Lap dancing is usually thought of as being a pretty vanilla pursuit, but there are plenty of fetishists who enjoy it as much as anyone else! It can actually be a fantastic act of service from a submissive partner to their dominant, or a fun way to get everyone going at a kink club or a fetish party. Fetish wear adds a certain frisson to the experience, and heavy use of kneeling, bowing and other inherently submissive moves can really add something to the experience. Couples who try out a little lap dancing often say it turns out to be a surprisingly intimate experience - so why not give it a go?
Stripping in the professional sense is a huge industry, but on a more personal level, the reality is quite different. Performing a striptease for your partner can be an intimate and sensual experience for you both.
Make sure you stick to clothes you can slip out of easily and sensually. Slowly pulling down a zipper to reveal your cleavage can be one of the sexiest things imaginable--but fumbling around with a bra clip behind your back probably wouldn't be. To get some pointers, you can also visit a strip club together and get inspiration from professional strippers.
If you're going to try striptease with your partner, try to keep it lighthearted and be prepared to laugh at yourself. Your show will work much better if you aren't too nervous about it!
Uniform play is a staple of the world of kink. There's something liberating about being able to take on a role and slip into a persona, particularly one that has been the subject of many of your fantasies. Police officers, schoolgirls and French maids are the staples of the genre - though there are, of course, hundreds of potential scenarios for you to explore!
Uniformed play often crosses over into other kinks and fetishes. Teacher/student might have a heavy element of caning, for example, while Nurse/patient often incorporates things generally associated with medical play. Whatever you're into, don't be afraid to experiment - exploration makes the world go round, after all.