Find kinky women in Zuid-Holland

I'm a sub who's new to this. i've Known quite some time that I'm into this stuff, but never tried it. and I'm socially awkward, I probably won't start the conversation, so sent me a message and I'll probably respond! (also I change my hair like almost every week lol, so it may not be accurate in the photos here)
Female (19) Obdam, Noord-Holland
I'm Mrs Vendetta! Welcome to my profile ? Self love Boudoir photographer Full time Brat (ahem I mean good girl..duh) Rope artist Baldie for a few years A bit chaotic & very extra Switch Cat mom of two Currently not dating, I know.. it's sad right.
Female (32) Dordrecht, Zuid-Holland
Ik Meesteres Selma 59 jaar, ik ben een Volslanke Meesteres, Dominant, Eerlijk, Sadistisch, ben ruim 9 jaar Meesteres ben op zoek naar een serieuze slaaf die Mij 24/7 zal dienen, bij wie ik kan intrekken samen met mijn dieren en Slaaf ( wegens beëindiging relatie ) deze Slaaf kan niet veel meer door zijn ziekte en zware medicijnen is hij heel gauw moe wat mijn Slaaf nog doet voor mij, met mij mijn honden uit laten, te koken, mij gezelschap houden, hij is 65 jaar ( heeft eigen inkomen wat ik in beheer heb) en is al 7 jaar mijn Slaaf , Nu wil ik een 24/7 slaaf die mij volledig dient dus alles in en om het huis, en boodschappen etc een Slaaf met een woning landelijk gelegen, vrijstaande woning of boerderij , Of als je niet zo'n woning heb bereid zijn om een andere woning te kopen , zodra er een woning gekocht word blijft de woning van de Slaaf dit komt ook in het contract te staan, de Slaaf tekent alleen het koopcontract van de woning. Dit is wat ik o.a. heb. Spreidstang, Verschillende zwepen ( o.a. een zweep met ijzeren kettingkjes), Kaarsvet Tepelklemmen, Handboeien , Maskers, Electroset, Kuisheidsgordel ( CB-6000 met electrostimulatie) , Vibrerende buttplug, Strapon (virbrerend) , Ouderwetse Mattenklopper , Body bag , Pinwheel , Mondgags, Collar met pinnen etc Tepelklemmen , Hondenbench voor opsluiting Ball Butcher, Penispomp , Neukmachine , Middeleeuwse nekboei , Nek, Handen, Voetboeien aan 1 ketting van staal, Rekbank Tevens doe ik o.a. aan Vernederen, Faceslapping, Trampling, Ballbusting , CBT , Plassex, Etc Bdsm heeft mij veel te bieden, vele mogelijkheden, strenge regels, complete macht, sadistische creativiteit en spanningsopbouw. Natuurlijk vind ik het fijn om de touwtjes letterlijk en figuurlijk in handen te hebben, in controle te zijn en jou machteloos te maken, zodat je overgeleverd bent aan mijn verlangens. Ik voel mijzelf extreem machtig tijdens een sessie en dit geeft mij een bepaald erotisch genot. Wat houd 24/7 Slaaf bij mij in? Als Mijn 24/7 Slaaf stel jij jouw leven volledig in dienst van Mij. Het gaat jou niet om jouw wensen, jouw pleziertjes, jouw genot. Nee, jij snapt dat alleen Mijn gemak, Mijn genot en Mijn plezier van belang zijn, en jij put jouw voldoening uit Mijn tevredenheid over jou. Mijn 24/7 Slaaf zal zich namelijk VOLLEDIG aan Mij moeten overgeven. Zonder taboes, carte blanche. Eng? Vast en zeker, maar Ik leid jou. Als Mijn 24/7 Slaaf ben Ik jouw Eigenares, ben je Mijn bezit. Dat betekent dat alles wat van jou is, van Mij wordt. Dat zal natuurlijk niet van de ene dag op de andere gebeuren, dat gaat geleidelijk aan Ik leid jou naar een leven waarin jij niets anders bezit dan de kleren die je in de kast hebt hangen, je huis en de auto die voor de deur staat. Al het andere zal van Mij zijn. Wat verwacht ik van mijn 24/7 Slaaf ? Sociaal: je bent ongebonden, Familie / Vrienden bezoeken blijven mogelijk, sporten blijft ook mogelijk, maar je hebt wel Mijn toestemming nodig, ik zal je af en toe een vrije dag / weekend gunnen. Meesteres: je zorgt dat ik tevreden ben over je en blijf, je zorgt dat ik niets tekort kom, dat ik kan genieten op alle mogelijke manieren die ik wens en wil Wat betekent dat concreet? Dagelijks ga jij naar je werk om voor Mij te werken, Mijn inkomen te verdienen. Daarnaast moet jij het huis, de tuin en de bdsm ruimte schoon en opgeruimd houden. Je ruimt altijd de rommel op. Als Ik sessies heb gehad, dan ruim jij de bdsm ruimte op en maak jij alle spullen weer schoon. Ook doe je ’s avonds voor Mij werkzaamheden als die er zijn en mij bedienen uiteraad je bent als 24/7 Slaaf dus Mijn totaalslaaf: zowel Mijn werkslaaf, lustslaaf , huisslaaf, poetsslaaf, chauffeur etc . je zult Mij elke dag dienen en voor Mij werken en ploeteren, elke dag zal je Mijn macht over jou voelen. Maar verwacht niet dat Ik constant met de zweep in de aanslag jou op je vingers kijk. De ene dag zal Ik jou meer tijd en aandacht geven dan een andere dag. Ik vind het heerlijk om te relaxen, wetend dat Mijn Slaaf voor Mij werkt. je hebt je eigen kamer waar je slaapt en verblijft, Mijn privé ruimtes zijn voor jou verboden terrein, tenzij Ik je daarvoor opdracht geef. Female Led Relationship: Ik onderhoud met Mijn 24/7 slaven een zogenaamde ‘FLR’ relatie Een FLR relatie wordt een female led relatie genoemd, in het Engels female led relationship of female led relation. Een relatie waar de Vrouw centraal staat, en de belangrijkste beslissingen door de Vrouw worden gemaakt. Hoe ziet een Female Led Relatie met Mij eruit? In de relaties die Ik onderhoud met Mijn 24/7 Slaven bepaal