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How BDSM Can Help You Find Self-Acceptance

After growing up in a household where sex was shamed, discovering BDSM helped Sienna Saint-Cyr to find self-acceptance and enjoyment when it came to

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BDSM and Mental Health: Using Kink to Beat the Blues

While there's many causes and treatments of depression and mental health issues, some have found solace in what may appear to be an unlikely place:

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Odaxelagnia: Sink Your Teeth Into a Kink for Biting!

A nibble on the neck or ear can be incredibly erotic. But what if your partner wants to go further and really sink their teeth in? Then they may be

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Make an Impact | Level Up Your Caning Game

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Caning is a central element to many kinksters' BDSM practice. Fetish.com’s very own Victoria Blisse gives useful tips for mixing up your caning game to get more out of this beloved

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Molly's BDSM Tips | Getting Started with Needle Play

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Do you fantasize about your skin being penetrated by a needle? Or maybe you think about decorating your partner's body with needle work? Read our BDSM writer Molly's tips on how to get

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Cuckolding | What's The Appeal?

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While some people get turned on by the thought of their partner having sex with another person, cuckolding is a little more involved than threesomes or group sex. We asked writer Stella Harris to

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Molly's BDSM Tips | My Dom Wants a 'One Penis Policy' – I Don't

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To kick off Poly month here at Fetish.com, we're talking D/s dynamics and One Penis Policies (OPP). Is it OK for a Dom to demand their female sub only sleep with other woman – not men? Our BDSM

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Forced Sex Play | Exploring a Taboo & Extreme BDSM Fantasy

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Content Warning: Discussion of consensual non-consent and forced sex play. Fetish.com does not condone sexual abuse of any kind, and this article is about consensual play between consenting adults,

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Experiencing the Power of BDSM Through Erotic Hypnosis

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Ever thought about surrendering yourself to the power of erotic hypnosis? We spoke to Lady Tara from erotic-hypnosis.com about what to expect from a session, how you can live your fetish fantasy in

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Thinking About Kidnap Role Play? How To Live Your Fantasy

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It’s often thought that sex and kink should be kept in the bedroom, but sometimes it’s just not possible – especially if you have a kidnap fetish. How can you indulge in such risky kink play without

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Double Penetration | A Guide to Unlocking Intense Pleasure

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Double penetration (or DP as it is commonly known) is when one person with a vulva is penetrated by two penises at the same time: one in their vagina, and one in their anus. Our BDSM writer Molly

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Molly’s BDSM Tips | Anal Play & Mind-blowing Prostate Orgasms

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It's #PrideMonth and we're celebrating anal play and prostate orgasms in all their glory. But what's sexuality got to do with finding your P Spot? One FET member wants to dive deeper into the butt

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Molly’s BDSM Tips | Exploring Mutual Masturbation

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As we move into masturbation month this May, our Molly returns with some handy advice for one FET member who would like to explore mutual masturbation with their partner, but is having a hard time

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Our Guide to Fisting: Doing it Right 

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Have you been fascinated by fisting but worried it might be a finger too far? Not sure where or how to start, but want to get handy with it? Then this is the guide for you. For anal April, we asked

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History of the Dominatrix | Where did Femdom Come From?

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The Dominatrix is one of the most recognisable icons of the BDSM world. But where did these take-charge women come from? Writer Leo Larkin takes a look at the history of the Dominatrix.

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Molly’s BDSM Tips | How Should a Domme Dress?

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What kind of image comes to mind when thinking of a female Dominant? All latex, high heels and a whip? Well, out there in the wider world, many hold these kinds of preconceived ideas about how a

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How to Open Up to a Partner About Wearing Women's Panties

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Our resident BDSM advice guru returns with some top tips for one FET member looking for ways to tell his partner about his kink for wearing women's panties. Read on to find out what our Molly

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WAM! Get Wet and Messy with Our Guide to Sploshing

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For some people, getting covered in mud while playing sports is annoying. But, some kinksters take this to a whole new level and love to get wet and messy all on purpose! Sounds like fun? Maybe wet

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Ask a ProDomme | What Are the Most Common Fetishes?

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International Fetish Day takes place every third Friday in January, but this year we're celebrating fetishes all month! To kick us off, writer Zoë Tersche asked a former New York-based ProDomme what

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Molly's BDSM Tips on Domestic Discipline

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Our resident BDSM advice guru is back with some tips for one FET member looking for ideas on the subject of domestic discipline. Read on to find out what our Molly suggests.
 
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How to Give Yourself BDSM Aftercare

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Aftercare is an incredibly important part of any BDSM scene and everyone requires a slightly different kind of BDSM aftercare and amount of it. But what can you do if your Dominant isn’t able to give

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How BDSM Can Help Overcome Trauma

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Healing trauma takes many forms. People can overcome emotional distress in their own way, with common methods including talking to a therapist or mental health expert, taking medication, practising

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Molly's BDSM Tips | Making it as a Professional Mistress

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This week our kinky advice guru Molly gives some advice to one FET member who, after being a Mistress on the side, now wants to turn her passion into her profession. But as a single mum, what does

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Understanding Your BDSM limits | A Beginner's Guide

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'What are your limits?' is a question regularly asked within the kink scene. While it sounds quite simple, if you're new to BDSM, how do you know what your BDSM limits are? How do you work out what

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Using Pressure Points in BDSM Play

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Have you heard of pressure points? Often you hear them talked about as things to avoid, but pressure points on the body can be used for fun BDSM play when you know how - even in the no-hit zone

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Should We Stop Exploring BDSM Because of Past Hurt?

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What happens when past emotional issues are brought to the fore from indulging in BDSM play? Our kinky advice guru Molly shares her thoughts with one FET couple who, after exploring BDSM, are having

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Molly’s BDSM Tips | How to Find a Pro Domme

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Finding a Pro Domme or professional Mistress may sound straightforward enough, but there’s more to it than only doing a Google search. What do you need to consider, and how do you go about

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Our Guide to BDSM Chastity

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We turn masturbation month on its head and aim our gaze at BDSM chastity. If you're new to chastity or want to explore more about orgasm denial, kinky author M. Christian gives you the lowdown

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