After growing up in a household where sex was shamed, discovering BDSM helped Sienna Saint-Cyr to find self-acceptance and enjoyment when it came to her sexual life.
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While there's many causes and treatments of depression and mental health issues, some have found solace in what may appear to be an unlikely place: BDSM play. As someone living with chronic
A nibble on the neck or ear can be incredibly erotic. But what if your partner wants to go further and really sink their teeth in? Then they may be displaying a biting kink, AKA odaxelagnia. Victoria
Mummification bondage is the ultimate BDSM restriction kink, but it can also be a high-risk activity. So, how can you practise it both sexily and safely? Get your plastic wrap ready and let Victoria
Does size really matter? Well, if you're into macrophilia, then the answer is: hell, yeah! Members of our FET community with a fetish for giantess sex tell our very own dirtybird why it's a turn-on,
A glass of wine never hurts... or does it? Our BDSM advice guru Molly explains why it's particularly important to remain sober and fully conscious during BDSM play sessions.
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Do you like the idea of being kidnapped and used by your partner? Or maybe it's a burglar breaking into your home and holding you against your will? Whatever consensual non-consent (CNC) kink turns
Most of us have some level of body hair, be it on our heads or other places. And while some of us hate hair on ourselves or others, other kinksters are real fans of fur! Victoria Blisse cuts to the
Blindfolded, ball-gagged and bound to a bench, or cuffed to a swing overlooking a sedate lake? Outdoor bondage is all about being restrained in public. Alex Hopkins discusses prepping for public BDSM
Got a fetish for mammoth muscle? Discover more about the dynamics of muscle worship – or sthenolagnia to give it its proper name. And while gay muscle worship is clearly a big thing among males,
Spend any amount of time in the kink community, and eventually someone will refer to 'Old Guard' when talking about BDSM, and specifically Dominance and submission. But what does BDSM Old Guard mean?
If the idea of wanking in the woods or jerking off in public turns you on, you’re not alone. Indeed, outdoor masturbation is a common fantasy that many kinksters indulge in. But, as Victoria
Whether it's roughing it in the woods or banging on the beach, outdoors sex stirs up something primordial. But while outside sex is horny, it can be risky – legally. Fetish.com member DirtyBird
Masturbation doesn’t have to be repetitive. Combining meditation and tantric touch into your self-pleasure sessions can wake up your wanking. So, from reducing anxiety to discovering new erogenous
Orgasms. Who doesn't want more of them or even have multiple orgasms? Some people with vulvas have no problem coming, but others find it impossible. Victoria Blisse explores the secrets to ultimate
This month our BDSM advice guru Molly helps out one woman kinkster who is new to self-pleasure. From props to positions, discover some great female masturbation techniques and tips with our winning
Butt stuff is brilliant and pegging is fun, but sometimes you want to experience that same booty-loving pleasure alone. So, how do you get down with fingering your own asshole during anal
Are you loony for balloons? Does the thought of popping balloons or rubbing yourself with them turn you on? If so, you could be a looner: a kinkster with a balloon fetish. But is looning all about
Do belly buttons turn you on? If the idea of licking or playing with an innie or outtie during sex presses your buttons, these tips from Victoria Blisse will help you enjoy navel play or a belly
Within the kink community, the concept of Dom/me and sub are well understood, but there's also a vast diversity of what those words mean to us. This week, our resident advice columnist explains
Do you like the sound of sounding? Urethral sounding is often associated with penis play, but if you have a vulva, you can also enjoy it. Wanna know more? Victoria Blisse explains all about vaginal
Victoria Blisse explores the fetish of omorashi and finds out why so many kinksters are desperate to try pee desperation! Discover more about the pain and pleasure involved in this curious
Premature ejaculation can be an embarrassing – and distressing – condition that many men face at some point in their lives. However, there are techniques to combat it. Our resident advice guru
What is the ultimate act of control and domination? Some say that it is being in chastity. Many male subs enjoy the submission of being locked up in a male chastity cage; their orgasms controlled by
This men's health month we take a look at erectile dysfunction. Despite the shame surrounding impotence, there are ways BDSM and kink can help combat it and offer ways to enjoy sex without an