Ik wat er gebeurt. Ik neem ALLE belangrijke beslissingen, zowel op financieel, sociaal als ook maatschappelijk gebied. Mijn 24/7 Slaven zijn VOLLEDIG van Mij afhankelijk, zijn Mijn bezit en eigendom. Of te wel, binnen een Female Led Relationship met Mij beheer Ik de financiën , bepaal Ik of Mijn Slaaf een afspraak mag maken buiten Mijn dienstbaarheid, werken mijn Slaven voor Mij, zowel in en rondom het huis als ook daarbuiten. FLR met Mij draait om Mijn gemak, Mijn plezier, Mijn welzijn. Als Ik het goed heb, komen Mijn slaven niets tekort. Ben jij die serieuze 24/7 Slaaf? Als jij overtuigd bent dat dit is wat je wilt en aankunt, stuur dan vlug een berichtje dan krijg je van mij een mail met mijn vragen die je moet beantwoorden. Je moet niet bang zijn voor honden aangezien ik honden heb, je krijgt een contract met huisregels en posities en je krijgt een sublijst die ingevuld moet worden, tevens registreer ik je in het slavenregister.
Female (59) Purmerend, Noord-Holland
Heeyy Just curious about this site. I’m new in the community. Looking for some hot people to talk/hang out with. I’m open to anything honestly. I just finally wanna have my kinky fantasies fulfilled. I am submissive, just like to be used. That’s all, text me to get to know me better x
Female (20) Rotterdam, Zuid-Holland
Ik ben op zoek naar een onderdanige slaaf voor een totale verbondenheid op basis van vertrouwen en respect, degene die tot mijn beschikking staat zal de kans krijgen omdat ik deze dromen zou waarmaken
Female (30) Amsterdam, Noord-Holland
Like: nipple, clit & pussy ***, insertion, control, ***, tasks, dice roll, fap roulette. Seen a lot of things, curious to experiment toys: 9inch dildo, suction toy, inflatable butt plug, household items
Female (25) Amsterdam, Noord-Holland
Hi, I'm Avery, 30+ and looking mainly for friends with similar interests and perhaps some hot (online) exchanges. I'm horribly self-conscious and that's why you're only getting the photo I have uploaded (for now). Please keep in mind that I am inexperienced with most kinks.
Female (33) Leiden, Zuid-Holland
## Note #### 1. Let's get this out of the way first to avoid any confusion, I'm a trans woman and post-op. Curious what I look like while photos are still out? Scroll down and read about it in "Visuals". I have a problem being used as someone's trans kink/fetish/fantasy, so don't send me a message if you wanna focus on that. **Try and you'll get blocked.** #### 2. Don't send me a friend request if we haven't met in real life or have had a proper conversation online ## About me INFP-T | ☀ ♌ | ☾ ♍ | ️↑ ♏ | Neurodivergent | LGBTQIA+ My name is Nyla (she/they), I'm a strong-minded woman that knows what she wants and can have a very strong opinion. I'm a beginning soft Domme, Rigger and Owner, with a focus on a personal approach. I'm driven and committed to educate myself, to keep learning and keep on improving. I value respect, open communication and honesty. I'm considered to be a very calm and in control person. I got quite some kinks and a few fetishes I'm looking to explore further. And while I seem to stay on the Domme side of a D/s dynamic, I do notice to switch in a top/bottom sense. I'm looking to learn and experience, to expand my social circles within the kink/fetish community, meet new people and if things click, perhaps even some kind of dynamic. For me my attraction goes deeper and wider than just sexual attraction, so please note my **sexuality** when you want to contact me. A mental/emotional connection is important to me to be able to have any type of dynamic. I'm homoflexible pansexual with primarily a sexual and sensual attraction towards women and non-binary & trans people. So, apparently I'm 49% a Switch, is that like a true switch or just half a switch? ## Outside of Kink I'm a very creative person and enjoy creativity in the broadest sense of the word. I'm a programmer, so creating solutions through hardware, soldering and programming is a fun way to incorporate my profession into my hobbies. Sewing, crafting, ***ting, drawing, digital design, 3D modelling and printing, electronics and much more are things I enjoy doing. I'm very ambitious and always try to learn a new skill or strengthen and improve upon the skills I already have. Besides that, I enjoy socialising with friends, meeting new people, staying in to watch a series or a film, going out for drinks and food, attend a festival or go to a concert. My music taste is almost as broad as my creative interests, but my main genres are hard/rock, country, trance, melodic/film and certain kinds of electronic. Just as within Kink, in the vanilla day-to-day life I invest in the people dear to me. Truly get to know them, help uplift their lives and focus on the integral connection between people. ## Visuals While there currently isn't a picture, let me describe myself: I'm 5'10", with a bit wider build structurally and an average body, where as I'm currently working towards a more slim/athletic build, as far as that's possible. Firm trained legs, a well rounded firm bottom and flat hips. B-cup breasts, but that's planned on changing in the near future ;) A soft feminine, bit more rounded oval face with a softer facial