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How to Deal with a BDSM Breakup

A BDSM breakup can feel more intense than a vanilla split, but healing is possible. Whether you're a Dom, sub, or kinkster, this guide offers

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What is Gooning?

You may have recently heard of gooning, but what exactly is involved in this mastubatory method? Victoria Blisse discusses this trending topic and

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Rub Me the Right Way: Tribbing and Tribadism

What is tribbing and how is it different from scissoring? Victoria Blisse rubs her hands together in glee to give you all the juicy details on

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Molly's BDSM Tips | How Can I Find a New Partner into my Kink?

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Feel like you're the only one with your kink? Fear not, our BDSM advice columnist Molly, assists a Fetish.com member by helping him realise that his bondage kink is more common than he thinks, and

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Molly's BDSM Tips | How Do 24/7 D/s Relationships Work?

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Our resident BDSM advice columnist Molly comes to the rescue of a new Fetish.com member who needs clarity on how 24/7 D/s relationships work - and advises on the red flags to watch out

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Hard Face Slapping | Doing it Right

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Does the idea of hard face slapping as part of your BDSM play, terrify you or turn you on? Sienna Saint-Cyr shares her experiences of hard face slapping to help you understand this often

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Molly's BDSM Tips | My Partner Consents to BDSM but Doesn't Like it

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A Fetish.com member new to BDSM, asks our advice columnist Molly, for help on how to tackle the difficult issue of dating someone who only takes part in BDSM play to please the other, despite them

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Molly's BDSM Tips | How Do I Talk About Sissification with my Girlfriend?

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This week, a Fetish.com member asks our BDSM advice columnist Molly, if dressing up in kinky women's clothing is strange, and how to talk to his partner about exploring his interest in forced

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Molly's BDSM Tips | What are Hard and Soft Limits?

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This week, a new Fetish member asks our resident BDSM advice columnist Molly, for help on explaining hard and soft limits - and if it's ever acceptable to push boundaries. 

Dear Molly,

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Molly's BDSM Tips | How Do I Train My Sub When He's Married?

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This week, one Fetish.com member asks our resident BDSM advice columnist Molly, for tips on training her married sub and receives advice on how to define boundaries within their Dom and sub

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Why a BDSM Mindfuck is the Perfect Gift

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Not sure what gift to get that special sub-one? Instead of spending money on things, give the gift that keeps on giving: a mindfuck, says writer Kayla Lords.
 
A BDSM mindfuck in

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Molly's BDSM Tips | The Diverse Dynamics of Age Play

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This week, one of our members asks our resident BDSM advice columnist Molly, to explain more about the diverse dynamics that sit under the umbrella term of age play. Find out what she

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Molly's BDSM Tips | Do Subs Ever Seek Inexperienced Dominants?

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Often, we see subs new to the BDSM scene looking for experienced Dominants. But how common is it for seasoned subs to seek out and guide inexperienced Dom/mes? This week, one of our members asks our

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Molly's BDSM Tips | Where Can I Learn Rope Bondage?

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This week, our BDSM advice columnist Molly Moore gives a new Fet member some kinky advice on where they can learn rope bondage - and some useful tips on how to find a rope play partner.

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Topspace & Subspace Explained

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Subspace is well known by people within the BDSM scene, it’s an altered state of being where a submissive totally lets go and is under the complete control of their Dom. But have you ever heard of

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Molly's BDSM Tips | My Daddy Dom Has Gone Cold on Me

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Our resident BDSM advice columnist Molly Moore gives some sound advice to a Fetish.com member, who finds that her Daddy Dom/babygirl relationship dynamic suddenly changes after her Daddy Dom moves

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Fun with Forced Feminization | A BDSM Guide

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BDSM isn’t just about dungeons and chains, sometimes you’re looking for sub-one covered in frilly lace, cleaning your house and pleasuring your guests… Forced feminization or sissification is

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Dare to be Dunked? | Our Guide to Water Bondage

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Wanna get seriously wet? And, no, we don’t mean just in that way. Welcome to the world of helpless submission that is water bondage. We give you the lowdown on what it is, and how to stay within your

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Why Kink Shaming Isn't Cool & Kink Positivity Is

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Us kinksters are all a little on the outside of societal norms, which helps bind us as a community. It’s great to feel supported by others who understand what we love, and while being kink positive

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The Importance of BDSM Boundaries

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A life without limits sounds like something we should want. Boundaries are surely things that stop us from achieving the very best? We asked Victoria Blisse to explain why everyone should have BDSM

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Our Guide to Queening & the Power of Facesitting

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Facesitting, or queening, is a kink that’s been in the news recently with numerous tabloids taking a startlingly positive attitude to it. While this is all good news, we focus on the power of

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What is... Fart Fetishism?

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Fart fetishism is the sexual arousal by flatulence and while some people consider a fart fetish to be relatively niche, eproctophilia – to give it its formal name –  is possibly more common than you

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What is… Forniphilia? 

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Have you ever felt the urge to kneel in front of your partner to let them put their feet up on you or rest a drink? Maybe you’d like to be a human chandelier or lampstand? This desire to be human

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How to Keep Humiliation Play Hot and Humane

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We now know that emotional/psychological abuse can scar for a lifetime, but for some people, those words are exciting to play with. When engaging in humiliation play and degradation, certain words,

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Our Guide to Medical Fetish and Play

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Most of us played doctors and nurses as a kid, but for some of us, that childhood game develops into an adult sexual fantasy. But with uniforms, roles and tools to consider, here is our guide to

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What Makes a Perfect Dominant?

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What are the first qualities you think a dominant should possess? As we're about to explain, there's more than meets the eye to being a perfect dominant...
 
There are many qualities

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A Beginner's Guide to Financial Domination

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Thanks to the internet, the fetish of financial domination, or Findom, is growing. But with a mistress controlling the income of her slave – or pay pig – could the rewards lead to ruin instead?

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Ask Stella | BDSM Sex Tips | I Can't Do Without My Mistress

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New to BDSM? Need BDSM advice? No fear, intimacy educator, sex coach and author Stella Starlight's monthly advice column is here to help. This month, Stella responds to a fetish.com member who has

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