Your personal experience doesn't extend to the entire rest of the world though.

It's not a problem with 'western women' it's just human nature. Looks are important. It's sad but true. People try to downplay it for a whole host of reasons but still. They matter quite a bit. If you think that Asian or European women aren't going to judge you based off of looks too you're Read more… dreaming. Unless you're implying they have less of a choice or something else, which is kinda gross, it's not going to be a whole lot different than it is here in the states.
Not that it isn't shitty to just ghost someone on sight after you been talking for a while and they finally reveal their face though either.

That's a very good tl;dr of what I said yeah, lol.

TY, and yes a lot of what people find attractive looks-wise is definitely subjective too. I forgot to mention that.
Also I should add that even chemistry is subjective. Maybe even more so than looks.
Some people will value certain things way more than others will, and some people will ngaf about Read more… things that make you seem like the sexiest person on earth to someone else.

Here's the honest unfiltered truth, people like to downplay how important looks are. Looks actually tell a whole lot about you. Sometimes you can judge a book by it's cover, but despite that looks for most people are just what gets your foot in the door, and then chemistry and compatibility, etc is Read more… what invites you in and lets you stay a while. But you will be treated better or worse depending on who you're dealing with based solely off of how you look, whether the person means to do that or not. It's just how people are wired. No one wants to seem like they're superficial when the topic comes up either so they bend over backwards trying to convince anyone who happens to be paying attention ( and possibly themselves ) how little it actually matters, but it matters quite a bit. The good news is it's not the ONLY thing that matters though, and especially for men chasing after women your personality will count for a whole lot more than how you look unless you're in like the top 1% of ridiculously attractive looking people, lol. So to answer your question, yes most chemistry is only somewhat based on how you look and the rest comes down to how charming or funny and interesting and exciting you are. If you share the same moral framework with someone. If your interests and hobbies align, and if you have complimentary personality traits. If they think you're a good person, or someone they can see themselves starting a family with. And etc etc etc. Besides anyone who is only interested in you based off of how you look isn't someone you want to be with in the first place. Hope that helps.

Mind you this is all a personal list, but I think a quality submissive should embody most or all of these traits:
Eagerness, enthusiasm, consistency, reverence, honesty, ability to communicate directly and unambiguously, attentiveness, attention to detail, the ability to be proactive and anticipate Read more… my needs once she knows what I like in particular, someone who doesn't need to be micromanaged every step of the way with every little thing, lack of a bad attitude and/or no desire to use 'bratiness' as an ass covering mechanism for shitty behavior. Being thoughtful, mindful, and considerate. Understanding the fact that you need to 'quiet your mind' doesn't take precedence over everything else. Which ties into selflessness instead of being selfish or entitled. Not treating the dynamic like I'm here to fulfill all your needs without the expectation of doing the same in return. Not having the outlook that your submission is a gift without acknowledging what I do as a Dominant is equally as important and meaningful and needs to be earned every bit as much. Understanding that outside of the dynamic we're still equals.

It's unfortunate but this happens to a lot of us these days. I really don't know what it is, but people have gotten increasingly flaky and terrified of actually telling someone they don't think things are working out, so they just vanish like this. Who knows what the reason was. He could have been Read more… cheating on someone and finally felt the remorse or it could've been a 1000 other different things. At the end of the day it's usually not you or anything you did wrong. I know it's shitty but honestly the only thing you can really do is wait until you don't feel like crap about it any more then put yourself back out there because someone else wil almost certainly come along. Although having said all that this was a particularly creepy fucking thing to do to someone. You should actually consider yourself lucky because you dodged a bullet here. Anybody who's capable of doing some shit like this is probably a real disgusting person.

You can post whatever you want but you're not exempt from hearing what other people have to say about it.
If you only capable of hearing positive things then save it for your friends and family. Don't share it publicly.

Okay sure but if he's entitled to post it we're entitled to voice our reaction to it as well.
So no, 'scroll n roll' doesn't apply here.
Free s***ch isn't freedom from the consequences of what you have to say.

The writing is normal, but no neither of those things are.
The contract and signing up for a website are tools for scammers.
Don't ever do that.

No dude the whole 'website contract' thing that you have to pay for is a scam. Don't do that. You're only going to lose your *** and be disappointed.