First off, I am neurodivergent , meaning sometimes I dont get a lot of "unspoken" social cues, so I would need to be told... a lot... I also have a few environmental allergies so I usually have a few things on me like medications and my inhaler I am also engaged but we are open/ poly and he knows I look for others to play with. his drive is lower than mine

I am looking for someone that is able to host in my area or at least nearby my area, and preferably at these times:

weekdays:
9 am to 2 pm , (except for doctors appointments)
week nights:
8 pm to 2 am ( overnights are okay as well)

weekends : can be a little tricky, Im usually pretty busy on weekends but every so often I will have a weekend or two off a month, though Im thinking sundays are probably my least busy days.

Play:
above all I crave these things:
Passion/affection, touch , and penetration .

Someone that is respectful, confident, and playful ,

usually wins me over much more than arrogant, stubborn, and bullying ever will.

( though of course I do enjoy dirty talk )

I also crave more experiences in life and want a few other things only this area can give me.

I wish to experience more in these fields/things :

Primal , ropes, "knives"/claws/wheels

wax, penetrative / stretching toys, pumps,

harnesses, leashes , massage ...

theres probably a few here im forgetting but I hope the general gist comes to mind and other things can be added

heres also a few things im NOT into:

Im NOT into:

// *** ( some markings and sex on period is okay for me but nothing huge)

tasting/ ingesting fluids ( im sensitive to tastes and doesnt help my gag reflex) but I do enjoy giving blow jobs before penetration ,

dirty talk that leads into territories of weight

tickling

"permanent " things like hair cuts, piercings, tattoos etc.

Other things I would also enjoy from this arrangement:

someone who is patient and compassionate,

someone who doesnt let me be lazy too much, but will make me take a break when I need it

someone who can help me with some health issues, or beginning things like exercises, stretches, diets, etc.

someone who can listen to me ramble but also know when to cut me off and hold me and tell me things are going to be okay,

someone who will check in on me on a regular basis even if Im unable to come over,

a few other things about me in general:
I enjoy anime, rom coms, musicals, scifi/ fantasy, comedy, some video games and arts and hope to have more vanilla experiences someday too!

I know this is kinda lengthy but Thank you to those that have made it this far, as for the play list, it doesnt have to be all, I know most people only have a few of these interests or experiences, but at the same time I would like to experience them in general in life, even if I have to find another partner for those others specifically.

BDSM Play Partner30 to 50 years ● 50km around USA Fort Smith

Hello! I'm 28 CIS F and I'm looking to find my other half. As for a bit about me -

  • I am not interested in men at all.

    I am...

  • Monogamous
  • Lesbian
  • service sub (The thing that brings me the most joy is making my partner happy and I will always put her pleasure and needs above my own)
  • inexperienced with kink but I know what I want. I am very eager to explore more and I’m very open-minded
  • I am successful in my career and have lots of responsibility and people to manage at work. I would love to have someone that I am comfortable enough with to take the reigns from me. Make decisions for me, and let me please and spoil them.
  • Hopeful Romantic (seriously, I will send you wax-stamped love letters and set up picnics underneath the stars)
  • 5ft 7in, dirty blonde/midlength hair, not skinny but I do go to the gym almost every day and I am athletic
  • Gold star lesbian
  • Graphic Designer (you'll get lots of silly drawings from me)
  • Marvel Nerd

    I also enjoy things like kayaking, camping, hiking, skiing/snowboarding, mini golf, art/*ting, video games, museums. I am from NY, but I'm not sold on staying in the US my whole life. I am very open to making connections abroad.

    What I'm looking for...**

  • Age 23-35 ^((ish))
  • Someone who can be caring and soft but also strict and mean when needed. I enjoy praise but also love the it when a woman can take control and make decisions for me.
  • I mostly thrive on genuine connection, I love deep talks about life and getting to know other people emotionally.
  • I’m fine with online but I would eventually like it to lead to IRL. I’d love to find someone experienced that can teach me and mold me into their perfect submissive.
  • afab
  • It would be nice to have some interests in common, but I would also be very interested to learn about new things and what you enjoy as well.
  • I do really love foreign accents, so if you have one it's an instant win.

    Kinks are not limited to but include: MDLG, hypnosis, praise, intox, breath play, somno, cnc, orgasm control, corruption, TPE (kinda)

    Limits: Bathroom play, **, gore, permanent markings, known public play, men, feminization, illegal activities.

    Anygays- I'm willing to share pics/verify and I expect you to as well. If you reach out please say more than just "hey". Some interests will be nice too. If this post doesn't interest you, I wish you all the best in your search, LET'S GO LESBIANS!
    (+bi girlies)*

BDSM Play Partner18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA Albany