Find kinky women in Noord-Holland

Hi! I'm Mrs Vendetta. Full time Brat (ahem I mean good girl..duh) Rope artist Baldie for a few years A bit chaotic & sometimes very extra Switch Cat mom of three. Currently not dating, I know.. it's sad right.
Female (33) Dordrecht, Zuid-Holland
I'm a sub who's new to this. i've Known quite some time that I'm into this stuff, but never tried it. and I'm socially awkward, I probably won't start the conversation, so sent me a message and I'll probably respond! (also I change my hair like almost every week lol, so it may not be accurate in the photos here)
Female (20) Obdam, Noord-Holland
Hello,before you send me a message remember that Im a goddess and you will treat me with respect. Iam looking for a sub who knows his place. **Desires and Fantasies** TPE,edgeplay,CBT,orgasm control,watersport,petplay,affectionate domination .....bdsm in general.
Like: nipple, clit & pussy ***, insertion, control, ***, tasks, dice roll, fap roulette. Seen a lot of things, curious to experiment toys: 9inch dildo, suction toy, inflatable butt plug, household items
Female (25) Amsterdam, Noord-Holland
Ik Meesteres Selma 59 jaar, ik ben een Volslanke Meesteres, Dominant, Eerlijk, Sadistisch, ben ruim 9 jaar Meesteres ben op zoek naar een serieuze slaaf die Mij 24/7 zal dienen, bij wie ik kan intrekken samen met mijn dieren en Slaaf ( wegens beëindiging relatie ) deze Slaaf kan niet veel meer door zijn ziekte en zware medicijnen is hij heel gauw moe wat mijn Slaaf nog doet voor mij, met mij mijn honden uit laten, te koken, mij gezelschap houden, hij is 65 jaar ( heeft eigen inkomen wat ik in beheer heb) en is al 7 jaar mijn Slaaf , Nu wil ik een 24/7 slaaf die mij volledig dient dus alles in en om het huis, en boodschappen etc een Slaaf met een woning landelijk gelegen, vrijstaande woning of boerderij , Of als je niet zo'n woning heb bereid zijn om een andere woning te kopen , zodra er een woning gekocht word blijft de woning van de Slaaf dit komt ook in het contract te staan, de Slaaf tekent alleen het koopcontract van de woning. Dit is wat ik o.a. heb. Spreidstang, Verschillende zwepen ( o.a. een zweep met ijzeren kettingkjes), Kaarsvet Tepelklemmen, Handboeien , Maskers, Electroset, Kuisheidsgordel ( CB-6000 met electrostimulatie) , Vibrerende buttplug, Strapon (virbrerend) , Ouderwetse Mattenklopper , Body bag , Pinwheel , Mondgags, Collar met pinnen etc Tepelklemmen , Hondenbench voor opsluiting Ball Butcher, Penispomp , Neukmachine , Middeleeuwse nekboei , Nek, Handen, Voetboeien aan 1 ketting van staal, Rekbank Tevens doe ik o.a. aan Vernederen, Faceslapping, Trampling, Ballbusting , CBT , Plassex, Etc Bdsm heeft mij veel te bieden, vele mogelijkheden, strenge regels, complete macht, sadistische creativiteit en spanningsopbouw. Natuurlijk vind ik het fijn om de touwtjes letterlijk en figuurlijk in handen te hebben, in controle te zijn en jou machteloos te maken, zodat je overgeleverd bent aan mijn verlangens. Ik voel mijzelf extreem machtig tijdens een sessie en dit geeft mij een bepaald erotisch genot. Wat houd 24/7 Slaaf bij mij in? Als Mijn 24/7 Slaaf stel jij jouw leven volledig in dienst van Mij. Het gaat jou niet om jouw wensen, jouw pleziertjes, jouw genot. Nee, jij snapt dat alleen Mijn gemak, Mijn genot en Mijn plezier van belang zijn, en jij put jouw voldoening uit Mijn tevredenheid over jou. Mijn 24/7 Slaaf zal zich namelijk VOLLEDIG aan Mij moeten overgeven. Zonder taboes, carte blanche. Eng? Vast en zeker, maar Ik leid jou. Als Mijn 24/7 Slaaf ben Ik jouw Eigenares, ben je Mijn bezit. Dat betekent dat alles wat van jou is, van Mij wordt. Dat zal natuurlijk niet van de ene dag op de andere gebeuren, dat gaat geleidelijk aan Ik leid jou naar een leven waarin jij niets anders bezit dan de kleren die je in de kast hebt hangen, je huis en de auto die voor de deur staat. Al het andere zal van Mij zijn. Wat verwacht ik van mijn 24/7 Slaaf ? Sociaal: je bent ongebonden, Familie / Vrienden bezoeken blijven mogelijk, sporten blijft ook mogelijk, maar je hebt wel Mijn toestemming nodig, ik zal je af en toe een vrije dag / weekend gunnen. Meesteres: je zorgt dat ik tevreden ben over je en blijf, je zorgt dat ik niets tekort kom, dat ik kan genieten op alle mogelijke manieren die ik wens en wil Wat betekent dat concreet? Dagelijks ga jij naar je werk om voor Mij te werken, Mijn inkomen te verdienen. Daarnaast moet jij het huis, de tuin en de bdsm ruimte schoon en opgeruimd houden. Je ruimt altijd de rommel op. Als Ik sessies heb gehad, dan ruim jij de bdsm ruimte op en maak jij alle spullen weer schoon. Ook doe je ’s avonds voor Mij werkzaamheden als die er zijn en mij bedienen uiteraad je bent als 24/7 Slaaf dus Mijn totaalslaaf: zowel Mijn werkslaaf, lustslaaf , huisslaaf, poetsslaaf, chauffeur etc . je zult Mij elke dag dienen en voor Mij werken en ploeteren, elke dag zal je Mijn macht over jou voelen. Maar verwacht niet dat Ik constant met de zweep in de aanslag jou op je vingers kijk. De ene dag zal Ik jou meer tijd en aandacht geven dan een andere dag. Ik vind het heerlijk om te relaxen, wetend dat Mijn Slaaf voor Mij werkt. je hebt je eigen kamer waar je slaapt en verblijft, Mijn privé ruimtes zijn voor jou verboden terrein, tenzij Ik je daarvoor opdracht geef. Female Led Relationship: Ik onderhoud met Mijn 24/7 slaven een zogenaamde ‘FLR’ relatie Een FLR relatie wordt een female led relatie genoemd, in het Engels female led relationship of female led relation. Een relatie waar de Vrouw centraal staat, en de belangrijkste beslissingen door de Vrouw worden gemaakt. Hoe ziet een Female Led Relatie met Mij eruit? In de relaties die Ik onderhoud met Mijn 24/7 Slaven bepaal Ik wat er gebeurt. Ik neem ALLE belangrijke beslissingen, zowel op financieel, sociaal als ook maatschappelijk gebied. Mijn 24/7 Slaven zijn VOLLEDIG van Mij afhankelijk, zijn Mijn bezit en eigendom. Of te wel, binnen een Female Led Relationship met Mij beheer Ik de financiën , bepaal Ik of Mijn Slaaf een afspraak mag maken buiten Mijn dienstbaarheid, werken mijn Slaven voor Mij, zowel in en rondom het huis als ook daarbuiten. FLR met Mij draait om Mijn gemak, Mijn plezier, Mijn welzijn. Als Ik het goed heb, komen Mijn slaven niets tekort. Ben jij die serieuze 24/7 Slaaf? Als jij overtuigd bent dat dit is wat je wilt en aankunt, stuur dan vlug een berichtje dan krijg je van mij een mail met mijn vragen die je moet beantwoorden. Je moet niet bang zijn voor honden aangezien ik honden heb, je krijgt een contract met huisregels en posities en je krijgt een sublijst die ingevuld moet worden, tevens registreer ik je in het slavenregister.