structure, brown/green eyes with a grey accent, long bra strap length hair which through the seasons fluctuates between brown and dark blonde with natural highlights. My every day dress sense is between classical feminine and athletic-comfy. ## For anyone: **DON'T** try to *** me into being your Domme. Also, don't be rude and bombard me with honorifics I did not ask for. **DON'T** try and absorb and *** my time for your own pleasure. **DON'T** *** your service onto me. If I'm interested, trust me, I'll let you know. **DO** put in the effort to get to actually know me, what I'm looking for and what my wishes and needs are, as I'll invest my time into you to get to know you. **DO** show why you are worth my time. I'm a very busy person, but I always try to make time for people that show they are worth it. If you are a sub, rope model, pet or little looking for a Domme, Rigger, Owner or Mommy/Caregiver, and are interested in me, come and get to know me! I'm open for new contacts, so let's find out if we would be a good fit for each other. ## Chat #### Before you messsage me: Please put some effort in your messages. Leave your one-liner and empty 'hey', 'hi', 'you alright' at the door. Those will most likely be ignored or at most be answered in a very short and distanced manner. EN or NL. I'm very openminded, can be sweet and soft, but can also hard, stern and dominant. Send me a message and find out which side of me you will bring up. #### Results from bdsmtest.org (05-01-'22) 1. **87% Dominant** 2. **86% Rigger** 3. **85% Owner** 4. **85% Mommy** 5. **84% Experimentalist** 6. **76% Mistress** 7. **73% Voyeur** 8. **70% Sadist** 9. **65% Brat tamer** 10. **64% Non-monogamist** 11. *51% Primal (Hunter)* 12. *49% Vanilla* 13. *49% Switch* 14. *22% Masochist* 15. *21% Exhibitionist* 16. *11% Submissive* 17. *9% Pet* 18. *8% Degrader* 19. *0% Brat* 20. *0% Primal (Prey)* 21. *0% Girl* 22. *0% Rope bunny* 23. *0% Degradee* 24. *0% Slave* 25. *0% Ageplayer*
Female (29) Rotterdam, Zuid-Holland
Hi there! I decided to become a member of this website because my partner (26m) and I (22f) are struggling with different sexual needs. By joining this website, I hope to find out if and how we can make our relationship work despite/while fulfilling those needs. Currently we're not looking for any romantic or sexual dates, but I'm always open for friendship and conversations! :gift_heart:
Female (22) Rotterdam, Zuid-Holland
Hii, I'm Mayaa, But you can call me Red Kitten!! 🍓🐱 I'm in a loving bdsm Sapphic relationship. And I'm just new to kittenplay. I like to meet more people who are into bdsm or petplay ✨️
Female (22) Purmerend, Noord-Holland
Hot experienced sensual domme, occasional switch in LTR seeks bottom or switch for play and/or ultimately lifestyle LTR **Desires and Fantasies** total power exchange
Female (55) Amsterdam, Noord-Holland
Helloo there, it's a new kinky day . Enjoy to the max. It is great to exchange power of trust and respect. **Desires and Fantasies** Meeting people like mind.
Female (41) Amsterdam, Noord-Holland
I'm interested in being adored, devoured, controlled, spoiled, giving pleasure and feeling safe with someone who can do this for me
Female (23) Amsterdam, Noord-Holland
///DONT SAY NICKNAMES WITHOUT PERMISSION IM NOT YOURS/// . Heyy I'm vali, I'm really 19, woman and use she/her. a sweet and playful sub who is looking for a dommy, joined on 24/02/2024 . I adore cuddling with stuffies, exploring with coloring and crafting, and getting lost in bedtime stories. Dressing up in pink and kawaii styles always brings a smile to my face, and I love playtime, games, and snuggles. Cartoons are my go-to for relaxation. I'm a huge fan of Disney, Hello Kitty, Monster High, cherries, ***rs, stickers, and, of course, all things need to be pink. . if you wanne talk to me msg me! I'll get very shy and for me talking first is difficult in the beginning. . yes i have really cup H boobs H/I .... but slim waist and cause of little belly you dont see it much... but gotta make them special for me . Speaking fluent Dutch and English, Learning German and Spanish .
Female (19) Rotterdam, Zuid-Holland
I currently based in Amsterdam, new to the city. Plus I visit Tokyo and Shanghai regularly. I knew about bdsm really early from fanfics of my favorite anime series and I tried bdsm for the first time in real life in a sm bar in Japan. I lived in Tokyo for a couple of months and basically learned everything from people I met in those sm bars. Basically I am a willful person, only doing things I like for the most of the time. And I like forcing people into doing things they hate, I mean pushing limits kind of hate. I like hitting people in general, using mainly whips and sometimes paddles, canes or whatever I think looks interesting. I also like other plays that are ***ful. For sure I'll leave a lot of scars but I think I'm not a ruthless person and I know what I'm going. I'm also an Intermediate Rigger still working on my skills. I usually perceive it as a more artistic thing but I use ropes a lot in my play because it's a really nice tool to restrict people from moving. I speak English, Japanese and Chinese. Feel free to reach to me in any of these languages.
