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domme. taking a break from here for a little while. feel free to message me or ask for my snap - I’ll check them occasionally ♥️
Female (32) Auckland, Auckland
I'm a girl that loves to be praised and taught. I love pleasing and like it all sorts of ways **Desires and Fantasies** BBC train, gang, ddlg, rough, role-play, spanking
Female (27) Christchurch, Canterbury
My love for life comes from hard work and a sense of achievement. Traveling is my way to relax and reset. I like to find challenges and goals in every destination, and then overcome them with my determination and perseverance.
Female (34) Auckland Central, Auckland
I'm looking to explore and experiment, I don't have much experience in this community but I tend to follow my curiosity hence why I'm here. I like the idea of powerplay (taking it or losing it), I think I would be a switch--and if I were a sub I'd definitely be bratty. Teach me a few things and we can put it to practice. I'd love to have a mentor. Message me and maybe we can get to know each other?
Female (22) St Heliers, Auckland
Dedicated smut/erotica writer Happy to chat with anyone about any subject, not really looking for in the flesh kink just more ideas for my next story
Female (40) Auckland, Auckland
Working domme looking for clientele and meets :) Love to wrestle, headlock/leglock, punch/kick and use my strap-on, my time, effort and expertise is valuable so I expect compensation for my skill. Very relaxed and love to chat to set things up properly
Female (25) Christchurch, Canterbury
I'm an introvert needing someone to help me get out of my head. Needing to feel the slap of a hand or other implement
Female (29) Huntly, Waikato
not super sure what to say here, see my pics, for my appearance. Im 5'6 , have short brunette hair hazel eyes. Usually wear glasses. Im very pregnant, so might disappar off the radar soon. i'm sub, very, ive always been like this, i think, being hucow is the next level of being controlled, being passive, docile, owned. I like Dom's and Domme's , i like to be femmine, mostly wear dresses and skirts, pantyhose and stockings sometimes. Im not exactly sure what im mean to say here **Desires and Fantasies** i think im a little crazy, i like it to be controlled, mentally and physically. I like bondage, love directed self bondage when im online. I have lots of fantasisies about abduction, being held, caged, trained, broken down. I dont really like ***, though I know, that I have to accept what my owner tells me to do. Being hucow, is the next level of being owned, being degraded, having to accept and submit or be punished
Female (38) Tauranga, Bay of Plenty
I'm a beginner to this field with interests in masochism and bondage
Female (19) Wiri, Auckland
Looking for a live in slave Vanilla in public, not so much in private. I enjoy the company of someone that can hold a conversation, that is when I want them to talk. I have been away from this lifestyle for a few years and now loving being back, so much fun. I want what I want when I want it, yes you can suggest but don't try to top me from the bottom it wont end well for you. I am not looking for just play! In my ideal world I would have a male slave and a female sub, I have the sub. I will not Domme you online so you can get your knob off.... I am real, I don't do play acting. A slave does what he is told, punished when he doesn't and rewarded at my whim. Pretending to do shit online does not do it for me. At this stage it is about getting to know each other and seeing/feeling if there is a connection. There must be some common likes for a real relationship to happen. Do you like ***s, are you a cat person or a dog person or maybe horses? Do you enjoy cooking if so what sort? Do you like bush walk or the beach or would you rather sit at home? Do you like watching movies or would you rather read a book and what sort? Do you like doing housework for your Domme? Yes if you are applying to be my slave there will be ownership however I need to know a bit about the person. If a slave is unhappy serving me that will have a bad energy to it and not work for me. No younger than 35 yrs or older than 55yrs.
Female (56) Bellevue, Bay of Plenty
Shy and quite at first but im looking for someone to take me places, im adventurous and want to try new things that i mabye havent befor and also get to know people, so weither thats just as friends or a constant hookup or see where things go, I would be up for it
Female (26) Nelson, Nelson
looking for a beautiful lady to come share my bed with and explore each others bodies . love to become fwb or just keen to be a little naughty ??