Female (59) Purmerend, Noord-Holland
Ik ben op zoek naar een onderdanige slaaf voor een totale verbondenheid op basis van vertrouwen en respect, degene die tot mijn beschikking staat zal de kans krijgen omdat ik deze dromen zou waarmaken
Female (30) Amsterdam, Noord-Holland
Words turn me on. please read my writing and write a response! Semi-fit intellectual seeks a master. I'm too smart for my own good: a spoiled brat who needs to be trained, disciplined, taught some manners and some goddamn gratitude. Please tell me how I can be of service. Into edging, arousal control, orgasm denial, being controlled. Please outsmart me. I need words, not pictures. I find language extremely sexy. Am very good with words so make me use them -- or not. Please be entertaining. I am usually the smartest person in the room but for fuck's sake, don't be intimidated by me.
Female (61) Den Haag, Zuid-Holland
## Note #### 1. Let's get this out of the way first to avoid any confusion, I'm a trans woman and post-op. Curious what I look like while photos are still out? Scroll down and read about it in "Visuals". I have a problem being used as someone's trans kink/fetish/fantasy, so don't send me a message if you wanna focus on that. **Try and you'll get blocked.** #### 2. Don't send me a friend request if we haven't met in real life or have had a proper conversation online ## About me INFP-T | ☀ ♌ | ☾ ♍ | ️↑ ♏ | Neurodivergent | LGBTQIA+ My name is Nyla (she/they), I'm a strong-minded woman that knows what she wants and can have a very strong opinion. I'm a beginning soft Domme, Rigger and Owner, with a focus on a personal approach. I'm driven and committed to educate myself, to keep learning and keep on improving. I value respect, open communication and honesty. I'm considered to be a very calm and in control person. I got quite some kinks and a few fetishes I'm looking to explore further. And while I seem to stay on the Domme side of a D/s dynamic, I do notice to switch in a top/bottom sense. I'm looking to learn and experience, to expand my social circles within the kink/fetish community, meet new people and if things click, perhaps even some kind of dynamic. For me my attraction goes deeper and wider than just sexual attraction, so please note my **sexuality** when you want to contact me. A mental/emotional connection is important to me to be able to have any type of dynamic. I'm homoflexible pansexual with primarily a sexual and sensual attraction towards women and non-binary & trans people. So, apparently I'm 49% a Switch, is that like a true switch or just half a switch? ## Outside of Kink I'm a very creative person and enjoy creativity in the broadest sense of the word. I'm a programmer, so creating solutions through hardware, soldering and programming is a fun way to incorporate my profession into my hobbies. Sewing, crafting, ***ting, drawing, digital design, 3D modelling and printing, electronics and much more are things I enjoy doing. I'm very ambitious and always try to learn a new skill or strengthen and improve upon the skills I already have. Besides that, I enjoy socialising with friends, meeting new people, staying in to watch a series or a film, going out for drinks and food, attend a festival or go to a concert. My music taste is almost as broad as my creative interests, but my main genres are hard/rock, country, trance, melodic/film and certain kinds of electronic. Just as within Kink, in the vanilla day-to-day life I invest in the people dear to me. Truly get to know them, help uplift their lives and focus on the integral connection between people. ## Visuals While there currently isn't a picture, let me describe myself: I'm 5'10", with a bit wider build structurally and an average body, where as I'm currently working towards a more slim/athletic build, as far as that's possible. Firm trained legs, a well rounded firm bottom and flat hips. B-cup breasts, but that's planned on changing in the near future ;) A soft feminine, bit more rounded oval face with a softer facial structure, brown/green eyes with a grey accent, long bra strap length hair which through the seasons fluctuates between brown and dark blonde with natural highlights. My every day dress sense is between classical feminine and athletic-comfy. ## For anyone: **DON'T** try to *** me into being your Domme. Also, don't be rude and bombard me with honorifics I did not ask for. **DON'T** try and absorb and *** my time for your own pleasure. **DON'T** *** your service onto me. If I'm interested, trust me, I'll let you know. **DO** put in the effort to get to actually know me, what I'm looking for and what my wishes and needs are, as I'll invest my time into you to get to know you. **DO** show why you are worth my time. I'm a very busy person, but I always try to make time for people that show they are worth it. If you are a sub, rope model, pet or little looking for a Domme, Rigger, Owner or Mommy/Caregiver, and are interested in me, come and get to know me! I'm open for new contacts, so let's find out if we would be a good fit for each other. ## Chat #### Before you messsage me: Please put some effort in your messages. Leave your one-liner and empty 'hey', 'hi', 'you alright' at the door. Those will most likely be ignored or at most be answered in a very short and distanced manner. EN or NL. I'm very openminded, can be sweet and soft, but can also hard, stern and dominant. Send me a message and find out which side of me you will bring up. #### Results from bdsmtest.org (05-01-'22) 1. **87% Dominant** 2. **86% Rigger** 3. **85% Owner** 4. **85% Mommy** 5. **84% Experimentalist** 6. **76% Mistress** 7. **73% Voyeur** 8. **70% Sadist** 9. **65% Brat tamer** 10. **64% Non-monogamist** 11. *51% Primal (Hunter)* 12. *49% Vanilla* 13. *49% Switch* 14. *22% Masochist* 15. *21% Exhibitionist* 16. *11% Submissive* 17. *9% Pet* 18. *8% Degrader* 19. *0% Brat* 20. *0% Primal (Prey)* 21. *0% Girl* 22. *0% Rope bunny* 23. *0% Degradee* 24. *0% Slave* 25. *0% Ageplayer*
Female (29) Rotterdam, Zuid-Holland
