-100, or mimicking hard kinks like you’re a pair of actors reenacting what you learn as being sexy from watching porn. I doubt anyone under 35 will know what this means. I want to FEEL REAL. Real sexy. Real anticipatory. Real naughty. Real dirty. Real wet. With a person that just understands
that sensuality and silence is erotic.
It’s not about headline grabbing black & white kink. (I understand why people chase the fun sensationalist highs of whips, chains, hardcore boundary pushing sex, but I personally find labels the opposite of nuanced and sexy!) Only the most emotionally intelligent men will understand the subtlety in the psychological difference and they’re the ones I would love to hear from. Thank you for reading x

Ps. I really crave a sensual erotic kiss at the moment before anything else!

Dominant searching for submissive or slave, age 18+, for mutually fulfilling, rewarding dynamic. No preference on experience or knowledge when it comes to Dom/sub dynamics, I'm willing to be a mentor.

I am looking for a woman who is interested in exploring their submissive side and learning more about what they may want the future to hold in terms of this type of relationship. I'm not asking for anything specific beyond that, but I would like our "play time" to result in intimacy, so there should be mutual feelings on both sides.

Now, what is it that you're seeking? Send me a message, and let me know.

Couple in the Bay area looking for a submissive or switch woman for play and preferably a long term situation. Have a variety of kinks and interests we would enjoy exploring. Hit us up to find out more!

Looking for a Dominant Master who wants to train a submissive that has a slave mindset

Fair to say I am a submissive and looking to learn and experience more. In the right environment I would be interested in an FLR. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

I’m looking for a master to play with me and do the things that go round my head! We must fit and have the same needs … to enjoy and hold your sub in great esteem .. to adore and punish for being so beautiful n submissive ! Not degraded , n treated like a nothing !
I will give the best of me the more you praise me for serving you !

Hi im a street performer by trade, that's my work. In my spare time I am an ultra dominant male master looking to meet with a new submissive for play time initially leading to possible ownership.
Obedience is key but I encourage my slave's to use a little imagination, what creative ways of serving me can you come up with? My satisfaction is your goal and I want evidence that you are working hard towards that, not satisfactory subs will soon learn to try harder.

This is Ralph & Luna.

We are looking for women or couples to have some fun with. D&D free. Safe sex required.
We are open to many aspects of kink.
My submissive is alpha sub. She is also into many aspects of kink.

We are also in search of a long term domestic if anyone is interested.

Not looking for relationships just meet ups. Im submissive and looking for a dom whos into *** and degrading

Any (F) submissive/kinkster around the KL area interested in a meet/chat/connection please make contact.

Nice woman who knows what she’s doing

I am a Senior Gay Man in Northern England seeking a long caning with a lot more. Lots of experience, and will try anything that is SAFE and SANE. Looking for intelligent, innovative male master, who will take control

Since I'm a switch. Lately the other side has been itching to taken over. It's been a minute since I wanted my pet. I want submissive full control of everything to.my liking. She needs to be willing to be trained and used accordingly. Completely submit and beg for more. Loyal and true. She will be protected and cared for at all costs.

im looking for a serious submissive not vanilla ladies so if your a serious submissive please message me i dont have a membership es i cant see so please dont send them send a message instead

Dom who loves to explore with intelligent, creative, adventuresome, and open submissives/littles/brats. It's important to me that safety and trust is developed so we can explore the width and depth of fantasies, desires, needs, and where possible, limits. I love impact play, bondage, electrostimulation, *** play, sensation play, etc. I have a fairly well stocked "toy box" full of goodies to explore. It's also important to me that we find an aftercare routine that allows the integration of all of these fun activities. Have fun and be safe.

Seeking female submissive for regular bondage and impact play.

If you're really interested then drop me a line. I probably won't contact you first.

I’m looking for companionship to get out and explore with. I'm a coffee junkie, enjoy a good beer or two, or a nice glass of wine. It just depends on the mood at the time. And now that the weather is nice, having someone to hold down the passenger seat on my Harley would be a bonus. So if you might be interested, drop me a line. Being able to obtain a passport for potential international travel would be a definite plus.

I'm completely open to suggestions for a shared adventure. Throw something out there and chances are I'm game. But to keep it light, let's start with coffee or a drink in a public place for comfort's sake.

I would love to find someone around my age to take control of me and have their way, in and around the bedroom. I generally prefer gentle dom/dommes but it's not a requirement.
Into orgasm control, chastity, bondage and many many more lol.

Hmu if this catches your eye, will make it worth your while .

I am seeking a financial submissive who is interested in a dynamic centered around financial domination. I am looking for someone who is willing to provide financial support while exploring our mutual interests and desires.

Looking for someone who wants to play with a submissive & orally fixated sissy.

I'm looking for a dominant or a submissive Woman to get to know as friends or a potential LTR. I'm very kind and I'm a go with the flow person. I'm very laid back and chill. Feel free to message me!

Happy, confident and moderately experienced submissive, kitty and sometimes little, seeking kind and patient Dom for a long term relationship, who enjoys impact, bondage and discipline, and petting kitties of course!

Dates, visits to clubs and munches, cuddles and spanks, good conversation, lots of rope, and the potential to become a long term loving relationship. Are you out there, Sir?

Seeking a kinky submissive to play with either adhoc or preferably on a regular basis.
Love all sorts of kink so get in touch

Looking to explore, a variety of kinks including, pet play, ***, orgasm control/denial, begging, total power exchange, the list goes on. Very into aftercare.