Hello! I’m Nana (ฅ^•ﻌ•^ฅ), a 23-year-old age regressor from Indonesia, and I’m looking for a 100% platonic, deeply genuine caregiver. I’m genderfluid and use he/him pronouns (ʕ·ᴥ·ʔ).
Important Note: This is purely a platonic relationship. I’m seeking a caregiver role that’s entirely non-romantic and non-sexual (≧Д≦).
About Me:
I’m looking for a caregiver who shares my political beliefs and moral values, including feminism, socialism, and being pro-choice. It’s important to me that we connect on these principles, as they reflect the support and understanding I need. I have strong boundaries and value honesty and sincerity (INFJ-T).
My Interests:
I enjoy art, music (classical, indie, alternative, pop), history, literature, anime, cartoons, various aesthetics, photography, quiet places, spicy food, boba, TikToks, plushies, Sanrio, horror games, true crime, psychology, and drawing. I love deep conversations and exploring topics from all angles—if you’re still reading, send me the code “lontong padang” in your DM.
Health and Communication:
I have SLE, BPD, OCD, ADHD, and CPTSD, so I need extra understanding and patience. Due to my arthritis and mental health challenges, messaging can be slow, but I never ignore anyone on purpose. I’d appreciate a caregiver who is open to voice calls when possible.
As a Little:
I see myself as a child at heart—curious, resilient, and expressive. I yearn for a caregiver who can provide the protection, acceptance, and comfort I’ve missed. My interests in baby talk, imagination, cartoons, cute things, and comforting foods and drinks are all part of how I express myself when I feel safe.
What I’m Looking for in a Caregiver:
- Values-aligned: Feminist, socialist/leftist, pro-choice.
- Gentle and nurturing: Soft talks and coddling are important to me.
- Supportive: Understanding and validating my needs without judgment.
- Structure and routine: I need tasks and gentle discipline to feel secure.
- Patience and safety: I’ve been through a lot, and I need someone open to learning about my past without trying to “fix” or minimize it.
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Willing to learn: About my health issues and how best to support me.
What I Offer in Return:
- Appreciation, mutual respect, and a safe, judgment-free space to connect: I’m someone who listens deeply and accepts people as they are, offering understanding, willing to learn and support without judgment.
- Creativity and expressions of gratitude through art and thoughtful gestures: I love to show appreciation in meaningful ways, often through heartfelt and creative expressions.
- Strong loyalty and protectiveness: When I care for someone, I’m deeply committed to their well-being and happiness, ensuring they feel safe, valued, and supported in living their best lives.
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Honest communication and an open-hearted exchange of care and support: I believe in building a genuine, heartfelt relationship where both of us can grow, learn, and feel truly supported.
If this sounds like a good fit, I’d love to hear from you! (ฅ^•ﻌ•^ฅ)