Text me only if you're willing to be treated like a dog, you'll be kissing my feet a lot, taking many insults, and other activities that prove how inferior you are. Tell me how you'll degrade yourself when we meet 💅🏻 entertain me
Female (20) Amsterdam, Noord-Holland
Hi there! I decided to become a member of this website because my partner (26m) and I (22f) are struggling with different sexual needs. By joining this website, I hope to find out if and how we can make our relationship work despite/while fulfilling those needs. Currently we're not looking for any romantic or sexual dates, but I'm always open for friendship and conversations! :gift_heart:
Female (22) Rotterdam, Zuid-Holland
Hii, I'm Mayaa, But you can call me Red Kitten!! 🍓🐱 I'm in a loving bdsm Sapphic relationship. And I'm just new to kittenplay. I like to meet more people who are into bdsm or petplay ✨️
Female (22) Purmerend, Noord-Holland
Hot experienced sensual domme, occasional switch in LTR seeks bottom or switch for play and/or ultimately lifestyle LTR **Desires and Fantasies** total power exchange
Female (55) Amsterdam, Noord-Holland
I am a 21 year old African Goddess looking for an obedient white sub to *** for my own pleasure When you message me, introduce yourself properly: ✔️ State your age (30+ only) ✔️ What you are interested in ✔️ Date & time of the session
Female (21) Amsterdam, Noord-Holland
I’m a ***less, open-minded Big Arab Woman— My curves are made to be admired and worshipped, but don’t mistake my softness for weakness. I’m both a temptress and a dominant ***, yet I know how to surrender when the moment calls for it. I crave the intoxicating dance of control and submission, where the line between giving and taking blurs in the most delicious ways. I’m drawn to older men—those who know what they want and aren’t afraid to take it. But don’t mistake my attraction for submission alone. I’m a mistress at heart, relishing in the psychological games that make your pulse race and your mind submit before your body ever does. There’s nothing quite like the power exchange that comes from seeing a strong man brought to his knees, ready to be taught and tamed. Anal pleasure is one of my favorite ways to push boundaries and challenge your sense of control. I take pride in guiding you through your own vulnerability—watching your resolve crumble as you give in to the sensations only I can deliver. I’ve yet to experience the thrill of swinging with a couple, but the idea of exploring uncharted territory with adventurous souls excites me. I’m always open to new challenges and crave the unexpected. There’s a darker, ritualistic side to my pleasure—something primal and forbidden that resonates with the raw, unapologetic energy of satanic themes. It’s not just about the act; it’s about invoking something powerful and unrestrained, where pleasure becomes a form of worship, and every moan a hymn to liberation. If you’re intrigued—if you’re daring enough to explore this world with me—then step forward. Show me you’re ready to surrender… or to dominate, if you dare.
Female (35) Amsterdam, Noord-Holland
Helloo there, it's a new kinky day . Enjoy to the max. It is great to exchange power of trust and respect. **Desires and Fantasies** Meeting people like mind.
Female (42) Amsterdam, Noord-Holland
trying to expand my view on kinks! ❄️🐇 ️!! PLEASE do not speak dutch to me. ESPECIALLY sexually. ️!! PLEASE stop messaging me calling me “ur slut” or anything similar. 🌸) about me hii! im Alli, a young girl who’s always dreamt of kink and having her own D/S relationship. Im 5’7/170 and still loves to wear heels and platforms. Dressing up, doing makeup, getting my nails, lashes and hair done is all things i adore doing! 🌷)what im looking for I’m looking for something more serious in the long run, but also down to meet up and make tapes! i love going shopping and checking out new places x3 a D/S relationship or anything heavily surrounded by kink sounds perfect to me. I’d enjoy being able to loose all control that i’d normally need to have in my daily life. i also prefer older guys 🙃 (24-32 preferred) ❤️‍🔥) my kinks abduction as seduction; scratching; accidental stimulation; public sex / kink; high heels (wearing); anal; toys under clothing; anal training; big height differences (in my case, taller than me); choking / breathplay; raw sex / barebacking; begging; bondage; body mods; nipple play / slapping, etc; pussy play / slapping, etc; caning; edging; collaring; CNC; corsetry; tearing up / crying; rough BJs / face fucking; hair pulling; discipline; dirty talking; name calling; nicknames; public collaring; DP / DVP; receiving ***; bruising; marking; body writing; emotional play; pet play; mindfucking; praise / degrading; and so much more!! 💋) what am I? I definitely find myself more of a brat, definitely at the start. depending on the person and how they handle it i could also be a service sub, masochist sub. overall im definitely a SAM (smart-assed/masochist). i will consistently tease u, be sarcastic, bratty, mock u, etc. purely to receive physical *** and / or punishment 😇 If u expect a submissive who will do whatever u say without putting up a fight, we will not be a match.
