If watching another person light a cigarette or cigar and exhaling the smoke turns you on, then perhaps you have a smoking fetish (or capnolagnia, to give it the official name). Read on to find out
From twirling hair around fingers as a means to flirt - to having someone's fingers entwined in your locks when in a passionate embrace, hair has a significant place in sexual and kinky play. But how
This week, our resident kinky columnist Molly helps out one FET member decide on whether dating a cosplayer would be a dealbreaker for them or not. Find out what Molly says.
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While the urge for sex is naturally built-in for most of us, knowing how to enjoy it or be a great lover isn't. Similarly, learning to enjoy sex through individual experience can expose us to
Play parties and group sex require attention to detail, covering everything from privacy concerns to changing rooms and basic BDSM play party etiquette. So, whether you're going to a play party for
Many people enjoy watching someone’s journey to bigger muscles for various reasons. Maybe they want exercise tips or motivation to make changes to their body. However, others enjoy body gains in a
Our BDSM advice columnist Molly returns to help one submissive assert his boundaries following a request from his Mistress to get a genital piercing. Should he modify his body to please her, even if
Just because someone might enjoy being a Top or bottom, or Dom or sub, doesn't mean they can't enjoy reversing the roles during kinky play. Indeed, by switching things up, sex can be much more
This week, our BDSM agony aunt Molly returns with some top tips for one FET member wanting to know the ins and outs of how to negotiate a BDSM contract. Read on for more!
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In one part of the BDSM universe, kneeling and calling "Come, Spot!" can take on an entirely different and often arousing meaning - welcome to the wonderful world of puppy play! But what draws people
If you've never been to a fetish club or a bondage dungeon before, walking through the door for the first time can be daunting. However, even die-hard regulars were newbies once too. Read on for some
This week, our Molly is back with some helpful advice for one FET member who'd like to help his partner live out her nyotaimori fantasy. Discover what Molly suggests.
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As part of our kinky literature month, our resident BDSM advice columnist Molly returns with tips for one FET member who wants to know how to go about getting their kinky stories published. Find out
Mistress Marley quit her 9-5 job in New York to start findomming full time for a six-figure salary. Annalou spoke to her about the nonstop hustle of online findom – where she drains powerful men's
Spank U, Next: A Fetish and BDSM Podcast is ready for your ears! Brought to you by Fetish.com and the BDSM Training School, hosts Annalou and Gregor dive deep into the wonderful – and at times, weird
People of all genders can enjoy breast bondage, but where exactly do you start? We asked Victoria Blisse to put together a breast bondage guide to help show you the ropes.
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Continuing our International Women's Month theme, we asked author Zak Jane Keir to examine how BDSM empowers women to explore and play with their kinks and fantasies. And if you harbor kinky desires,
This week, one FET member would like to know how to go about vaginal fisting for the first time after receiving a request from his partner. Our BDSM advice columnist Molly shares her top fisting tips
Intimacy educator, sex coach and author Stella Harris tackles the issue of dealing with 'wannabe' or fake Dominants online - and gives her advice on how to spot them.
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Almost every website and book has a slightly different description of what hypnosis is and whether it’s safe and works. Even medical opinions vs spiritual ones vary widely. So what is erotic hypnosis
Pretty much all of us here have fetishes - but that isn’t the same thing as fetishization. Writer Abi Brown is usually pretty hardcore on the concept that Your Kink Is Okay (and the way you want to
What's on your kink bucket list in 2023? It's not all gym memberships and fad diets – our BDSM writer Molly thinks about some fetish and BDSM play you could indulge in next
November men's health month (aka Movember) has come around again, and this time we want to talk about those ovoid dangly bits that often accompany penis owners - and along with them, the prostate
Creating and wearing marks on flesh are often used and enjoyed parts of BDSM play. Generally, bites, scratches and bruises only last a short time, but some kinksters want to find a more permanent way
Caning is a central element to many kinksters' BDSM practice. Fetish.com’s very own Victoria Blisse gives useful tips for mixing up your caning game to get more out of this beloved