Female (20) Amsterdam, Noord-Holland
Hello! My name is Mia. I am 23 years old and within the last year I have been exploring the kink world. I am quite sure that I am into a ddlg relationship and I am looking for a Daddy. I am quite into being a little. I like having plushies, play time, having a pacifier and all. I am a very sweet person, so I am not looking for ONS or sex only. I am interested in a genuine connection. I like to receive rules and homework because it gives me order in my life. I am also not necessarily looking for a monogamous relationship, but that depends on the dynamic and can be discussed. What I am looking for in a Daddy: I know this might sound specific and maybe a bit shallow but I like clarity in communication. I am looking for someone who is genuinely going to love me and take care of me. Take care does not mean that you have to spend all your *** on me and I am actually not interested in that. For me that means caring for me like a parent would but then building a much deeper connection. I believe that being a Dominant like that takes a lot of effort and I am looking into rewarding that every day. It means spending time and energy into one person, almost like a project. And from my side it means committing to one person fully and submitting all of myself. I would like to ideally find someone who shares the same interests as me. I am quite sporty (I am a circus aerialist and on my journey to become a pole dancer as well). I am quite fit and flexible. Other than that I am quite nerdy. I play DND and I enjoy videogames a lot. At the moment I am playing BG3 and The Witcher 3 almost daily. I like comedy shows, escape rooms, anything that is both adventurous and geeky basically. I would also consider myself pretty, without necessarily being vain. And that is something that I care a bit about (I know it makes me sound a bit shallow) but I do think that there needs to be also physical attraction for it to work. I don't know how to define what I consider "hot" but let me tell you that I don't think I have unrealistic standards. For one I don't care how tall you are. Of course it is nice and would make me feel even more little but it does not matter. I am quite short (1.52 cm) so that also helps. I am often attracted by emotional maturity and by someone who has many hobbies and who can challenge me intellectually. Especially as a little I like the feeling that I am learning from my Daddy. Also, I know this message is long and thanks for reading if you still are but please don't think you have to check all the boxes because this is not what this is about. Love, Mia
Female (22) Hilversum, Noord-Holland
Ervaren lifestyle domina zoekt slimme kinky meid voor spel,⛓️events, vriendschap en D/s 🖤. Mannen: ik zoek alleen pussy en reageer nooit!
Female (40) Amsterdam, Noord-Holland
Just like my profile if you're trying to get my attention
Female (35) Rotterdam, Zuid-Holland
English only. About me: black short hair, brown eyes, Asian (I'm NOT into race play) I'm a switch but currently enjoy being a sub more. I don't reply fast. I don't send pictures of my face but I can reassure I'm good looking. What I look for: An experienced Doms/Domme/Caretaker/Master since I'm new to BDSM. A person who actually knows BDSM and what they're doing, not just satisfying their needs. Good looking is important to me. Please don't take it personal. My liking: I enjoy overstimulation, ***, praises. I love to be pampered and worshipped, while also being broken. I like to received more than giving, but I don't mind giving. I'm open to explore everything, but I can list some on top of my mind: cnc, impact play, bondage - shibari,...
Female (20) Rotterdam, Zuid-Holland
Read first & good❗️if you like me reach me at , I’m not much in this app so is beter hit me on my ig Lilithnotapologizenl ,this is for people with open mind ,not judgemental behaviour , teaching the sexuality world “Through my blog “,I teach women and men things to discover theirselves,sexology & sexuality empowerment, I write topics like physical and psychological approach face 2 face sessions you can ask for it dm atte: Lilith your sex guru
Female (35) Alkmaar, Noord-Holland
Novice adventurer on a quest to discover the delightful world of submission—currently at ‘beginner’s bondage’, aspiring to ‘masochist maestro’:) Seeking a guide who respects limits and enjoys a little wit along with the whip. Let’s start this chapter with a plot twist that’s both respectful and risqué:) But in full seriousness, I am looking for a Dom that understands what it means to have a connection, trust and vulnerability with someone, is respectful and caring, intelligent and witty, so that he can handle my bratty / playful side. I am not interested in ONS/hook-ups. I do pay attention to physical appearance and attractiveness, but it only matters when emotional and intellectual connection is there. I am a bratty sub, and l love that side of me. I am playful, intelligent, passionate, vibrate and charming:). I care about my partner and is very loyal when it comes to relationships. PS. text me in English and please, I beg, make a meaningful start of the conversation such that I at least have something to reply to; best if you introduce yourself and share some facts that you find important.
Female (36) Amsterdam, Noord-Holland
Pretty dominant and bratty emotionally, physically very submissive ;) Looking for a deep, safe, caring and emotionally available Dom partner. I have a lot to give back.
Female (36) Amsterdam, Noord-Holland
It would be lovely to meet like-minded people. Interested in cuckold man for a longterm relationship (age range 36-48). Region Vinkeveen/Amstelveen or region Eindhoven.