Female (18) Rotterdam, Zuid-Holland
hey! i am new here. i am a shy sub trans woman who is open to explore. i may be shy and timid, but dont be fooled. i can let out my dom side as well :3
Female (21) Noordhoek, Noord-Brabant
Hi - I'm Dollface! Available only in English and not submissive. Here is a little bit about me in- and outside of this app! . I have a stressful job during the day, which requires me to have thick skin, excert a lot of my dominance, take decisions, and have a lot of responsibility. It's exhausting.😮‍💨 . Because of this, there is nothing more I want at the end of my day than to be picked from work and driven home, where I will be taken care of.🥰☺️✨️ . I have a very dynamic FemDom personality, which switches from being a "Goddess" to being a "Princess". In both cases, I like being worshipped, praised, pampered, and tended to, all while having a dominant man wrapped around my finger. . I prefer getting to know someone first and building a strong mutual connection before getting into the kink of it. I'm not exclusively looking for a partner, but also making friends in the community. . What makes me feel more powerful: > -Full body worship (incl. having my feet praised and making someone weak with them). > -Receiving Domestic Servitude (e.g. car rides, cooked meals, cleaning service, foot rubs). > -Having masculine men that dominate in the vanilla world submit to me (physically fit). > -Dominating through my words, as it shows that my sub is more devoted and disciplined, making me feel more in control than a domme that has to expend more energy and use ***. Can we make a connection? (incl. friends): > -I love trying new foods, so the restaurants in my area should be afraid of me (and you)? > -I want to start going to the gym but I need someone to coach me (boxing and calisthenics catch my eye!). > -I am currently learning for my motorcycle license. > -I want to build a kick-aas duo with a fellow feminine and petite woman. @LilMissDollface_
Female (24) Eindhoven, Noord-Brabant
exchange student from the us 🇺🇸 4'11, bisexual, korean & japanese. into soft & hard kinks!! obsessed with size difference and hung men >< mainly looking for hookups and fwbs but open for anything!! :3
Female (18) Amsterdam, Noord-Holland
Hello! My name is Mia. I am 23 years old and within the last year I have been exploring the kink world. I am quite sure that I am into a ddlg relationship and I am looking for a Daddy. I am quite into being a little. I like having plushies, play time, having a pacifier and all. I am a very sweet person, so I am not looking for ONS or sex only. I am interested in a genuine connection. I like to receive rules and homework because it gives me order in my life. I am also not necessarily looking for a monogamous relationship, but that depends on the dynamic and can be discussed. What I am looking for in a Daddy: I know this might sound specific and maybe a bit shallow but I like clarity in communication. I am looking for someone who is genuinely going to love me and take care of me. Take care does not mean that you have to spend all your *** on me and I am actually not interested in that. For me that means caring for me like a parent would but then building a much deeper connection. I believe that being a Dominant like that takes a lot of effort and I am looking into rewarding that every day. It means spending time and energy into one person, almost like a project. And from my side it means committing to one person fully and submitting all of myself. I would like to ideally find someone who shares the same interests as me. I am quite sporty (I am a circus aerialist and on my journey to become a pole dancer as well). I am quite fit and flexible. Other than that I am quite nerdy. I play DND and I enjoy videogames a lot. At the moment I am playing BG3 and The Witcher 3 almost daily. I like comedy shows, escape rooms, anything that is both adventurous and geeky basically. I would also consider myself pretty, without necessarily being vain. And that is something that I care a bit about (I know it makes me sound a bit shallow) but I do think that there needs to be also physical attraction for it to work. I don't know how to define what I consider "hot" but let me tell you that I don't think I have unrealistic standards. For one I don't care how tall you are. Of course it is nice and would make me feel even more little but it does not matter. I am quite short (1.52 cm) so that also helps. I am often attracted by emotional maturity and by someone who has many hobbies and who can challenge me intellectually. Especially as a little I like the feeling that I am learning from my Daddy. Also, I know this message is long and thanks for reading if you still are but please don't think you have to check all the boxes because this is not what this is about. Love, Mia
Female (23) Hilversum, Noord-Holland
In my fantasies I have a clear view of what I want, now I want to find out here if I can live them out.. condition for connection: you need to be a feminist and 100% respectful towards women in real life. I am looking for a Dom to push boundaries.
Female (32) Amsterdam, Noord-Holland
Im not searching anymore.. But like minded people can write! I have an open relationship. My partner is fully aware of what im doing. I expect this also from you. I dont like to do things in hiding. Personally i dont have a mommy fetish so be aware of the age difference. Note: with only saying hi to me, you don't trigger me to respond. Niet meer op zoek... Maar gelijkgestemden kunnen altijd schrijven. Ik heb een open relatie waarbij mijn partner volledig op de hoogte is, dit verwacht ik ook van jou. Ik hou niet van stiekem doen. Persoonlijk heb ik geen mamma fetish, kijk alsjeblieft een beetje naar het leeftijdsverschil. Een tip: met alleen hoi zeggen word ik niet getriggerd om te reageren.
