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Lesbian Body Types: Beware of Stereotypes

If you're a woman attracted to other women, you'll see quite a few terms pop up once you hit the dating scene, such as lipstick lesbian, femme,

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Fat Positivity and Kink: Saying No to Body Shaming

Body shaming is everywhere. Whether it’s in advertising or even friends and family commenting on our bodies – it can feel like the world's against

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Public Kink: All Good Fun or Violating Public Consent?

There's a fine line between being kinky in public and violating public consent. Could your right to be who you are interfere with others' right not

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Bring the BDSM scene to your screen with the latest news from the kink community incl. features on the best fetish parties and BDSM clubs.

5 Things to Expect at Your First Fetish Party

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Attending your first fetish party can be nerve wrecking - but a whole new world of kink fun awaits. Whether you're into leather, PVC, or latex or more - we show you what to

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The Best Kinky Places to Play in the US

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From the generous BDSM play spaces of the West Coast to the underground (sometimes literally) BDSM scene in the Northeast, the US has plenty of kinky places to play - whether you're new to the kink

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Fetish interviews | Becoming a Dominatrix

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How far would you go to make a career change? Alison*, a former New York dominatrix, talks dungeons, Doms and making BDSM pay. What was the story behind her becoming a

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Spice Up Your Sex Life | Taking Your BDSM Play Out of the Bedroom

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Be you a kinky single novice, an adventurous couple, or a skill seeking triad; there comes a time when you're ready to spice up your sex life and take it to public play parties. Writer Zoë Tersche

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Choosing the Right S&M Collar

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S&M collars are an integral part of the bondage and fetish scene - but different collars signify different stages in a BDSM relationship. Our guide helps you choose the right S&M collar for

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Fifty Shades of Grey: Kink Shaming or Mainstream Fetish?

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As Fifty Shades of Grey fandom hits fever pitch, self-confessed sub and kink writer Abi Brown takes a closer look at the fetish-themed flick. Questioning the film's stereotypes, ending, and portrayal

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Fifty Shades Reviewed | An Alternative Reading

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Like many, Abi Brown lost the will to live when she sat down to read E.L. James's much-maligned Fifty Shades of Grey. Here she explores the book's many issues.

 
What is Fifty Shades

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Reconciling BDSM and Religion

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On the surface of things, the fetish lifestyle/BDSM and religion wouldn't appear to go hand in hand. So how do you reconcile sex and religion? Writer Zoë Tersche posed this question to Alex, a New

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How Fetlife Might Be Scaring Off Vanillas

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FetLife is one of the most popular kinky dating sites available. But is its emphasis on porn alienating members, asks Zoe Tersche.
 
Millions of members
FetLife is a bottomless

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How to Throw a BDSM Play Party That Rocks

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So, you’ve decided to throw a BDSM play party. But, before you get down and dirty, there’s a lot to consider if you want it to be a hit: inviting the right people, ensuring they know the rules,

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UK Porn Ban | Here's What You Need to Know

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With the UK porn law changing, specific sexual acts are no longer permitted in UK-produced porno films. With the banned list including verbal abuse, piss play, humiliation and fisting, how will this

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Robots? Aliens? Monsters? You've Got a Science Fiction Fetish

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Did you watch Star Wars or Alien and ended up getting turned on by the costumes and aliens? Then you may just have a science fiction fetish! With the cosplay scene growing fast, the interest in

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How to Get (Your Feet) Wet in the Fetish Scene, Part II: Munches

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Navigating the fetish scene in your local area isn't always easy, but luckily you have munches to help guide the (wicked) way. So, if you're just dipping your toes in the fetish and kink scene,

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How to Get (Your Feet) Wet in the Fetish Scene: Your First Kink Munch

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Navigating the fetish scene in your local city or town isn't always easy, but luckily you have munches to help guide the (wicked) way. So, if you're new to the scene thinking of attending your first

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Gender Bending: Top 10 Androgynous Icons

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From Marlene Dietrich to Boy George to RuPaul, the worlds of film and music have provided some true gender-bending icons over the years. Here, then, are our top 10 androgynous and cross-dressing

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Top 5 Fetish Festivals in the World

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Whether you're a newcomer to the fetish scene or an experienced fetishist, few things can match the shared experience from a fetish festival. The chance to get together with the global kink community

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Fetish: the scene and its fetish icons over the decades

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Fetish is timeless. Every decade has its own fetish icon and periods which have their individual elements of kink. To celebrate fetish through the ages, We take a look at fetish history from the

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Is fetish political?

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The fetish and kink scene can sometimes feel like we're simply enjoying ourselves. But according to this Fetish.com member, politics is deeply entwined in the fetish scene, from the legalities of

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My Life with a Body Piercing Fetish

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Be it in the ear, nose, tongue or belly button, there's one thing that gets this Fetish.com member horny as hell: body piercings! But when you have a body piercing fetish, how does it impact your

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The Top Four Most Common Fetishes

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Kinky fetishes are fun, and an increasing number of people are finding out that it can also be incredibly daring and exciting. So, for those just starting out, we introduce the most common fetishes

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Affordable Sex Toys and Kink on a Budget

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As us kinksters know, fetish wear and BDSM equipment can often be super expensive. Follow our how-to guide on kink on a budget and finding affordable sex toys, and you'll be able to play dirty

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Whatever Happened to the BDSM Night Club Scene?

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Nights such as Fist and Torture Garden used to attract kinksters in their thousands. But, with the rise of the internet and with fetish moving from the underground to the mainstream, the BDSM night

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The Fifty Shades Effect | 7 Ways It Has Changed BDSM Culture

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The book and film series Fifty Shades of Grey successfully brought fetish and BDSM into the mainstream. But is that necessarily a good thing? From whipping up the high street to spanking to educating

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Who is Dominatrix Goddess Hiliana?

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Goddess Hiliana is a dominatrix with a passion for dressing up. A fetish model, she's available for role play sessions, spanking, domination and a whole lot more. Read on to find out more about this

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What Happened to Fetish Icon Taylor St Claire?

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From humble beginnings, Taylor St Claire grew into a genuine porn star and a fetish icon. But whatever happened to her? We investigate how this femdom lover of bondage, rubber and leather can now be

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