Female (34) Loosdrecht, Noord-Holland
would like to find a long term fwb, outside of bed we can be friend and have a good conversation, go for a drink etc. In side the bed I would like to be submissive.If all good would like to have regular meet to have some fun. because I’m kind of high need(base on what ppl told me 😅) Let’s follow the flow and see we match or not. Even I’m into sub doesn’t mean you can dis respect me in conversation. Everything need to build in trust, honest and respect. :) I like dancing, craft, anime and food. 😊
Female (31) Den Haag, Zuid-Holland

New members in Zuid-Holland

Hii, I'm Mayaa, But you can call me Red Kitten!! 🍓🐱 I'm in a loving bdsm Sapphic relationship. And I'm just new to kittenplay. I like to meet more people who are into bdsm or petplay ✨️
Female (22) Purmerend, Noord-Holland
Heeyy Just curious about this site. I’m new in the community. Looking for some hot people to talk/hang out with. I’m open to anything honestly. I just finally wanna have my kinky fantasies fulfilled. I am submissive, just like to be used. That’s all, text me to get to know me better x
Female (20) Rotterdam, Zuid-Holland
Hi there! I decided to become a member of this website because my partner (26m) and I (22f) are struggling with different sexual needs. By joining this website, I hope to find out if and how we can make our relationship work despite/while fulfilling those needs. Currently we're not looking for any romantic or sexual dates, but I'm always open for friendship and conversations! :gift_heart:
Female (22) Rotterdam, Zuid-Holland
Ik ben op zoek naar een onderdanige slaaf voor een totale verbondenheid op basis van vertrouwen en respect, degene die tot mijn beschikking staat zal de kans krijgen omdat ik deze dromen zou waarmaken
Female (30) Amsterdam, Noord-Holland
Like: nipple, clit & pussy ***, insertion, control, ***, tasks, dice roll, fap roulette. Seen a lot of things, curious to experiment toys: 9inch dildo, suction toy, inflatable butt plug, household items
Female (25) Amsterdam, Noord-Holland
Hi, I'm Avery, 30+ and looking mainly for friends with similar interests and perhaps some hot (online) exchanges. I'm horribly self-conscious and that's why you're only getting the photo I have uploaded (for now). Please keep in mind that I am inexperienced with most kinks.
Female (33) Leiden, Zuid-Holland
Ik Meesteres Selma 59 jaar, ik ben een Volslanke Meesteres, Dominant, Eerlijk, Sadistisch, ben ruim 9 jaar Meesteres ben op zoek naar een serieuze slaaf die Mij 24/7 zal dienen, bij wie ik kan intrekken samen met mijn dieren en Slaaf ( wegens beëindiging relatie ) deze Slaaf kan niet veel meer door zijn ziekte en zware medicijnen is hij heel gauw moe wat mijn Slaaf nog doet voor mij, met mij mijn honden uit laten, te koken, mij gezelschap houden, hij is 65 jaar ( heeft eigen inkomen wat ik in beheer heb) en is al 7 jaar mijn Slaaf , Nu wil ik een 24/7 slaaf die mij volledig dient dus alles in en om het huis, en boodschappen etc een Slaaf met een woning landelijk gelegen, vrijstaande woning of boerderij , Of als je niet zo'n woning heb bereid zijn om een andere woning te kopen , zodra er een woning gekocht word blijft de woning van de Slaaf dit komt ook in het contract te staan, de Slaaf tekent alleen het koopcontract van de woning. Dit is wat ik o.a. heb. Spreidstang, Verschillende zwepen ( o.a. een zweep met ijzeren kettingkjes), Kaarsvet Tepelklemmen, Handboeien , Maskers, Electroset, Kuisheidsgordel ( CB-6000 met electrostimulatie) , Vibrerende buttplug, Strapon (virbrerend) , Ouderwetse Mattenklopper , Body bag , Pinwheel , Mondgags, Collar met pinnen etc Tepelklemmen , Hondenbench voor opsluiting Ball Butcher, Penispomp , Neukmachine , Middeleeuwse nekboei , Nek, Handen, Voetboeien aan 1 ketting van staal, Rekbank Tevens doe ik o.a. aan Vernederen, Faceslapping, Trampling, Ballbusting , CBT , Plassex, Etc Bdsm heeft mij veel te bieden, vele mogelijkheden, strenge regels, complete macht, sadistische creativiteit en spanningsopbouw. Natuurlijk vind ik het fijn om de touwtjes letterlijk en figuurlijk in handen te hebben, in controle te zijn en jou machteloos te maken, zodat je overgeleverd bent aan mijn verlangens. Ik voel mijzelf extreem machtig tijdens een