Female (33) Westown, Taranaki
bratty princess who loves to be treated well… if you can show me how real men treat a lady, I can show you how a real woman behaves for her man also appreciate a beautiful woman and enjoy being the centre of attention with couples…
Female (31) Christchurch, Canterbury
I'd rather not, but if I am ever reincarnated, please oh please, let me be a capybara so that I may be unfazed by all that life has to throw at me. But while I am stuck in this human form, I guess I will continue to seek joy and comfort in the simple things, and little moments. I love ***s, Disney, anime, gaming, reading, ***ting, dancing and singing. My special talent is singing every single part in a Disney song all by myself, and I tell you... that shit can be difficult. While I am very affectionate, I need to feel a mental/emotional connection before I feel some sort of attraction. Skip the small talk, I want engaging conversations. I live by open and honest communication. I am to be treated like a princess when I'm feeling little and treated like a Queen when I'm feeling dominant. 2 for 1 deal of sub and dom 😉
Female (32) St Johns, Auckland
i’m the type of girl who’ll beg to be fucked like a slut but will cry if you’re mean. i think some of you don’t realise a persons submission is earned, not js given, taken or guaranteed. add my snap- imgonbeadaddeh
Female (18) Glenholme, Bay of Plenty
looking for some fun. new to all of this and want someone i can explore with. can’t see my likes so message me x
Female (26) Wellington, Wellington
A little bit sassy, a lot sincere. Awake not woke, discerning not judgmental, strong but feminine, open but with standards, confident not arrogant. ideally looking for a long term partner… where are all the silver foxes? Open to FWB and ENM…. younger men seductress
Female (53) Mangawhai, Northland
Just really curious about other people and their likes/wants. Not looking for anything specific but I am very open to exploring 🤍
Usually One Night only but open to something casual. PM me if you’re in Auckland, Waikato or BOP
Female (36) Manurewa, Auckland
new to the scene - interesting in chatting to experienced subs and forming relationships with soft/gentle doms or DDs **Desires and Fantasies** I want to trust you to look after me… I might be a little difficult until I do but if you earn my trust I’ll be such a good girl 🙃😇
Female (31) Wellington, Wellington
Helloooo :D Ngl very into military men at the moment 🤣 or being spoiled by a daddy 🤭🤭
Female (22) Dunedin Central, Otago
me and my partner are newly open, looking for people to join us and if you treat me nice enough i’ll keep you around ;) such a brat, loves to be dominated but don’t be nasty or weird
Female (20) Mount Cook, Canterbury
so a little about me. i am a sensitive, soft bg. most definitely a demisexual. with a good dose of sapiosexual. my username here is the same as Fetlife.
Female (52) Auckland, Auckland
Experienced curvy BBW submissive looking for an experienced male Dominant. MUST live in Wellington area. What I enjoy: rough primal play bondage trust based submission What I won't tolerate: ego sadism without connection thinking sucking your cock is dominance
Female (41) Mt Victoria, Wellington

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Shy and quite at first but im looking for someone to take me places, im adventurous and want to try new things that i mabye havent befor and also get to know people, so weither thats just as friends or a constant hookup or see where things go, I would be up for it
Female (26) Nelson, Nelson
I'm looking to explore and experiment, I don't have much experience in this community but I tend to follow my curiosity hence why I'm here. I like the idea of powerplay (taking it or losing it), I think I would be a switch--and if I were a sub I'd definitely be bratty. Teach me a few things and we can put it to practice. I'd love to have a mentor. Message me and maybe we can get to know each other?
Female (22) St Heliers, Auckland
My love for life comes from hard work and a sense of achievement. Traveling is my way to relax and reset. I like to find challenges and goals in every destination, and then overcome them with my determination and perseverance.
Female (34) Auckland Central, Auckland
Working domme looking for clientele and meets :) Love to wrestle, headlock/leglock, punch/kick and use my strap-on, my time, effort and expertise is valuable so I expect compensation for my skill. Very relaxed and love to chat to set things up properly
Female (25) Christchurch, Canterbury
Dedicated smut/erotica writer Happy to chat with anyone about any subject, not really looking for in the flesh kink just more ideas for my next story
Female (40) Auckland, Auckland
I'm a beginner to this field with interests in masochism and bondage
Female (19) Wiri, Auckland
I'm an introvert needing someone to help me get out of my head. Needing to feel the slap of a hand or other implement
Female (29) Huntly, Waikato
domme. taking a break from here for a little while. feel free to message me or ask for my snap - I’ll check them occasionally ♥️
Female (32) Auckland, Auckland
Looking for a live in slave Vanilla in public, not so much in private. I enjoy the company of someone that can hold a conversation, that is when I want them to talk. I have been away from this lifestyle for a few years and now loving being back, so much fun. I want what I want when I want it, yes you can suggest but don't try to top me from the bottom it wont end well for you. I am not looking for just play! In my ideal world I would have a male slave and a female sub, I have the sub. I will not Domme you online so you can get your knob off.... I am real, I don't do play acting. A slave does what he is told, punished when he doesn't and rewarded at my whim. Pretending to do shit online does not do it for me. At this stage it is about getting to know each other and seeing/feeling if there is a connection. There must be some common likes for a real relationship to happen. Do you like ***s, are you a cat person or a dog person or maybe horses? Do you enjoy cooking if so what sort? Do you like bush walk or the beach or would you rather sit at home? Do you like watching movies or would you rather read a book and what sort? Do you like doing housework for your Domme? Yes if you are applying to be my slave there will be ownership however I need to know a bit about the person. If a slave is unhappy serving me that will have a bad energy to it and not work for me. No younger than 35 yrs or older than 55yrs.
