I am a trainer and my first message will be a story meant for entertainment purposes, it is just meant to catch your attention and share some enjoyment. it is not intended to make any presumption. Please ignore if it’s not your thing.
I am open minded and easy to talk to , love good conversation. I am looking for good reciprocal conversation and free to explore new ideas and share experiences. I do prefer to talk face to face over a coffee in a public place , much rather have real human interaction.
I am looking for good quality interaction in whatever dynamic we agree.
It would be good to meet someone who is looking to learn from very little experience or some but not very experienced. This would give us opportunity to proceed at a comfortable steady pace allowing us time to learn about each other and develop a good understanding of what we like and want.
Age and looks are less important than being able to build a good connection which does take time and effort from both parties.
If you don’t have time to meet at least once a month, if we agree to try something then it is probably best to say so to start with.
Why punish? Why is it wrong? If you are so focused on you and your work, they may actually be giving you space to do something not connected with kink. You don’t seem to have degrees of separation between kink and normal life, how can you manage to train when you don’t create a safe space away Read more… from kink?
Perhaps just a reasonable conversation with them and try to understand their perspective.
Good luck to you both.
Love it , what a great topic ! Thank you so much for putting this out there. Really nicely balanced, hope we can all take something from your well thought out discussion.
I suggest your Dom goes back to school and learns what respect and connection is all about. There are way better solutions than ignoring you. I am sure others on here will give some great and helpful advice. Hope you get a good resolution to your situation.
Great writing thanks for sharing.
Absolutely brilliant comments from both of you . So grounded and positive. It’s a hard situation and I have been through this. Never stop being your awesome selves . Big hugs all around.
Thank you so much for posting this, it’s so true and inspiring to see such good insight being let free to fly and run .