I'm a SwM (Single White Male) / Born on 10 Sept., 1972 / Reside alone in a clean, & roomy 1-bedroom apt. on the 400-block of E. King Street Lancaster, PA 17602, with no pets, or kids, & I've never been married. I've never been diagnosed with any deadly STDs, & I'm not into having multiple partners; you can feel safe, knowing that, about me. I am monogamous. Make sure you are, as well.

I'm both very easy to talk to, & to deal
with, & are D&D-free, & neither smoke, do illicit ***, nor drink. I am
a Christian, & do not believe in, nor shall I accept a 1-night stand,
or some basic, so-called 'platonic' relationship. I seek a long term
relationship with a SwF pref. from PA, 25-50, who drives or who understands how to use pub. transp., as I do.

Musts

You must be an independent lady, and who can also stomach an independent, monogamous
& a creative man, who is in touch with his feelings.
You must be emotionally stable, meaning... no unprovoked explosive nastiness, or I will hastily abandon what's left of our relationship. Period.
You will either drive, own a bike of some kind, or know how to utilize public transport, & you will be both willing & able to depart your residence to actively travel to my location--or to anyplace which you and I determine to meet at, to participate in a long-term relationship.
You must have a kind attitude, & have a good sense of humor.
No begging me for $. I'm retired, & I'm no walking bank, so...
...don't ask.
You MUST be a permanent res., of the US. I am not now, nor have I ever been the least bit suited to any long-dist. relat. You will be a permanent, legal citizen of the USA, or I shall not oblige to participate in any romantic relationship, with you.

I have much to offer, in terms of being emotionally stable, very polite, & have very
good cooking skills, plus I happen to be very good with my hands.
I'm a creator, & love to create. It's both a blessing to me, & a gift.
I also greatly enjoy a whimsical sense of humor, & love to make others laugh
through impersonations, & a quick wit.

I cannot stand rude, grossly obnoxious, socially-retarded women, nor shall I settle for some woman who tries to bully me into some type of a so-called 'platonic' relationship. I'm neither suited to, nor shall I ever be comfortable accepting ANY type of a so-called platonic, 'just buddies'
arrangement. End of story. I'm a man with the feelings of one, and that will be respected, just as you expect you & your feelings to be respected, in that same way.

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