I mean... Considering how much you've chatted, and how much time he has put in, to me means he was very interested. It's a shame that he just wasn't the one you were looking for, seems sexually he was all about taking. Doesn't sound to me you would of enjoyed the play with him. Sorry you've Read more… invested so much time into him. Him not being specific about what he was going to do... I mean it's really hard to judge, but I do that as well, just because once I tell someone the scenario I've got in my head, I'm kinda no longer interested in playing it out 😂 I've got a very good imagination - it's like it has already happened IRL haha... Or I just don't have an idea, but I'm passionate when I Dom, so I wouldn't really do anything crazy anyway, usually just trying to cross off as many of someone's kinks as possible. I really appreciate you mention this, I didn't realise that could be off putting, might need to write something down to copy and paste later haha 😂

Maybe post orgasm ***? So like set a timer on say X minutes, tie him up, and wank him for that duration despite when he cums and wether or not he gets soft, more fun for you seeing him struggle and maybe his brain will start lasting longer to avoid POT? Who knows who knows

Cockcage actually makes me cum faster, frequent fucking makes me last much much longer. Try ruining his orgasm and then playing with him after for a more immediate effect?

Tongue pierce, you can get a vibrating tongue piercing, my ex did that it was wild, wanna do the same for the girl I'm seeing, as in get one done myself but I'm too scared haha 😂 so still prepping mentally

Mad hearing that, coz you are actually really good looking, I've been struggling my whole life, clinging to the first girl that looked my way, ending up in some f*ed up relationships as the result... The really hard thing, that I've heard a lot, is that the harder you look, the less ladies you'll Read more… find. Work on yourself rather than finding ladies, find things you love and enjoy, hobbies, preferably outdoor activities to give you a chance to come across someone, and just talk to people, you see a lady in a shop, don't hit on her, just comment on the prices of stuff or say something funny... "At the rate this is going, soon we will be taking mortgage to buy a yoghourt" etc. Then you count on seeing them again and again, smile smile smile, and then ask to go out... I mean my example is horrible but just try to build positivity around you, look at what older gentlemen do, they always talk to everyone and smile, and are approachable, fun and interesting to be around, be that person, I'm foreign English speaker, so I can do this so well when I'm in my country speaking in my tongue, not gonna lie I can't do it in the UK. But yeah, sense of humour to catch a lady, cunnilingus to keep a lady (just kidding 😂 it helps though) most of the time, ladies can put up with so much in a relationship (respect), just don't be a dick and she'll stay round.

But seriously I haven't tried it, but spontaneity in sex is best, it felt right for both of you at the time, you both got turned on by it, and that's beautiful, but it would be kinda weird meeting someone off the internet specifically for this.... In my opinion of course