sessie en dit geeft mij een bepaald erotisch genot. Wat houd 24/7 Slaaf bij mij in? Als Mijn 24/7 Slaaf stel jij jouw leven volledig in dienst van Mij. Het gaat jou niet om jouw wensen, jouw pleziertjes, jouw genot. Nee, jij snapt dat alleen Mijn gemak, Mijn genot en Mijn plezier van belang zijn, en jij put jouw voldoening uit Mijn tevredenheid over jou. Mijn 24/7 Slaaf zal zich namelijk VOLLEDIG aan Mij moeten overgeven. Zonder taboes, carte blanche. Eng? Vast en zeker, maar Ik leid jou. Als Mijn 24/7 Slaaf ben Ik jouw Eigenares, ben je Mijn bezit. Dat betekent dat alles wat van jou is, van Mij wordt. Dat zal natuurlijk niet van de ene dag op de andere gebeuren, dat gaat geleidelijk aan Ik leid jou naar een leven waarin jij niets anders bezit dan de kleren die je in de kast hebt hangen, je huis en de auto die voor de deur staat. Al het andere zal van Mij zijn. Wat verwacht ik van mijn 24/7 Slaaf ? Sociaal: je bent ongebonden, Familie / Vrienden bezoeken blijven mogelijk, sporten blijft ook mogelijk, maar je hebt wel Mijn toestemming nodig, ik zal je af en toe een vrije dag / weekend gunnen. Meesteres: je zorgt dat ik tevreden ben over je en blijf, je zorgt dat ik niets tekort kom, dat ik kan genieten op alle mogelijke manieren die ik wens en wil Wat betekent dat concreet? Dagelijks ga jij naar je werk om voor Mij te werken, Mijn inkomen te verdienen. Daarnaast moet jij het huis, de tuin en de bdsm ruimte schoon en opgeruimd houden. Je ruimt altijd de rommel op. Als Ik sessies heb gehad, dan ruim jij de bdsm ruimte op en maak jij alle spullen weer schoon. Ook doe je ’s avonds voor Mij werkzaamheden als die er zijn en mij bedienen uiteraad je bent als 24/7 Slaaf dus Mijn totaalslaaf: zowel Mijn werkslaaf, lustslaaf , huisslaaf, poetsslaaf, chauffeur etc . je zult Mij elke dag dienen en voor Mij werken en ploeteren, elke dag zal je Mijn macht over jou voelen. Maar verwacht niet dat Ik constant met de zweep in de aanslag jou op je vingers kijk. De ene dag zal Ik jou meer tijd en aandacht geven dan een andere dag. Ik vind het heerlijk om te relaxen, wetend dat Mijn Slaaf voor Mij werkt. je hebt je eigen kamer waar je slaapt en verblijft, Mijn privé ruimtes zijn voor jou verboden terrein, tenzij Ik je daarvoor opdracht geef. Female Led Relationship: Ik onderhoud met Mijn 24/7 slaven een zogenaamde ‘FLR’ relatie Een FLR relatie wordt een female led relatie genoemd, in het Engels female led relationship of female led relation. Een relatie waar de Vrouw centraal staat, en de belangrijkste beslissingen door de Vrouw worden gemaakt. Hoe ziet een Female Led Relatie met Mij eruit? In de relaties die Ik onderhoud met Mijn 24/7 Slaven bepaal Ik wat er gebeurt. Ik neem ALLE belangrijke beslissingen, zowel op financieel, sociaal als ook maatschappelijk gebied. Mijn 24/7 Slaven zijn VOLLEDIG van Mij afhankelijk, zijn Mijn bezit en eigendom. Of te wel, binnen een Female Led Relationship met Mij beheer Ik de financiën , bepaal Ik of Mijn Slaaf een afspraak mag maken buiten Mijn dienstbaarheid, werken mijn Slaven voor Mij, zowel in en rondom het huis als ook daarbuiten. FLR met Mij draait om Mijn gemak, Mijn plezier, Mijn welzijn. Als Ik het goed heb, komen Mijn slaven niets tekort. Ben jij die serieuze 24/7 Slaaf? Als jij overtuigd bent dat dit is wat je wilt en aankunt, stuur dan vlug een berichtje dan krijg je van mij een mail met mijn vragen die je moet beantwoorden. Je moet niet bang zijn voor honden aangezien ik honden heb, je krijgt een contract met huisregels en posities en je krijgt een sublijst die ingevuld moet worden, tevens registreer ik je in het slavenregister.
Female (59) Purmerend, Noord-Holland
I'm a sub who's new to this. i've Known quite some time that I'm into this stuff, but never tried it. and I'm socially awkward, I probably won't start the conversation, so sent me a message and I'll probably respond! (also I change my hair like almost every week lol, so it may not be accurate in the photos here)
Female (19) Obdam, Noord-Holland
I'm Mrs Vendetta! Welcome to my profile ? Self love Boudoir photographer Full time Brat (ahem I mean good girl..duh) Rope artist Baldie for a few years A bit chaotic & very extra Switch Cat mom of two Currently not dating, I know.. it's sad right.
