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Seeking a relationship with someone who is poly or CNM/ENM.

Prefer romantic D/s relationship. (Open to platonic play partners if I meet the right person)

Males: Doms (love age gap) & subs (into/interested in pet play/chastity/pegging)
Fems/Theys: subs only (chastity, impact, orgasm denial)

Must be at least 25 & live within ~40 miles.

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I'm looking for someone nice to date. A sub guy that knows how to please, that is respectful, and knows their place...at my feet. Ideally someone into chastity play, and I'd love to try cucking someone. Curious about FLR as I'm naturally dominant so it suits me more. That doesn't mean I won't respect your needs or limits. SSAC. Also don't address me as Mistress straight out of the gate in your first message.

Also I like alternative and creative men.

No brats, good boys only.

Ok so here goes…, I am 46 and searching for my soulmate.

I like to wear the trousers and control things generally, I like the kind of D/s slave setup but I do not want to be a mistress that just plays with you and fulfills all your desires, i have desires too,

I want to be surprised sometimes and treated like a goddess a princess. Loyalty and honesty are extremely important to me.

I want a man who knows he’s a man, a man who loves and appreciates women and intimacy and love and kink, a man who appreciates women in lace and in fetish clothing or even in comfy clothes, I am NOT into sissies or Crossdressers and I’m not interested in tying men up and doing them with strap ons, or keeping them in chastity. I want a man who tries to please me and gets joy from doing so.

So what am I interested in? A 24/7 TPE relationship where I actually come first, not a situation where it is a guise to only get your secret kinks.

I am a natural leader and control freak, I love men looking like men and acting like men but under my authority, I am kinky but I also want love, deep conversation and to build something so special. I like to take care of and to be taken care of, I suppose my ideal relationship would be what would look like a normal relationship from the outside but i have D/s control, I love the idea of moulding a man to be everything I desire, choosing his clothes, hairstyle and free time.
I love the idea of creating asthetics and atmosphere to explore dynamics on all levels. I want to be able to experiment with my submissive switch side but whilst knowing I can return to my natural tendency of dominance.

I am looking for someone who is more dominant in life but can be submissive to me in a non pathetic way, honest, loyal, fun and intelligent, emotional, empathic and sentimental, has a sense of humour, someone who is patient and kind and calm but can be a little cheeky or play a little bit hard to get or even be a bit dominant sometimes and not just be weak.Yes I guess I’m looking for a submissive Dominant, where the submission and dominance have to be in the right places. I love to chase, i love tease and build up especially mentally.

I have had experiences with men who are liars or destructive and I do not want that in my life, I need someone who values trust and honesty, who can be strong and there for me when I need it. I can be a bit dramatic and need patience, if I get it then I have a lot to offer. Deep conversation is very important to me I am pretty dark minded but I am also very caring and loving and playful and creative. I love being a woman but I am also quite boyish in my interests.

I love gaming, god of war, resident evil, Elden ring, assassins creed, magic the gathering, playing pool, a few beers, occasionally cocktails. I love poker and metal detecting, binge watching tv series and reality tv, I Love eating out and shopping, wandering around markets, escape rooms, BBQ’s jacuzzis, creating themed parties, I love thinking outside of the box, coming up with grand ideas. I love celebrations, like birthdays or summer parties. I love a good massage and I love entrepreneurship. People who are loyal to me I will treat them well and go above and beyond for.

I currently live with 2 D/s slaves/friends. They are platonic relationships. So whoever my soulmate is must be ok with that poly setup and a rather unusual household.

I also have adult sons who I run a property development company with, my goal is to make millions and to be able to create a cool life filled with fun, I want to buy land, a big house, would love to run fetish clubs,and find someone to grow old with when our bodies are too old. Ideally I’m looking for someone involved in the building trade who could come onboard our company.

I am not religious, I edge more towards pagan beliefs, I am very interested in quantum physics and the idea consciousness creates your reality and and I am a bit of a conspiracy theorist.

I love all different types of music, imagine dragons, the weeknd, 80’s, billie eilish, avici, mood and atmospheric

Tv I like Vikings, Dexter, breaking bad, dragons den, apprentice masterchef, survivor, crime, downtown abbey, Spartacus, Clarksons farm, basically decent reality tv and series are my thing, a good movie if it’s well produced.

My negative qualities, I smoke, talk a lot, I’m very possessive. I can sometimes be a bit narcissistic, If you embark on a relationship with me you enter my world and sign up for supporting my life and goals.

My kink interests are :

Roleplay, (I have a big thing for roleplay) Slavery, TPE, collars, D/s control, choosing clothing, monitoring activity, eye restrictions, financial control, being served,, medical, asylum, age play, pet play, kidnap, era play like Victorian schools or slavery or Roman slavery
Flogging, queening, foot worship, tease, cages, latex, straitjackets, there is a lot more I’d do and some more private things but those are my main interests.

If you like my profile, drop me a message and tell me a bit about yourself.

Age
Location
Current living and work situation, skills, any commitments etc.
And more about you in general.

Short messages like hi will be ignored, as will crude or rude messages….yes I know I want a lot, as least I’m honest, if you don’t like my profile you can ignore it.

I need a BDSM Slave willing to be put in diapers and doing anything to please me so he can get some pleasure, must be ok with ageplay, bondage, degrading, spanking chastity devices, public ***

Seeking service oriented subs for real life service in Pickering Ontario. Also looking for other service sub in Mérida Mexico during winter. . No cybersex. No meet and beat. Long term service only. Suitable for those that feel fulfilled giving service without measuring what they will get in return.