Female (51) Rotterdam, Zuid-Holland
I’m finishing up my studies here, and will be leaving the Netherlands in June! until then I’m open to making new friends, short term commitments and FWB situations
Female (22) Rotterdam, Zuid-Holland
Hi there nice to meet you! I'm from Japan and currently working in the Netherlands! I'm someone with quite some experience in the BDSM scene. I haven't nearly tried everything but enough to know what really gets me into it. Trying to expand my network and get to know more people in this beautiful world! I'm mostly into bondage. Getting tied up, gagged and being *** in front of my captor is the most exciting thing to me. Beside that I also love to dress up: a sexy dress, maid outfit, or a kitty? Personality wise I'm more on the shy/petite side but I'm one hell of a people pleaser. I'm not happy until you are! Even though I love to be pampered and cuddled, people told me I have a slight mommy side as well where I like to take care of them, cook for them or embracing them in my arms(I'm quite clingy to people I like)
Female (25) Zaandam, Noord-Holland

New members in Noord-Holland

I’m a ***less, open-minded Big Arab Woman— My curves are made to be admired and worshipped, but don’t mistake my softness for weakness. I’m both a temptress and a dominant ***, yet I know how to surrender when the moment calls for it. I crave the intoxicating dance of control and submission, where the line between giving and taking blurs in the most delicious ways. I’m drawn to older men—those who know what they want and aren’t afraid to take it. But don’t mistake my attraction for submission alone. I’m a mistress at heart, relishing in the psychological games that make your pulse race and your mind submit before your body ever does. There’s nothing quite like the power exchange that comes from seeing a strong man brought to his knees, ready to be taught and tamed. Anal pleasure is one of my favorite ways to push boundaries and challenge your sense of control. I take pride in guiding you through your own vulnerability—watching your resolve crumble as you give in to the sensations only I can deliver. I’ve yet to experience the thrill of swinging with a couple, but the idea of exploring uncharted territory with adventurous souls excites me. I’m always open to new challenges and crave the unexpected. There’s a darker, ritualistic side to my pleasure—something primal and forbidden that resonates with the raw, unapologetic energy of satanic themes. It’s not just about the act; it’s about invoking something powerful and unrestrained, where pleasure becomes a form of worship, and every moan a hymn to liberation. If you’re intrigued—if you’re daring enough to explore this world with me—then step forward. Show me you’re ready to surrender… or to dominate, if you dare.
Female (35) Amsterdam, Noord-Holland
Text me only if you're willing to be treated like a dog, you'll be kissing my feet a lot, taking many insults, and other activities that prove how inferior you are. Tell me how you'll degrade yourself when we meet 💅🏻 entertain me
Female (20) Amsterdam, Noord-Holland
I am a 21 year old African Goddess looking for an obedient white sub to *** for my own pleasure When you message me, introduce yourself properly: ✔️ State your age (30+ only) ✔️ What you are interested in ✔️ Date & time of the session
Female (21) Amsterdam, Noord-Holland
Hii, I'm Mayaa, But you can call me Red Kitten!! 🍓🐱 I'm in a loving bdsm Sapphic relationship. And I'm just new to kittenplay. I like to meet more people who are into bdsm or petplay ✨️
Female (22) Purmerend, Noord-Holland
Hi there! I decided to become a member of this website because my partner (26m) and I (22f) are struggling with different sexual needs. By joining this website, I hope to find out if and how we can make our relationship work despite/while fulfilling those needs. Currently we're not looking for any romantic or sexual dates, but I'm always open for friendship and conversations! :gift_heart:
Female (22) Rotterdam, Zuid-Holland
Ik ben op zoek naar een onderdanige slaaf voor een totale verbondenheid op basis van vertrouwen en respect, degene die tot mijn beschikking staat zal de kans krijgen omdat ik deze dromen zou waarmaken
Female (30) Amsterdam, Noord-Holland
Like: nipple, clit & pussy ***, insertion, control, ***, tasks, dice roll, fap roulette. Seen a lot of things, curious to experiment toys: 9inch dildo, suction toy, inflatable butt plug, household items
Female (25) Amsterdam, Noord-Holland
Words turn me on. please read my writing and write a response! Semi-fit intellectual seeks a master. I'm too smart for my own good: a spoiled brat who needs to be trained, disciplined, taught some manners and some goddamn gratitude. Please tell me how I can be of service. Into edging, arousal control, orgasm denial, being controlled. Please outsmart me. I need words, not pictures. I find language extremely sexy. Am very good with words so make me use them -- or not. Please be entertaining. I am usually the smartest person in the room but for fuck's sake, don't be intimidated by me.