Female (32) Dordrecht, Zuid-Holland
## Note #### 1. Let's get this out of the way first to avoid any confusion, I'm a trans woman and post-op. Curious what I look like while photos are still out? Scroll down and read about it in "Visuals". I have a problem being used as someone's trans kink/fetish/fantasy, so don't send me a message if you wanna focus on that. **Try and you'll get blocked.** #### 2. Don't send me a friend request if we haven't met in real life or have had a proper conversation online ## About me INFP-T | ☀ ♌ | ☾ ♍ | ️↑ ♏ | Neurodivergent | LGBTQIA+ My name is Nyla (she/they), I'm a strong-minded woman that knows what she wants and can have a very strong opinion. I'm a beginning soft Domme, Rigger and Owner, with a focus on a personal approach. I'm driven and committed to educate myself, to keep learning and keep on improving. I value respect, open communication and honesty. I'm considered to be a very calm and in control person. I got quite some kinks and a few fetishes I'm looking to explore further. And while I seem to stay on the Domme side of a D/s dynamic, I do notice to switch in a top/bottom sense. I'm looking to learn and experience, to expand my social circles within the kink/fetish community, meet new people and if things click, perhaps even some kind of dynamic. For me my attraction goes deeper and wider than just sexual attraction, so please note my **sexuality** when you want to contact me. A mental/emotional connection is important to me to be able to have any type of dynamic. I'm homoflexible pansexual with primarily a sexual and sensual attraction towards women and non-binary & trans people. So, apparently I'm 49% a Switch, is that like a true switch or just half a switch? ## Outside of Kink I'm a very creative person and enjoy creativity in the broadest sense of the word. I'm a programmer, so creating solutions through hardware, soldering and programming is a fun way to incorporate my profession into my hobbies. Sewing, crafting, ***ting, drawing, digital design, 3D modelling and printing, electronics and much more are things I enjoy doing. I'm very ambitious and always try to learn a new skill or strengthen and improve upon the skills I already have. Besides that, I enjoy socialising with friends, meeting new people, staying in to watch a series or a film, going out for drinks and food, attend a festival or go to a concert. My music taste is almost as broad as my creative interests, but my main genres are hard/rock, country, trance, melodic/film and certain kinds of electronic. Just as within Kink, in the vanilla day-to-day life I invest in the people dear to me. Truly get to know them, help uplift their lives and focus on the integral connection between people. ## Visuals While there currently isn't a picture, let me describe myself: I'm 5'10", with a bit wider build structurally and an average body, where as I'm currently working towards a more slim/athletic build, as far as that's possible. Firm trained legs, a well rounded firm bottom and flat hips. B-cup breasts, but that's planned on changing in the near future ;) A soft feminine, bit more rounded oval face with a softer facial structure, brown/green eyes with a grey accent, long bra strap length hair which through the seasons fluctuates between brown and dark blonde with natural highlights. My every day dress sense is between classical feminine and athletic-comfy. ## For anyone: **DON'T** try to *** me into being your Domme. Also, don't be rude and bombard me with honorifics I did not ask for. **DON'T** try and absorb and *** my time for your own pleasure. **DON'T** *** your service onto me. If I'm interested, trust me, I'll let you know. **DO** put in the effort to get to actually know me, what I'm looking for and what my wishes and needs are, as I'll invest my time into you to get to know you. **DO** show why you are worth my time. I'm a very busy person, but I always try to make time for people that show they are worth it. If you are a sub, rope model, pet or little looking for a Domme, Rigger, Owner or Mommy/Caregiver, and are interested in me, come and get to know me! I'm open for new contacts, so let's find out if we would be a good fit for each other. ## Chat #### Before you messsage me: Please put some effort in your messages. Leave your one-liner and empty 'hey', 'hi', 'you alright' at the door. Those will most likely be ignored or at most be answered in a very short and distanced manner. EN or NL. I'm very openminded, can be sweet and soft, but can also hard, stern and dominant. Send me a message and find out which side of me you will bring up. #### Results from bdsmtest.org (05-01-'22) 1. **87% Dominant** 2. **86% Rigger** 3. **85% Owner** 4. **85% Mommy** 5. **84% Experimentalist** 6. **76% Mistress** 7. **73% Voyeur** 8. **70% Sadist** 9. **65% Brat tamer** 10. **64% Non-monogamist** 11. *51% Primal (Hunter)* 12. *49% Vanilla* 13. *49% Switch* 14. *22% Masochist* 15. *21% Exhibitionist* 16. *11% Submissive* 17. *9% Pet* 18. *8% Degrader* 19. *0% Brat* 20. *0% Primal (Prey)* 21. *0% Girl* 22. *0% Rope bunny* 23. *0% Degradee* 24. *0% Slave* 25. *0% Ageplayer*
Female (29) Rotterdam, Zuid-Holland
Hot experienced sensual domme, occasional switch in LTR seeks bottom or switch for play and/or ultimately lifestyle LTR **Desires and Fantasies** total power exchange
Female (55) Amsterdam, Noord-Holland
Helloo there, it's a new kinky day . Enjoy to the max. It is great to exchange power of trust and respect. **Desires and Fantasies** Meeting people like mind.
Female (41) Amsterdam, Noord-Holland
primary currencies; hats, songs, trash finds, bike rides, dancing gemini would you eat a boiled egg whole? would you eat a boiled egg whole and then dump furukaki into your mouth after it? would you try to talk with your mouth full of egg and furukaki? would i be able to understand what you say? want to be tied up(?!!?!)
Female (26) Amsterdam, Noord-Holland
I currently based in Amsterdam, new to the city. Plus I visit Tokyo and Shanghai regularly. I knew about bdsm really early from fanfics of my favorite anime series and I tried bdsm for the first time in real life in a sm bar in Japan. I lived in Tokyo for a couple of months and basically learned everything from people I met in those sm bars. Basically I am a willful person, only doing things I like for the most of the time. And I like forcing people into doing things they hate, I mean pushing limits kind of hate. I like hitting people in general, using mainly whips and sometimes paddles, canes or whatever I think looks interesting. I also like other plays that are ***ful. For sure I'll leave a lot of scars but I think I'm not a ruthless person and I know what I'm going. I'm also an Intermediate Rigger still working on my skills. I usually perceive it as a more artistic thing but I use ropes a lot in my play because it's a really nice tool to restrict people from moving. I speak English, Japanese and Chinese. Feel free to reach to me in any of these languages.
