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How BDSM Can Help You Find Self-Acceptance

After growing up in a household where sex was shamed, discovering BDSM helped Sienna Saint-Cyr to find self-acceptance and enjoyment when it came to

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BDSM and Mental Health: Using Kink to Beat the Blues

While there's many causes and treatments of depression and mental health issues, some have found solace in what may appear to be an unlikely place:

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Odaxelagnia: Sink Your Teeth Into a Kink for Biting!

A nibble on the neck or ear can be incredibly erotic. But what if your partner wants to go further and really sink their teeth in? Then they may be

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Struggling for bondage ideas? Searching for fetish or BDSM advice? Let our BDSM guides and how-to's shine a kinky light.

Waxing Fetish: the Pleasures and Pitfalls

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There's always been a well-established body of waxing fetishists in the BDSM community. If you're looking to explore a potential waxing fetish, read on to discover more about the pleasures and

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Capnolagnia | The Sexy Seduction of Smoking Fetishism

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If watching another person light a cigarette or cigar and exhaling the smoke turns you on, then perhaps you have a smoking fetish (or capnolagnia, to give it the official name). Read on to find out

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Our Guide to Hair Play, Hair Pulling & Hair Bondage

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From twirling hair around fingers as a means to flirt - to having someone's fingers entwined in your locks when in a passionate embrace, hair has a significant place in sexual and kinky play. But how

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Molly's BDSM Tips | Is Dating a Cosplayer For Me?

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This week, our resident kinky columnist Molly helps out one FET member decide on whether dating a cosplayer would be a dealbreaker for them or not. Find out what Molly says.
 
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Sex Coach Interview | Dr. Celina Criss on Sex Coaching, Bratting and Kink

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While the urge for sex is naturally built-in for most of us, knowing how to enjoy it or be a great lover isn't. Similarly, learning to enjoy sex through individual experience can expose us to

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Playing Nice | Know Your BDSM Play Party Etiquette?

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Play parties and group sex require attention to detail, covering everything from privacy concerns to changing rooms and basic BDSM play party etiquette. So, whether you're going to a play party for

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What is Gaining Kink?

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Many people enjoy watching someone’s journey to bigger muscles for various reasons. Maybe they want exercise tips or motivation to make changes to their body. However, others enjoy body gains in a

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Molly's BDSM Tips | Should I Modify My Body for Mistress?

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Our BDSM advice columnist Molly returns to help one submissive assert his boundaries following a request from his Mistress to get a genital piercing. Should he modify his body to please her, even if

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Switch it Up | How Changing Roles Can Spice Up Kinky Play

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Just because someone might enjoy being a Top or bottom, or Dom or sub, doesn't mean they can't enjoy reversing the roles during kinky play. Indeed, by switching things up, sex can be much more

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Molly's BDSM Tips | How to Negotiate a BDSM Contract

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This week, our BDSM agony aunt Molly returns with some top tips for one FET member wanting to know the ins and outs of how to negotiate a BDSM contract. Read on for more!

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“Come, Spot!” | Our Guide to BDSM Puppy Play

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In one part of the BDSM universe, kneeling and calling "Come, Spot!" can take on an entirely different and often arousing meaning - welcome to the wonderful world of puppy play! But what draws people

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Dungeons & Fetish Clubs | A Guide to your First Time

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If you've never been to a fetish club or a bondage dungeon before, walking through the door for the first time can be daunting. However, even die-hard regulars were newbies once too. Read on for some

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Molly's BDSM Tips | How to Throw a Nyotaimori Party

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This week, our Molly is back with some helpful advice for one FET member who'd like to help his partner live out her nyotaimori fantasy. Discover what Molly suggests.
 
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Molly's BDSM Tips | How Can I Get My Kinky Stories Published?

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As part of our kinky literature month, our resident BDSM advice columnist Molly returns with tips for one FET member who wants to know how to go about getting their kinky stories published. Find out

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The Goddess of Online Findom Breaking Her Pay Pigs' Banks

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Mistress Marley quit her 9-5 job in New York to start findomming full time for a six-figure salary. Annalou spoke to her about the nonstop hustle of online findom – where she drains powerful men's

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Spank U, Next | Listen to our New BDSM Podcast Now!

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Spank U, Next: A Fetish and BDSM Podcast is ready for your ears! Brought to you by Fetish.com and the BDSM Training School, hosts Annalou and Gregor dive deep into the wonderful – and at times, weird

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Breast Bondage | A Kinky 101 

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People of all genders can enjoy breast bondage, but where exactly do you start? We asked Victoria Blisse to put together a breast bondage guide to help show you the ropes.
 
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BDSM and Feminism | Can Feminists Be Kinky?

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Continuing our International Women's Month theme, we asked author Zak Jane Keir to examine how BDSM empowers women to explore and play with their kinks and fantasies. And if you harbor kinky desires,

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Molly’s BDSM Tips for First Time Vaginal Fisting

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This week, one FET member would like to know how to go about vaginal fisting for the first time after receiving a request from his partner. Our BDSM advice columnist Molly shares her top fisting tips

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Playing with Power | How to Spot a Fake Dom

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Intimacy educator, sex coach and author Stella Harris tackles the issue of dealing with 'wannabe' or fake Dominants online - and gives her advice on how to spot them.
 
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Demystifying Fetishes: Erotic Hypnosis

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Almost every website and book has a slightly different description of what hypnosis is and whether it’s safe and works. Even medical opinions vs spiritual ones vary widely. So what is erotic hypnosis

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The Difference Between Fetishes & Fetishization

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Pretty much all of us here have fetishes - but that isn’t the same thing as fetishization. Writer Abi Brown is usually pretty hardcore on the concept that Your Kink Is Okay (and the way you want to

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New Year, New Play | What's on Your Kink Bucket List 2023?

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What's on your kink bucket list in 2023? It's not all gym memberships and fad diets – our BDSM writer Molly thinks about some fetish and BDSM play you could indulge in next

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Cock and Ball Torture | The Importance of Playing Safe 

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November men's health month (aka Movember) has come around again, and this time we want to talk about those ovoid dangly bits that often accompany penis owners - and along with them, the prostate

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Marking a Bond | Body Branding 101 

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Creating and wearing marks on flesh are often used and enjoyed parts of BDSM play. Generally, bites, scratches and bruises only last a short time, but some kinksters want to find a more permanent way

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