Female (61) Den Haag, Zuid-Holland
Ik Meesteres Selma 59 jaar, ik ben een Volslanke Meesteres, Dominant, Eerlijk, Sadistisch, ben ruim 9 jaar Meesteres ben op zoek naar een serieuze slaaf die Mij 24/7 zal dienen, bij wie ik kan intrekken samen met mijn dieren en Slaaf ( wegens beëindiging relatie ) deze Slaaf kan niet veel meer door zijn ziekte en zware medicijnen is hij heel gauw moe wat mijn Slaaf nog doet voor mij, met mij mijn honden uit laten, te koken, mij gezelschap houden, hij is 65 jaar ( heeft eigen inkomen wat ik in beheer heb) en is al 7 jaar mijn Slaaf , Nu wil ik een 24/7 slaaf die mij volledig dient dus alles in en om het huis, en boodschappen etc een Slaaf met een woning landelijk gelegen, vrijstaande woning of boerderij , Of als je niet zo'n woning heb bereid zijn om een andere woning te kopen , zodra er een woning gekocht word blijft de woning van de Slaaf dit komt ook in het contract te staan, de Slaaf tekent alleen het koopcontract van de woning. Dit is wat ik o.a. heb. Spreidstang, Verschillende zwepen ( o.a. een zweep met ijzeren kettingkjes), Kaarsvet Tepelklemmen, Handboeien , Maskers, Electroset, Kuisheidsgordel ( CB-6000 met electrostimulatie) , Vibrerende buttplug, Strapon (virbrerend) , Ouderwetse Mattenklopper , Body bag , Pinwheel , Mondgags, Collar met pinnen etc Tepelklemmen , Hondenbench voor opsluiting Ball Butcher, Penispomp , Neukmachine , Middeleeuwse nekboei , Nek, Handen, Voetboeien aan 1 ketting van staal, Rekbank Tevens doe ik o.a. aan Vernederen, Faceslapping, Trampling, Ballbusting , CBT , Plassex, Etc Bdsm heeft mij veel te bieden, vele mogelijkheden, strenge regels, complete macht, sadistische creativiteit en spanningsopbouw. Natuurlijk vind ik het fijn om de touwtjes letterlijk en figuurlijk in handen te hebben, in controle te zijn en jou machteloos te maken, zodat je overgeleverd bent aan mijn verlangens. Ik voel mijzelf extreem machtig tijdens een sessie en dit geeft mij een bepaald erotisch genot. Wat houd 24/7 Slaaf bij mij in? Als Mijn 24/7 Slaaf stel jij jouw leven volledig in dienst van Mij. Het gaat jou niet om jouw wensen, jouw pleziertjes, jouw genot. Nee, jij snapt dat alleen Mijn gemak, Mijn genot en Mijn plezier van belang zijn, en jij put jouw voldoening uit Mijn tevredenheid over jou. Mijn 24/7 Slaaf zal zich namelijk VOLLEDIG aan Mij moeten overgeven. Zonder taboes, carte blanche. Eng? Vast en zeker, maar Ik leid jou. Als Mijn 24/7 Slaaf ben Ik jouw Eigenares, ben je Mijn bezit. Dat betekent dat alles wat van jou is, van Mij wordt. Dat zal natuurlijk niet van de ene dag op de andere gebeuren, dat gaat geleidelijk aan Ik leid jou naar een leven waarin jij niets anders bezit dan de kleren die je in de kast hebt hangen, je huis en de auto die voor de deur staat. Al het andere zal van Mij zijn. Wat verwacht ik van mijn 24/7 Slaaf ? Sociaal: je bent ongebonden, Familie / Vrienden bezoeken blijven mogelijk, sporten blijft ook mogelijk, maar je hebt wel Mijn toestemming nodig, ik zal je af en toe een vrije dag / weekend gunnen. Meesteres: je zorgt dat ik tevreden ben over je en blijf, je zorgt dat ik niets tekort kom, dat ik kan genieten op alle mogelijke manieren die ik wens en wil Wat betekent dat concreet? Dagelijks ga jij naar je werk om voor Mij te werken, Mijn inkomen te verdienen. Daarnaast moet jij het huis, de tuin en de bdsm ruimte schoon en opgeruimd houden. Je ruimt altijd de rommel op. Als Ik sessies heb gehad, dan ruim jij de bdsm ruimte op en maak jij alle spullen weer schoon. Ook doe je ’s avonds voor Mij werkzaamheden als die er zijn en mij bedienen uiteraad je bent als 24/7 Slaaf dus Mijn totaalslaaf: zowel Mijn werkslaaf, lustslaaf , huisslaaf, poetsslaaf, chauffeur etc . je zult Mij elke dag dienen en voor Mij werken en ploeteren, elke dag zal je Mijn macht over jou voelen. Maar verwacht niet dat Ik constant met de zweep in de aanslag jou op je vingers kijk. De ene dag zal Ik jou meer tijd en aandacht geven dan een andere dag. Ik vind het heerlijk om te relaxen, wetend dat Mijn Slaaf voor Mij werkt. je hebt je eigen kamer waar je slaapt en verblijft, Mijn privé ruimtes zijn voor jou verboden terrein, tenzij Ik je daarvoor opdracht geef. Female Led Relationship: Ik onderhoud met Mijn 24/7 slaven een zogenaamde ‘FLR’ relatie Een FLR relatie wordt een female led relatie genoemd, in het Engels female led relationship of female led relation. Een relatie waar de Vrouw centraal staat, en de belangrijkste beslissingen door de Vrouw worden gemaakt. Hoe ziet een Female Led Relatie met Mij eruit? In de relaties die Ik onderhoud met Mijn 24/7 Slaven bepaal Ik wat er gebeurt. Ik neem ALLE belangrijke beslissingen, zowel op financieel, sociaal als ook maatschappelijk gebied. Mijn 24/7 Slaven zijn VOLLEDIG van Mij afhankelijk, zijn Mijn bezit en eigendom. Of te wel, binnen een Female Led Relationship met Mij beheer Ik de financiën , bepaal Ik of Mijn Slaaf een afspraak mag maken buiten Mijn dienstbaarheid, werken mijn Slaven voor Mij, zowel in en rondom het huis als ook daarbuiten. FLR met Mij draait om Mijn gemak, Mijn plezier, Mijn welzijn. Als Ik het goed heb, komen Mijn slaven niets tekort. Ben jij die serieuze 24/7 Slaaf? Als jij overtuigd bent dat dit is wat je wilt en aankunt, stuur dan vlug een berichtje dan krijg je van mij een mail met mijn vragen die je moet beantwoorden. Je moet niet bang zijn voor honden aangezien ik honden heb, je krijgt een contract met huisregels en posities en je krijgt een sublijst die ingevuld moet worden, tevens registreer ik je in het slavenregister.
Female (59) Purmerend, Noord-Holland
I'm a sub who's new to this. i've Known quite some time that I'm into this stuff, but never tried it. and I'm socially awkward, I probably won't start the conversation, so sent me a message and I'll probably respond! (also I change my hair like almost every week lol, so it may not be accurate in the photos here)
Female (20) Obdam, Noord-Holland
Hi! I'm Mrs Vendetta. Full time Brat (ahem I mean good girl..duh) Rope artist Baldie for a few years A bit chaotic & sometimes very extra Switch Cat mom of three. Currently not dating, I know.. it's sad right.