Female (20) Amsterdam, Noord-Holland
English only. About me: black short hair, brown eyes, Asian (I'm NOT into race play) I'm a switch but currently enjoy being a sub more. I don't reply fast. I don't send pictures of my face but I can reassure I'm good looking. What I look for: An experienced Doms/Domme/Caretaker/Master since I'm new to BDSM. A person who actually knows BDSM and what they're doing, not just satisfying their needs. Good looking is important to me. Please don't take it personal. My liking: I enjoy overstimulation, ***, praises. I love to be pampered and worshipped, while also being broken. I like to received more than giving, but I don't mind giving. I'm open to explore everything, but I can list some on top of my mind: cnc, impact play, bondage - shibari,...
Female (20) Rotterdam, Zuid-Holland
Hello! My name is Mia. I am 23 years old and within the last year I have been exploring the kink world. I am quite sure that I am into a ddlg relationship and I am looking for a Daddy. I am quite into being a little. I like having plushies, play time, having a pacifier and all. I am a very sweet person, so I am not looking for ONS or sex only. I am interested in a genuine connection. I like to receive rules and homework because it gives me order in my life. I am also not necessarily looking for a monogamous relationship, but that depends on the dynamic and can be discussed. What I am looking for in a Daddy: I know this might sound specific and maybe a bit shallow but I like clarity in communication. I am looking for someone who is genuinely going to love me and take care of me. Take care does not mean that you have to spend all your *** on me and I am actually not interested in that. For me that means caring for me like a parent would but then building a much deeper connection. I believe that being a Dominant like that takes a lot of effort and I am looking into rewarding that every day. It means spending time and energy into one person, almost like a project. And from my side it means committing to one person fully and submitting all of myself. I would like to ideally find someone who shares the same interests as me. I am quite sporty (I am a circus aerialist and on my journey to become a pole dancer as well). I am quite fit and flexible. Other than that I am quite nerdy. I play DND and I enjoy videogames a lot. At the moment I am playing BG3 and The Witcher 3 almost daily. I like comedy shows, escape rooms, anything that is both adventurous and geeky basically. I would also consider myself pretty, without necessarily being vain. And that is something that I care a bit about (I know it makes me sound a bit shallow) but I do think that there needs to be also physical attraction for it to work. I don't know how to define what I consider "hot" but let me tell you that I don't think I have unrealistic standards. For one I don't care how tall you are. Of course it is nice and would make me feel even more little but it does not matter. I am quite short (1.52 cm) so that also helps. I am often attracted by emotional maturity and by someone who has many hobbies and who can challenge me intellectually. Especially as a little I like the feeling that I am learning from my Daddy. Also, I know this message is long and thanks for reading if you still are but please don't think you have to check all the boxes because this is not what this is about. Love, Mia
Female (22) Hilversum, Noord-Holland
Just like my profile if you're trying to get my attention
Female (35) Rotterdam, Zuid-Holland
I’m a girl but the more femboy friends the better! looking for a dom looks like a gothic character and fashionable (between 18-24 years old) And stop stealing pics from others! I even saw Heisenberg in Breaking Bad
Female (19) Amsterdam, Noord-Holland
Looking for someone to help me find excitement in the daily life, open for roleplay, obedience and adventures.
Female (26) Zoetermeer, Zuid-Holland
New here, I would appreciate some patience in advance 😊 One more disclaimer: I appreciate interest, however currently I'm not looking for men under 30 yo. Please take this into consideration 😉 I always postponed this part as long as I can. Ok, let's do that😆 I'm still a newbie in Kink World. Trying different things. Recently, I have realised that I want to explore my sub/bratty side in detail. In general, it is a classic situation: strong independent woman who wants to stop thinking for a while and give control to a partner 🤷‍♀️. There's nothing new here. I'm not a girly girl Bratty as hell Always talk back Loud, stubborn, but also logical thinking (technical background is always helping) Positive sides: I'm funny (I've been told), sarcastic (yes, that's positive), good listener, and great kisser (I've been told😆) Well, for now that's my max, may be will add/update later🤔
Female (36) Den Haag, Zuid-Holland
New to the community and looking to learn more about it and form interesting, respectful and even intellectual connections who are experienced. I appreciate a gentleman who knows how to give princess treatment to a good girl
Female (29) Den Haag, Zuid-Holland
I'm interested in being adored, devoured, controlled, spoiled, giving pleasure and feeling safe with someone who can do this for me
Female (23) Amsterdam, Noord-Holland
Pretty dominant and bratty emotionally, physically very submissive ;) Looking for a deep, safe, caring and emotionally available Dom partner. I have a lot to give back.
Female (36) Amsterdam, Noord-Holland
Hi hello! A little about me: -very new to the fetish/bdsm community, haven't done anything outside of playing around at home and reading ✨spicy✨ books -i'm married but since they travel frequently for work we are exploring opening up our marriage. Not looking for another partner, just someone to play with when he's away (or together when he's home if you're into that) -other stuff about me: cat mom, American expat in Amsterdam, excited to learn and play ☺️ oh also a squirter so hope you have something waterproof to play on ? Feel free to give me a spank and I'll throw you a kiss in return ?
Female (29) Amsterdam, Noord-Holland

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