Female (56) Bellevue, Bay of Plenty
I'm a girl that loves to be praised and taught. I love pleasing and like it all sorts of ways **Desires and Fantasies** BBC train, gang, ddlg, rough, role-play, spanking
Female (27) Christchurch, Canterbury
not super sure what to say here, see my pics, for my appearance. Im 5'6 , have short brunette hair hazel eyes. Usually wear glasses. Im very pregnant, so might disappar off the radar soon. i'm sub, very, ive always been like this, i think, being hucow is the next level of being controlled, being passive, docile, owned. I like Dom's and Domme's , i like to be femmine, mostly wear dresses and skirts, pantyhose and stockings sometimes. Im not exactly sure what im mean to say here **Desires and Fantasies** i think im a little crazy, i like it to be controlled, mentally and physically. I like bondage, love directed self bondage when im online. I have lots of fantasisies about abduction, being held, caged, trained, broken down. I dont really like ***, though I know, that I have to accept what my owner tells me to do. Being hucow, is the next level of being owned, being degraded, having to accept and submit or be punished
Female (38) Tauranga, Bay of Plenty
so a little about me. i am a sensitive, soft bg. most definitely a demisexual. with a good dose of sapiosexual. my username here is the same as Fetlife.
Female (52) Auckland, Auckland
Not sure what I’m looking for kinda just friends into the same things or smth
Female (20) Forest Lake, Waikato
Just really curious about other people and their likes/wants. Not looking for anything specific but I am very open to exploring 🤍
hello ✨ looking for my own connections with women, if that’s friendship or more. Kindness is important to me! Happily married and here with his support x
Female (33) Whangarei, Northland
I'm a 24, bi and have only ever been in 1 relationship and I wanna try new things. I have vaginismus but I'm working on it and love all other types of sex.
Female (24) Miramar, Wellington
I’m looking for in-depth conversations about my specific kink. Not pic swapping and moving to another app forum. I’m not looking for a quick thrill, but more so specifically seeking someone that’s capable of taking a fantasy-journey together.
Female (45) North Shore City, Auckland
bratty princess who loves to be treated well… if you can show me how real men treat a lady, I can show you how a real woman behaves for her man also appreciate a beautiful woman and enjoy being the centre of attention with couples…
Female (31) Christchurch, Canterbury
just looking at the mo I love dressing up in slutty lingerie or costumes, showing off, teasing, loooove dirty talk, spanked, hair pulled, kissing, sucking cock, face sitting, using toys n accessories, tied up, called good girl, dirty lil slut, pussy and cock worship😜
Female (40) Pukekohe, Auckland
Girl needs a Dom Once upon a time a guy introduced me to the Dom/Sub world, awoke a naughty/dark side of me that made me feel alive and added a lot of thrill to my everyday. Life and obligations threw us apart unfortunately….he isn’t interested anymore- and that’s ok - but I’d like (and need) to keep exploring that side of me; I just don’t know how to look for the right person or find the right connections, hence why Im here . A lot of fantasies in my head that I need to see through…. if you think you can help me, reach out xx
Female (40) Sydenham, Canterbury
looking for a vocal daddy to dominate me in a sensual way. Im not into *** but do enjoy things that heighten senses so I do enjoy being ***d. very much a praise princess and likes to be told she’s a good girl.
Female (32) Atawhai, Nelson
Hoping to be fwbs with people who value quality connection in all aspects. I’m relatively new to the scene and only really looking for in-person experiences x
Female (22) Newtown, Wellington
I'd rather not, but if I am ever reincarnated, please oh please, let me be a capybara so that I may be unfazed by all that life has to throw at me. But while I am stuck in this human form, I guess I will continue to seek joy and comfort in the simple things, and little moments. I love ***s, Disney, anime, gaming, reading, ***ting, dancing and singing. My special talent is singing every single part in a Disney song all by myself, and I tell you... that shit can be difficult. While I am very affectionate, I need to feel a mental/emotional connection before I feel some sort of attraction. Skip the small talk, I want engaging conversations. I live by open and honest communication. I am to be treated like a princess when I'm feeling little and treated like a Queen when I'm feeling dominant. 2 for 1 deal of sub and dom 😉
Female (32) St Johns, Auckland
Hello, my name is Dolli. And I really find these bits uncomfortable but here we go. I am from Aotearoa New Zealand, married but he's cool with it and also a dope as child. Two cats one of whom is a moody butt and the other one is just kick he's cute, cause he's an idiot. I'm sarcastic asf and short. I talk a lot when I'm anxious. I also break out into song randomly and am a little weird. maybe a lot, IDK people can be weird. I've had one Dom and that's all my learning along with some online research I did trying to figure why I wanted these. I am looking for a real life relationship with somebody who can teach me things in lots of different areas of life. In Real Life. ya girl is going to die from lack of dominant touch. And activities. I'm a sub who prefers a softer approach to being a Dom. Like a Daddy Dom. I like a lot of the LG dynamic of the relationship, not having to take control of any situation just happily do as I'm told to please my Dom. Yet when I inevitably mess up the punishment isn't kneeling on rice but something slightly gentler like a not fun spanking. I recently realized that some of the things I like to do just cause (get the cool bandaid for a *** test, colour, apple juice is my crack and I am bribed easily with ice cream or similar) are also heavily associated with Littles. The softer type of communication Doms use for their Littles is also far more attractive than it seemed to be. Sooooo if you are a Daddy Dom or just nicer Dom and are slightly terrified or weirdly curious come say Hi. we have treats don't ya know.
Female (42) Hawera, Taranaki

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