Ook verkrijgbaar in het Nederlands
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Dutch/Canadian, very open-minded, sensual, affectionate, discrete, looking for regular play, open to LTR.
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Based in the Reading area. Happy to travel or accommodate, work from home mostly.
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Very discreet if necessary.
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D/s, M/s, FWB, ONS, GGG
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clggyknkstr on FetLife and Telegram
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== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
100% Dominant
100% Rigger
98% Voyeur
91% Master/Mistress
89% Owner
89% Sadist
88% Degrader
86% Daddy/Mommy
85% Brat tamer
82% Experimentalist
68% Primal (Hunter)
66% Exhibitionist
47% Non-monogamist
16% Vanilla
7% Ageplayer
0% Switch
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Sadly, this person was not right for you. So sorry you’re feeling hurt, you deserve so much better. Stay strong, none of this reflects on you. Focus on you and what you need from your Dom, then make sure to make that clear. If your Dom does not fulfil his end, bring it up. D/s like any other Read more… relationship is a 2-way street, you deserve as much respect as your Dom.
One more thought on the subject: personally, when invested in a D/s dynamic, I want to be in my sub’s thoughts, whether it is for the purpose of a simple check in to make sure she is OK, to give her an instruction or challenge, or to relive a previous experience or have her eagerly anticipate the Read more… next one.
Then it is essential that you communicate your need in this area and why it is so important to you, especially if a lack of communication is a trigger for you.
From my POV, if actively involved with and keenly interested in a sub, contact remains regular throughout the day. Otherwise it would drift into FWB territory where there is no such emphasis on ensuring a sub’s wellbeing. Just my personal POV.
Fair point, that should have read ‘could’. Agree, it is the sub’s choice at all times and does not determine genuity.
As a private picture you should, so you’ll have the ability to determine who gets to see it