# **_Hello Beloved Wildlings_**,
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# PROLOGUE
Ant¡Z¡on¡st, ProPalest¡ne Connections/People Only.
MEN: Tall, Handsome, Hung
(Scotsmen/Irishmen/TangataWhenua/ProgressiveArabicMen to the Front)
# DISCLAIMER:
Before engaging with me, consider this Disclosure-- **I’m predominantly and primarily on FET because I'm ready for my life partner/King/Daddy Dom to find me**. Finding/attending events and the making of good platonic friends, networking, community, is deeply welcomed and needed too, as is being in service for people who want to be clients because they need my the***utic services.
_I am uninterested and unavailable for "Takeaway"/Casual Interactions/Connections._
**YES**
✅ _**Conscious Dating/Courtship/Flirting/Intentional Connections/Networking/Community/Platonic Friendships**_
**NO**
❌ **NSA/ONS/Cybersex/Casual Connections/Couples**
❌ submissive men [_for any kind of *personal* contexts/connections_]
If your interest/search &/or identity is any of the: “❌”s above, then this is not the connection for you, and I am not the person you're looking for.
“✅“ above, then You're welcome to continue reading my profile below, and to connect with me otherwise.
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# MOI:
Kinky/Tantric/Spiritual/Witchy/Progressive af, **and**, an Old School Romantic+Protocol Lover who needs intentional Relationship Polarity in my partnership.
Progressive Left Libertarian. ProChoice Af *across the board*
Creative. Nerd. Intuitive. Performer [Actor/Singer/Dancer]. Spiritual. Flirt
Sensitive, Strong, Sweet, Sassy, Smart, Seer, Spoiled.
Fierce as I am Tender, Compassionate as I am 'Judgmental"
LOVER of the arts, good food, music, dancing, theatre shows, musicals, books/reading, romance, words/language, science, communing with/in nature, tech, sex, festivals, flirting, holistic medicine, kink, beaches, water, epigenetics, social justice.
Emotionally Polyamorous + Sexually Selective/Monogamous/ish.
PRINCIPLES+FOUNDATIONS: Truth, Authenticity, Attunement, Integrity, Devotion, Conscious Communication, *Human Design
*[being Recognised/Seen + Invited are my staples of connection+relating].
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#BDSM
~ is **Sacred** to me, and an inherent part of who and how I am.
~ For many kink/BDSM is limited to bedrooms/sex/dungeons/attire, and/or that begins with that/them. For me, it begins ZoomedAllTheWayOut; from the energy, polarity, intention, tension, conduction, between people, sometimes even before words are uttered, followed by the threads of connection, play, and dancing that ensues.
That's how the best fires start, and how we keep them burning.
Whether the fires we're playing with have what it takes to be 'serious', and worthy of commitment however, is a different matter. That depends on desire and intention of all parties involved, alignment, and what's created to seed safety, trust, and integrity, especially but not exclusively, by the Dom/Top/LeftSideOfTheSlash.
~ Weaving threads of polarity/BDSM/Tantra throughout, not just scenes, but the entirety of a dynamic/relationship, is where it's at for it, and IMO, makes a dynamic (and the people in it) thrive.
~ Exploring/finding/getting curious about new and/or deeper ways to dance and play, keeps relationships alive.
This makes all the more sense when we consider that Kink is only one of the ways that we plug into intimacy/turn on; eg. 5 Erotic Blueprints (Energy, Sensuality, Kink, Sex, Shapeshifting), Tantra.
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Where I identify and exist on the vast, rich, multitudinous spectrum of kink and BDSM these days, isn't something I could have foreseen, when I happened upon it by accident, in glimpses here and there, almost 20 years ago. Nor could I have imagined the evolution of the journey I would go on, from what I was into, to why, and how that would expand, deepen, shift, and/or change completely. It's fascinating to me to also notice, what's "stayed the same".
_If I was to use generic words I'd say_, I'm a **switch** (_sub preferring/leaning_), **sadomasochist**, **depth player**.
_If I was to describe how my energy authentically shows up in personal relationships_, I'd say that predominantly:
--with men/masc folk, I need to be in my yin; in the 'feminine pole', and the **s** aspects of my being
--with women/fem folk, I go into yang; hold the masc pole, and the D sides of me take over
[see #RelationshipPolarity]
_If I was to describe the facets of,_
~ my **s** side, I would use words like: devotional, dedicated, detailed, loyal sub, #SuperSub, service, shy, greedy, prey, #DDLg, Lana Del Rey, Lolita, Brat, Spoiled Princess
~my D side depends on whether the context is personal or professional, as those versions are very different to one another #Mistress #Goddess #Sir
# [PLEASE NOTE: the only context in which the D side of me is currently available, is Professionally.]
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#ON FET:
— Personally, I’m here for my life partner/King/DD to find me, as well as for good friends, networking, and community :tada:
— Professionally, you may enquire about
-> The***utic services (Trauma Informed, Somatic, Attachment Therapy & Coaching in Sex, Love, and Relationships)
— Both Personally & Professionally, an ever evolving, interactive, and curated Wish List, is available for anyone it may interest, be your pleasure spoiling me &/or yourself
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#LAST WORDS:
~Witnessing & Receiving Vulnerability is a Privilege
~Submission is not entitled, it's earned. Not once, over and over.
~Courage is following and honouring _**What's True**_, in any given moment, not the 'plan', not 'shoulds', not conditioning, expectations, niceties, or obligation- but What's True/Correct/Alive. Integrity is how we implement it. BRAVING, (as per Brené Brown) is our foundational OS (operating system)
_**As wild as I am romantic, as spiritual as I am kinky.**_
_Love Yourselves_,
~ B
