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What does gay mean?
Do you have to be male to be gay?
Am I gay if I fancy someone of the same sex?
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Traditionally, the term 'gay' refers to people who identify as men who date, sleep with and love only other people who also identify as men. Over the years, however, more and more people on the LGBT+ spectrum came to identify with the term; people of many gender identities and sexual orientations sometimes use it to describe themselves now. The controversy surrounding gayness has mostly to do with the fact that cis gay men are seen and portrayed very differently to many other LGBT+ people - and often wind up as the recipients of a huge amount of the acceptance, understanding, attention and publicity afforded to this group as a whole.

 What does gay mean?

Originally the word was used to mean cheerful, carefree or bright and showy. The name has changed over the centuries to mean someone attracted to a person of the same sex. And even more specifically to mean a man who is attracted to other men.

Do you have to be male to be gay?

No, the term has been heavily used to describe men who are attracted to men but it can be used by any sex or gender, it depends on the person as to what they label themselves.

Am I gay if I fancy someone of the same sex?

Only if you identify that way. It might be that you’re predominantly straight (attracted to a person of the opposite sex) or maybe bisexual if you like guys and girls alike. Only you can decide.

Is gay sex risky?

While gay men are at risk of catching HIV but if you use a condom, then this lowers the risk substantially and protects you from other STDs too. Otherwise sex with another gay person is as safe as having sex with a person of the opposite sex. Always practise safe sex!

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    Nikki_Hexy posted a topic in Gay BDSM & Kink

    What is your favourite kink? I see a lot of guys asking about golden showers, leather and even petplayers like myself. What got you hooked on your kink? When did you learn that you loved these fetishe ...

  • Any gay fetishists?

    leocadio posted a topic in Gay BDSM & Kink

    Just wondering if there are any... Let's start a group ...

  • Any gay females?

    LittlePeri posted a topic in Gay BDSM & Kink

    It seems rare to find gay female subs or gay female doms. Are there any out there? Do you guys find the same thing? ...

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    I would love to have a woman or trans that literally get so much pleasure anytime they do something or have me do something that destroys this pathetic life that I created. I know that I'm a loser I am very stupid and I will never be a man therefore I want to find a woman that will encourage me to always accept these things has really been my true self and try to get more and more stupid become more and more of a lane loser do everything you can to make me or help me become the biggest joke in my community and I don't care how before you go how mean you can be the evil things that you can come up with that normal people just would never do I will do them. I know I'm not a man and I know I'm not gay however an example of what I'm talking about is but you knowing that statement to be true I would love for you to come to me with a pair of panties and a bra as I'm putting them on by watching you rip my boxers up my clothes up you tell me from now on since I'm a little b** I will dress like one you will teach me to act like one I will go to work dressed the way you dress me and I want to make sure you start s*** or you love it then you tell me that you going to f* my ass at least three times a day because sissy don't have assholes they have p and you want my p to look just like yours so you'll stretch it out and then a God damn thing I can do about it I'll give you blackmail pay you whatever it takes but I'm not paying nothing up front I'll just let you have my paycheck every week I want you to cheat on me I want you to f as much as you possibly can and make it mandatory when I get home your p and your a** will be licked clean and ate very well my number is 910-605-6190 and unless you're really willing to either move in with me or let me know until you trust and believe that I'm homelessness I'm homeless I want her to fly I'm a weak white boy b**** and I want to be treated like one I want you to destroy my confidence I want you to destroy all my relationships help me get on the phone and say very vulgar nasty disrespectful things to my family my friends to make sure they never call me ever again they're never my friend ever again make it where you're the only one in my life make it where when you say I'm done with you get out of my house my life will be ruined destroyed there's no need for me to exist you destroyed me and that's what I want
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