Female (33) Dordrecht, Zuid-Holland
Hello,before you send me a message remember that Im a goddess and you will treat me with respect. Iam looking for a sub who knows his place. **Desires and Fantasies** TPE,edgeplay,CBT,orgasm control,watersport,petplay,affectionate domination .....bdsm in general.
## Note #### 1. Let's get this out of the way first to avoid any confusion, I'm a trans woman and post-op. Curious what I look like while photos are still out? Scroll down and read about it in "Visuals". I have a problem being used as someone's trans kink/fetish/fantasy, so don't send me a message if you wanna focus on that. **Try and you'll get blocked.** #### 2. Don't send me a friend request if we haven't met in real life or have had a proper conversation online ## About me INFP-T | ☀ ♌ | ☾ ♍ | ️↑ ♏ | Neurodivergent | LGBTQIA+ My name is Nyla (she/they), I'm a strong-minded woman that knows what she wants and can have a very strong opinion. I'm a beginning soft Domme, Rigger and Owner, with a focus on a personal approach. I'm driven and committed to educate myself, to keep learning and keep on improving. I value respect, open communication and honesty. I'm considered to be a very calm and in control person. I got quite some kinks and a few fetishes I'm looking to explore further. And while I seem to stay on the Domme side of a D/s dynamic, I do notice to switch in a top/bottom sense. I'm looking to learn and experience, to expand my social circles within the kink/fetish community, meet new people and if things click, perhaps even some kind of dynamic. For me my attraction goes deeper and wider than just sexual attraction, so please note my **sexuality** when you want to contact me. A mental/emotional connection is important to me to be able to have any type of dynamic. I'm homoflexible pansexual with primarily a sexual and sensual attraction towards women and non-binary & trans people. So, apparently I'm 49% a Switch, is that like a true switch or just half a switch? ## Outside of Kink I'm a very creative person and enjoy creativity in the broadest sense of the word. I'm a programmer, so creating solutions through hardware, soldering and programming is a fun way to incorporate my profession into my hobbies. Sewing, crafting, ***ting, drawing, digital design, 3D modelling and printing, electronics and much more are things I enjoy doing. I'm very ambitious and always try to learn a new skill or strengthen and improve upon the skills I already have. Besides that, I enjoy socialising with friends, meeting new people, staying in to watch a series or a film, going out for drinks and food, attend a festival or go to a concert. My music taste is almost as broad as my creative interests, but my main genres are hard/rock, country, trance, melodic/film and certain kinds of electronic. Just as within Kink, in the vanilla day-to-day life I invest in the people dear to me. Truly get to know them, help uplift their lives and focus on the integral connection between people. ## Visuals While there currently isn't a picture, let me describe myself: I'm 5'10", with a bit wider build structurally and an average body, where as I'm currently working towards a more slim/athletic build, as far as that's possible. Firm trained legs, a well rounded firm bottom and flat hips. B-cup breasts, but that's planned on changing in the near future ;) A soft feminine, bit more rounded oval face with a softer facial structure, brown/green eyes with a grey accent, long bra strap length hair which through the seasons fluctuates between brown and dark blonde with natural highlights. My every day dress sense is between classical feminine and athletic-comfy. ## For anyone: **DON'T** try to *** me into being your Domme. Also, don't be rude and bombard me with honorifics I did not ask for. **DON'T** try and absorb and *** my time for your own pleasure. **DON'T** *** your service onto me. If I'm interested, trust me, I'll let you know. **DO** put in the effort to get to actually know me, what I'm looking for and what my wishes and needs are, as I'll invest my time into you to get to know you. **DO** show why you are worth my time. I'm a very busy person, but I always try to make time for people that show they are worth it. If you are a sub, rope model, pet or little looking for a Domme, Rigger, Owner or Mommy/Caregiver, and are interested in me, come and get to know me! I'm open for new contacts, so let's find out if we would be a good fit for each other. ## Chat #### Before you messsage me: Please put some effort in your messages. Leave your one-liner and empty 'hey', 'hi', 'you alright' at the door. Those will most likely be ignored or at most be answered in a very short and distanced manner. EN or NL. I'm very openminded, can be sweet and soft, but can also hard, stern and dominant. Send me a message and find out which side of me you will bring up. #### Results from bdsmtest.org (05-01-'22) 1. **87% Dominant** 2. **86% Rigger** 3. **85% Owner** 4. **85% Mommy** 5. **84% Experimentalist** 6. **76% Mistress** 7. **73% Voyeur** 8. **70% Sadist** 9. **65% Brat tamer** 10. **64% Non-monogamist** 11. *51% Primal (Hunter)* 12. *49% Vanilla* 13. *49% Switch* 14. *22% Masochist* 15. *21% Exhibitionist* 16. *11% Submissive* 17. *9% Pet* 18. *8% Degrader* 19. *0% Brat* 20. *0% Primal (Prey)* 21. *0% Girl* 22. *0% Rope bunny* 23. *0% Degradee* 24. *0% Slave* 25. *0% Ageplayer*
Female (29) Rotterdam, Zuid-Holland
Hot experienced sensual domme, occasional switch in LTR seeks bottom or switch for play and/or ultimately lifestyle LTR **Desires and Fantasies** total power exchange
Female (55) Amsterdam, Noord-Holland
Helloo there, it's a new kinky day . Enjoy to the max. It is great to exchange power of trust and respect. **Desires and Fantasies** Meeting people like mind.
