A little about me; primarily a switch… which causes so many conflicts it isn’t funny.
A part of me wants to completely surrender; another part really doesn’t.
I tend to be submissive with men and dominant with females- though this isn’t a hard limit.
To get the superficial side out of the way; I’d be classed as a BBW though this is something I’m working on.
My experience lies generally in the 24/7 arena with my partners being the submissive. I’m open to new things and ideas. I have my own kinks and likes.
I live in County Durham but spend a fair bit of time in Lancashire too.
Desires and Fantasies
my fantasies range from being bent over and spanked to being held down and made to scream.
they range from denying someone for hours to forcing it over and over
Though in response to the question, you be whatever you want to be. Whatever makes you happy and works for you.
Or girls….
J/S equal opportunist and all :-D