About me
Interested in:
I’m looking for:
- Friends
- BDSM Lovers
- Cybersex
Description
This is new to me, I've been interested and open to kink for some time but unsure how to actually join the community irl, I'm hoping this will help find some new friends and maybe I can learn something new a long the way
My kinks & fetishes
I like:
- Blindfolds
- BDSM
- Bondage
- Bondage Rope
- Caregiver / little
- Dirty Talk
- Domination
- Edgeplay
- Edging
- Violet Wand
- Erotic Film
- Erotic Wrestling
- Erotica
- Facesitting
- Fingering
- Foreplay
- Goth
- Handcuffs
- Kinky Sex
- Kissing
- Lap Dance
- Massage
- Masturbation
- Multiple Orgasms
- Oral Sex
- Sex Toys
- Spanking
- Striptease
- Suspension Bondage
- Voyeurism
My places
Fetish.com gives you…
Fetish.com is like an appetizing smorgasbord in Sevenoaks with lots of hot guys to meet up with. Have a look around first if you prefer to see who’s around, or if you know what you want, search by selecting the right category "Kinky Dating”. Nobody stays alone here for long! Fetish.com has tons going on!
This is new to me, I've been interested and open to kink for some time but unsure how to actually join the community irl, I'm hoping this will help find some new friends and maybe I can learn something new a long the way
Further Education
Thank you this is very helpful
Further Education
Glad to know I'm not alone
Further Education
I'm looking for ways to expand my kink knowledge Irl, I've been interested and open to a variety of kinks for some time now, I was a member of a cam site for a number of years, which... helped, broaden my interests but kept me as an online presence only and I have no idea how to pursue said intrests in person, any advise is greatly appreciated, I'm kinda lost with out it
BeastWithin Thank you this is very helpful Thank you this is very helpful
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· 21.09.2020 13:45:02
Jinxy Hi! I guess it depends on what you mean by pursue and expand interests in person. Are you looking for play experience? Group or one-on-one? More instructional? Community-based?
For instructional, I’ve seen several hands-on trainings through FetLife such as beginner’s course, bondage, impact play, Read more… etc. I don’t know where you’re at and if you’re local community would have these, especially currently, but worth checking into. Another possible option might be trying to find someone near you that would be willing to mentor you.
For community-based, best place to go is a munch. These are great places to learn and connect with others with varying levels of experience. Again this will be dependent on location and availability with the current times.
For play experience, there are many options depending on interest areas and relationship goals. You could schedule a session with a professional (if legal in your area), go to a dungeon, look at hook up sites (some of which cater to kink), etc. Truthfully, when looking for an one-on-one in person experience it really doesn’t even come down to kink. It comes down to treating them like a person first. In this way, it resembles regular dating. In which case, the normal dating advice applies. Treat others how you want to be treated, don’t lead with all your kink wants and desires, use proper spelling (minimal text abbreviations), be polite, etc. Sometimes it can feel like it can take a long time to meet someone, but you’ll get there! 😊
Hope something in this was helpful!
Jinx
For instructional, I’ve seen several hands-on trainings through FetLife such as beginner’s course, bondage, impact play, Read more… etc. I don’t know where you’re at and if you’re local community would have these, especially currently, but worth checking into. Another possible option might be trying to find someone near you that would be willing to mentor you.
For community-based, best place to go is a munch. These are great places to learn and connect with others with varying levels of experience. Again this will be dependent on location and availability with the current times.
For play experience, there are many options depending on interest areas and relationship goals. You could schedule a session with a professional (if legal in your area), go to a dungeon, look at hook up sites (some of which cater to kink), etc. Truthfully, when looking for an one-on-one in person experience it really doesn’t even come down to kink. It comes down to treating them like a person first. In this way, it resembles regular dating. In which case, the normal dating advice applies. Treat others how you want to be treated, don’t lead with all your kink wants and desires, use proper spelling (minimal text abbreviations), be polite, etc. Sometimes it can feel like it can take a long time to meet someone, but you’ll get there! 😊
Hope something in this was helpful!
Jinx
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· 21.09.2020 1:04:01
BeastWithin Glad to know I'm not alone Glad to know I'm not alone
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· 18.09.2020 20:23:41
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I am completely drawn in, simply amazing
Scavenger hunt ideas
Well you could go for things which are immediately recognisable like... toys, whips, hand cuffs etc or perhaps something more subtle like... candles, oils, blindfold... get your scavengers to imagine how each item could be used as they find them, hope thus helps and happy hunting 😁
looking to have some fun, make friends and expand my knowledge base
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