If you are under 30, you are too young to be my pet. If you see me at an event, come chat instead.

As I seek non sexual interactions with my sub, I am open to male and female subs. Its the control and service that excites me... NOT what is between your legs.

If I get distracted, please do not take offense and just keep messaging to keep my attention. I never try to ghost. If I am not interested, I will tell you directly. So it's your responsibility to keep in contact. With multiple businesses and in and out of the country, things get hectic lol

I enjoy getting to know you and adapt my service requirements according to your abilities and desires.

In Canada I require my pet to serve in my home, warehouse, computer work, etc. Please read my profile. Available hours are critical. Afternoons only, ex: noon to 5. Suits shift worker, self employed or retired. Typically from noon to five during the week...1 to 2 times a month.

In Mexico, Seeking an English speaking service oriented sub.
Helping me with my Spanish, serving as a translator, shopping, helping me with whatever service I require. In my garden, in my home, foot massages, etc.

I move slowly, I love to train and keep a sub for years. Not into Mommy or AB play.

For my dedicated personal subs, this is not meet and beat. You must feed me to get time with me... simple. My rule since I was young vanilla lol. We go on multiple dates getting to know each other BEFORE any play or service occurs. Be prepared to fill out and slowly discuss a bdsm checklist.
I enjoy CFnm, collar/leash, sensual to medium intensity bdsm play. Optional interests are violet wand, chastity and going to local events... those we can discuss and compromise.
Not looking for sexual service, long distance or sexting.
I am married to a kinkster and I am looking for a casual play partner only.
Are you seeking a long term play partner, submission to a mature realistic Domme, friendship and serving a Mistress... Message me.

Looking to hold chastity keys in San Francisco/bay area

I visit Mexico during the winter... Canadian winters suck lol. I am able to work remotely. 🎉

Seeking service oriented boys for real life service in Pickering Ontario. Also another service sub in Mérida Mexico during winter. No cybersex. No meet and beat. Long term service only.

If I get distracted, please do not take offense and just keep messaging to keep my attention. I never try to ghost. If I am not interested, I will tell you directly. So it's your responsibility to keep in contact. With multiple businesses and in and out of the country, things get hectic lol

In Canada I require my boy to serve in my home, warehouse, computer work, etc. CFnm. Please read my profile. Available hours are critical. Suits shift worker, self employed or retired. Typically from noon to five during the week...1 to 2 times a month.

In Mexico, Seeking an English speaking service oriented boy.
Helping me with my Spanish, serving as a translator, helping me with whatever service I require. In my garden, in my home, foot massages, etc.

I move slowly, I love to train and keep a boy for years. Not into Mommy or AB play.

For my dedicated personal boys, this is not meet and beat. We spend multiple dates getting to know each other BEFORE any play or service occurs. I will use your personal talents and knowledge to better my life.
I enjoy CFnm, collar/leash, sensual to medium intensity bdsm play. Optional interests are violet wand, male chastity and going to local events... those we can discuss and compromise.
Not looking for sex, long distance or sexting. Cock cages are hot but not necessary. Not interested in cbt or your cock.
I am married to a kinkster and I am looking for a casual play partner only.
Are you seeking a long term play partner, submission to a mature realistic Domme, friendship and serving a Mistress... Message me.

I am in the market for a partner/ boyfriend preferably to keep in chastity. Tall, handsome and under the age of 50. Must be extremely attentive. Look and smell amazing. Hygiene needs to be impeccable with as little hair as possible. Your role will be to be not only my submissive but also potentially my partner. I expect dates and all the trimmings. In return you are in a femdom relationship. It will be exclusive for you anyway xxx

I’m pansexual and happy to meet with any orientation if the connection is good. I am a very experienced lifestyle submissive lady without current guidance. Seeking a dominant human who can command and demand my submission. I can make anything kinky, it’s in my soul, but my favourite kinks are vulnerability, bondage, control, *** and chastity.

The most intriguing profile I ever read had the statement:
 
‘Unless I'm wearing your collar, don't call me “daddy”.’
 
Several concepts clicked for me upon reading that.

Interested? Let's meet at a local munch to discuss it.

There are discussion groups on another site called "daddies who aren't really "in charge": the other side of the coin" and "Daddyslaves for daughters". There are collars that literally just say "Daddy" on them.

Ever seen a Canadian zom-rom-com called Fido? Remember the end? "C'mon, Daddy."

I did an experiment on a kinky social networking site and ran a search on "sub daddy". There were a fair amount of "Sub4Daddy" or "Daddy4Sub" accounts, but also a significant number of "SubDaddy" or "DaddySub" profiles - people who both identified as submissives and daddies.

My ideal man would be my submissive daddy, and I'd be his dominant girl. We'd both wear each other's collars. He'd wear panties and I'd sit on his lap. There'd be primal play, wrestling around, learning, and exploring.

If you're interested in meeting me, let's coordinate on which local munches we attend to see if we can both end up at the same one.

I would love to meet up and talk to a local man who is both available for a relationship and willing to wear a secured chastity device during that talk: I'm curious about chastity as it sounds like an in-person discussion would be quite amusing

I’m not against protectiveness, strength, butchness, or anything else. I’m actually a fan, so long as it’s under my control. Yes, I think that an obedient, leashed monster will do just fine.

I'm looking for submissive or switch men within 7 years of my own age (49 - 63) who are Greater Seattle / Puget Sound residents, and are available for a publicly recognized relationship.