Hello! Looking to increase my knowledge as a formal dom. Have experience with both DDLG and Master/Servant. Limited knowledge in rigging but willing to learn. I always treat my girls right but unfortunately there came a time we had to seperate. I am a stickler for the "rules" and really need to get to know the potential sub before playing. Please ask me anything. If there is one thing I know, communication is key. Catfish, I'm on to you. Camgirls, you do you but not interested.
Hard limits are nothing that will cause long term or damage both physically or mentally. Discussions with potential subs can iron out details.
Welcome to the community! Like many have said just take as long as you need to find that right dom. Talk EVERYTHING out. While experience can heighten some aspects of a relationship the same can be said about inexperience. I've found my best relationships have been when both parties are learning Read more… and growing together.
In most cases I would say if you enjoy what you do why not get paid but then there is the flip side of things changing when it becomes a job.
I think it's a mixture of both nature and nurture for me.