Female (42) Amsterdam, Noord-Holland
I am the woman you kneel for—the one who owns your thoughts, controls your desires, and decides when you’re worthy of my attention. Elegant, commanding, and intoxicating, I expect obedience, devotion, and the pleasure of watching you surrender completely.😉
Female (20) Rotterdam, Zuid-Holland
trying to expand my view on kinks! ❄️🐇 ️!! PLEASE do not speak dutch to me. ESPECIALLY sexually. ️!! PLEASE stop messaging me calling me “ur slut” or anything similar. 🌸) about me hii! im Alli, a young girl who’s always dreamt of kink and having her own D/S relationship. Im 5’7/170 and still loves to wear heels and platforms. Dressing up, doing makeup, getting my nails, lashes and hair done is all things i adore doing! 🌷)what im looking for I’m looking for something more serious in the long run, but also down to meet up and make tapes! i love going shopping and checking out new places x3 a D/S relationship or anything heavily surrounded by kink sounds perfect to me. I’d enjoy being able to loose all control that i’d normally need to have in my daily life. i also prefer older guys 🙃 (24-32 preferred) ❤️‍🔥) my kinks abduction as seduction; scratching; accidental stimulation; public sex / kink; high heels (wearing); anal; toys under clothing; anal training; big height differences (in my case, taller than me); choking / breathplay; raw sex / barebacking; begging; bondage; body mods; nipple play / slapping, etc; pussy play / slapping, etc; caning; edging; collaring; CNC; corsetry; tearing up / crying; rough BJs / face fucking; hair pulling; discipline; dirty talking; name calling; nicknames; public collaring; DP / DVP; receiving ***; bruising; marking; body writing; emotional play; pet play; mindfucking; praise / degrading; and so much more!! 💋) what am I? I definitely find myself more of a brat, definitely at the start. depending on the person and how they handle it i could also be a service sub, masochist sub. overall im definitely a SAM (smart-assed/masochist). i will consistently tease u, be sarcastic, bratty, mock u, etc. purely to receive physical *** and / or punishment 😇 If u expect a submissive who will do whatever u say without putting up a fight, we will not be a match.
Female (18) Rotterdam, Zuid-Holland
Hello my BDSM lovers im Mistress Elira! Welcome to my world, I look forward to offering you the most intense BDSM session! If you want to explore a new world and new sensations that I can offer, it is just a phone call away! Everything will be arranged according to your preferences! The details are very important to me when we play together! Dominating you, playing with you, pushing you to your unexplored limits, gives me great pleasure. You will be my pleasure, my toy. My gaze will attract you and wrap you around my sadistic fingers. Combined with charm, my appearance will turn you into wax in my hands.
Female (25) Den Haag, Zuid-Holland
hey! i am new here. i am a shy sub trans woman who is open to explore. i may be shy and timid, but dont be fooled. i can let out my dom side as well :3
Female (21) Noordhoek, Noord-Brabant
I’m finishing up my studies here, and will be leaving the Netherlands in June! until then I’m open to making new friends, short term commitments and FWB situations
Female (22) Rotterdam, Zuid-Holland
No, I’m not a fake ;) No, I don’t speak Dutch nor German ;) Looking for a Dom (age range between 26-34) My standards are high and my face is better than my body ;)
Female (26) Nuenen, Noord-Brabant
exchange student from the us 🇺🇸 4'11, bisexual, korean & japanese. into soft & hard kinks!! obsessed with size difference and hung men >< mainly looking for hookups and fwbs but open for anything!! :3
Female (18) Amsterdam, Noord-Holland
Shamesly honest description of me! Here goes! Hopeless romantic and artist/writer from Rotterdam. I’m looking for genuine connections, friendship and maybe more eventually. Caring and genuine men, max 30 km from Rotterdam. Looks matter to me, hate to admit. Slim/athletic figure is prefered. My response rate is low because I get 10+ tacky messages everyday.. please don’t guys 💖 The dynamic I crave is something I want to have with someone I like and trust. If you’re looking for a quick fix, please don’t message me. Don’t be tacky. Friendship first. I’m not willing to jump into any dynamic/meeting up straight away. I’m a sub, that doesn’t mean I don’t want depth and respect.
Female (24) Rotterdam, Zuid-Holland
Classy by day, slutty by night. A playful, passionate tease with a bratty edge🤭 I am an Alpha submissive—strong-willed, independent, and sharp-witted, yet deeply drawn to the right kind of dominance. I don’t break easily, nor do I surrender to just anyone. It takes presence, power, and the ability to challenge me in all the right ways. Push me, guide me, and make me earn my reward—I love to be spoiled, but when I’ve deserved it. Honesty in every aspect is key—without it, there is no trust, no surrender, and no true depth. I crave intensity, being taken beyond my limits, and losing myself completely in submission. Feeling small is what melts me—when I’m overpowered, controlled, and have no choice but to give in. That’s when I truly surrender. But don’t expect me to always make it easy—I have a bratty streak, and sometimes, I’ll fight back just to see if you can handle me. BDSM is deeply erotic to me—a world where control, lust, and connection intertwine. Praise makes me melt, forehead kisses and a soft “good girl” turn me to mush. Spanking? Discipline? Even better when it’s earned. By night, I am indulgence itself—slut, sex slave, plaything, whatever you desire—but only for the one who knows how to truly take me. My submission is a gift, and I choose carefully who receives it. I’m very curious about CNC 😏 I would love to get dipper . But just as much as I love being pushed, aftercare is just as important to me as the intensity of play. Softness, warmth, and being held close after losing control are non-negotiable. I give myself fully, and when I do, I need that balance of roughness and tenderness to bring me back. On the flip side, I have a growing hunger to explore my sadistic, yet sensual nature. Spanking and discipline intrigue me, and I want to refine my skills as a Top—balancing pleasure with punishment, teasing with ***. I am a womanly woman, a girly girl through and through—I love embracing my femininity, whether I’m in heels and a dress or sneakers and jeans. I enjoy looking and feeling good, but confidence is what makes it all come alive. I live for deep conversations, unforgettable adventures, and the kind of chemistry that lingers long after we part. My libido runs high, and I’m anything but easy to keep up with. I know exactly what I need, and I expect nothing less than someone who can rise to the challenge.😏 Oh, and I’m 420 friendly. 🤭 Miss Babs SLUT Sweet Little Unforgettable Thing ps. I don’t speak German I’m not into long chatting I want it real not online 😏
Female (39) Eindhoven, Noord-Brabant

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