Polyamory and D/s often go hand in hand. In a community like ours where anything goes, as long as it's consensual of course, there is an acceptance of ethical non-monogamy and poly relationships that
In the time of COVID-19, more of us are meeting online and perhaps having long-distance BDSM relationships. But if you're discussing with your partner(s) of leaping from online to full-time 24/7 when
When a slave or submissive uses the word 'Master' or 'Mistress' for the first time, it can be a formidable step in your D/s dynamic. We asked writer Sienna Saint-Cyr to share her personal experiences
One less-discussed aspect of kink and fetish are fetish families - groups of people that come together for a common purpose or fetish. But what are they and how do they operate? Writer Kayla Lords
It’s the spookiest time of the year, and you might think that dressing up is just for kids or parties. But what about taking a bit of Halloween inspiration into your sex life? Victoria Blisse shares
We're all about inclusion, so we wanted to take time to answer some of your questions about sexuality, disability & BDSM. As there seems to be a grey zone when it comes to understanding how to
Blackie Quebedeaux is a writer, poet, kinkster, and slave. He's also part of a large gay BDSM leather family and belongs to a house (the House of Normandie). Blackie and some members of his leather
Whether it’s in person or dirty talk online, it can be a bit awkward if you don’t know where to start. So we asked a professional. Former phone sex operator Cameryn Moore serves up five
Uninitiated submissives often say they’re looking for a Dominant to take care of them. They don't seem to realise that slave rules dictate submissives have responsibilities as well, says writer Kayla
Ever wondered what's behind a nylon stocking fetish? We asked writer, Kayla Lords takes a closer look at why nylon stockings are so sexy for a lot of us.
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You hear a lot of nonsense about the world of dominants and submissives - and make up even more in our heads. Our writer Abi Brown looks at what she wishes she'd known as a new BDSM
Of all the annual holidays, Halloween is the sexiest as well as the spookiest, which is great for us kinksters. While it’s a good time to bring your fetish wear out of the wardrobe and wear it with
Having children is a big milestone in any relationship and it comes with a huge amount of change. It changes parent’s sex lives but also their kink lives too. So how do you juggle your kinky life and
On a BDSM dating site, the only way you get to meet new kinksters is to reach out by sending that first message. But what should you write about? The kink community prides itself on prioritising
We've all heard the term at BDSM events, bandied about at play parties and in forums, but what does it mean to be "Primal"? Writer Blackie Quebedeaux sheds some light for those in the dark about
You've met the perfect person - the Dominant to your submissive. But they live in another time zone, across the country, or on another continent. We take a look at how you can make long-distance BDSM
At Fetish.com we like to demystify fetishes and build awareness of the different kinds of BDSM dynamics out there, including DDlg relationships. This next story follows a princess on adventures with
Let’s face it; kinky ads are hard to write. It’s challenging to work out what you want to put in about yourself and what you want to leave out. It becomes even harder when it’s BDSM dating. You want
Handling different levels of openness in kink relationships can be a challenging dynamic; what we share with the world, where we share it, and with whom. As a self-producing performer and writer,
As part of the BDSM community we’re constantly interacting with other kinksters, so how should you behave when you meet new people or even amongst your friends? What is kink etiquette and how do you
In the second part of our series about consent in BDSM, Cameryn Moore explains how having conversations about consent during a kink or bondage scene can enrich your
Some people think that a full-time D/s relationship is forever and ever, amen. “No more asking, we know the drill, and we certainly don’t need all that fuss about consent.” Truth time: successful
Halloween is just around the corner, it’s the spookiest, sexiest time of the year filled with invites to parties but what do you wear? Never fear, Victoria Blisse is here to give you some hot adult
Tattoos and piercings are becoming less taboo these days. We asked MadameZ to share her thoughts on how you can combine your kink or D/s relationship with a unique BDSM tattoo or
Body suspension is a practice closely linked to the world of extreme body modification. At first sight, it can look a little terrifying, not to mention dangerous. But what is it, exactly? Writer