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How to Deal with a BDSM Breakup

A BDSM breakup can feel more intense than a vanilla split, but healing is possible. Whether you're a Dom, sub, or kinkster, this guide offers

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What is Gooning?

You may have recently heard of gooning, but what exactly is involved in this mastubatory method? Victoria Blisse discusses this trending topic and

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Rub Me the Right Way: Tribbing and Tribadism

What is tribbing and how is it different from scissoring? Victoria Blisse rubs her hands together in glee to give you all the juicy details on

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Struggling for bondage ideas? Searching for fetish or BDSM advice? Let our BDSM guides and how-to's shine a kinky light.

A Guide To Tightlacing & Corsets For Men

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Tightlacing (or corset training) is the practice of wearing a tightly laced corset to experience physical restriction or achieve long-term body modification.  Although corsets are widely associated

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Figging | How To Ginger Up Your Partner

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Fed up with punishing your sub/slave with a simple whipping? Let’s spice things up a bit, in every sense of the word. Next time you're at the supermarket, pick up some ginger and try the ancient

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The Joys of Spreader Bars, Stocks & Immobilization Play

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Bondage is fun, for the top it brings control and for the bottom, complete surrender to their partner/s.  There is far more to bondage than cuffs and rope, so Victoria Blisse introduces you to the

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Urethral Sounding | Our Guide to Cock Stuffing

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Cock stuffing, or urethral sounding, involves inserting objects into the urethra. Some people like to do it as part of medical-themed BDSM play; some people do it for solo fun. MadameZ gives you the

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Impact Play Continued | Crops, Canes, Whips…Oh My!

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In impact play, you can use just your hand or an implement especially made to make you scream! Although some equipment can come across as a little foreboding, don’t worry, the secret to using

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Step On It | How To Trample Safely

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Whether it’s the edge of danger or the way it’s such an abject, absolute submission, a trample fetish is pretty powerful. For submissive men, the idea of being literally crushed underfoot by a

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BDSM Sex Tips | Leaving a D/s Relationship

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New to BDSM? Need BDSM advice? Not to worry, intimacy educator, sex coach and author Stella Starlight's monthly advice column is here to help. This month, Stella responds to a D/s relationship

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BDSM Knife Play | Testing Your Edges

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For kinksters who want to explore BDSM knife play, safety is absolutely crucial - and any exploration needs to be safe, sane and consensual. We asked Cameryn Moore for her recommendations for

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Ask Stella | BDSM Sex Tips | Edging & Edge Play

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New to BDSM? Need BDSM advice? Not to worry, author Stella Starlight's monthly advice column is here to explain things for you. This month, we look at the difference between edging and edge

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Take My Breath Away | A Breath Play Guide

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Breath play - or erotic asphyxiation - can literally take your breath away, but what is it? What are some important safety matters to consider? We asked kinky author Sienna Saint-Cyr shares her

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A Guide to Choke Play & Orgasm Control

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Can cutting off oxygen-rich blood to the brain really make your orgasms better?! We’ve asked author Sienna Saint-Cyr to share her personal experiences with us on choke play, asphyxiation, and orgasm

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What Goes Up Must Come Down | Subspace And Subdrop

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Subspace and subdrop are different for everyone. Some people never get there no matter how hard they try, and others seem to fall into it the moment they’re bound or gagged. We all have our own

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How does BDSM Sex and Spirituality Go Together?

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How do sex and spirituality go together? If Victoria Blisse received a pound every time someone asked how she can be a Christian and write erotica too, she'll respond,  'I'd be very rich indeed.' Her

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How Kinksters Benefit from Being Part of the BDSM Community

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New to kink? Wonder just how other fetishists find each other? Or perhaps you've been isolated and need a hand up? Fetish writer, Kayla Lords helps you find your way! Read on to find out more about

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5 BDSM Lifestyle Tips to Make the Kink Community Amazing

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Whether you're a newbie or a seasoned pro in the kink scene, it's always good to check in with how you're interacting with the community. We have some quick BDSM lifestyle tips to keep your kink life

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Demystifying Fetishes ​|​ Pansexuality Explained

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Heterosexual, bisexual, gay, lesbian, trans, we're all familiar with these terms - but what about pansexual? Writer Sienna Saint-Cyr takes a look.

 
Finding a place for pansexuality

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Sexual Torture Tips | Six Easy Ways to Play

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Safety in BDSM is a big deal, and sexual torture doesn't have to hurt in the wrong way. Writer, Abi Brown gives you six tips you can start using right away to play

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15 Strange Fetishes Explained

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You may think that you're slightly perverted if you're attracted to leather or rubber and enjoy being tied up by someone dressed as a nun. However, you're an absolute saint when compared to people

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5 Basic Bondage Ties You Need to Know

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We want you to get knotty! Whether you're new to ropes or a seasoned pro, catching up on the BDSM basics is always good. Here are the top five bondage ties you should know – and some devilish bondage

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Begging For Sex? Exploring Kink and Consent

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How do you ensure that there's no confusion about kink and sexual consent? Sienna Saint-Cyr explores boundaries, negotiation, and the joy of begging for sex.
 
Not too long ago, I

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How to Introduce Bondage Into Your Sex Life

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Are you curious about bondage, but in doubt about what it exactly is all about? And how do you introduce it to your partner? Those dipping their toes into bondage for the first time will have many

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Demystifying Fetishes | ABDL (or Adult Baby Diaper Fetish)

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We explore the world of ABDL- commonly known as adult diaper fetish. Amma and DippedUpMama open up and share their fond memories in the scene and some reasons why ABDL appealed to

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Molly's BDSM Tips | How Do I Talk About My Tights Fetish?

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Whatever your kink or fetish, sometimes it can be hard to gauge how an established (or potentially new) partner might react when introducing kink to the relationship. This week, our Molly hands out

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Molly's BDSM Tips | Should I Take My Cuckold Fantasy Further?

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Stuck on how to take cuckolding to the next level? This week, our BDSM advice columnist Molly helps out one of our members who'd like to take his cuckold fantasy from bedroom role play with his

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Molly's BDSM Tips | Am I Alone with My Blood Play Fantasies?

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This week, our BDSM advice columnist Molly gives one of our members looking to explore their blood play fantasies some guidance on how to live them out. Plus, some advice on finding someone to enjoy

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