I currently have a dom now. What worked for me is I didnt expect a relationship right away. Femdoms are people, they have other interests and hobbies than just when you want to get off. I became friends with someone who had similar kinks as me and it turned into a d/s dynamic. I recommend just Read more… making friends and talking about your interests and hobbies too not just straight into what your kinks are. Be nice and friendly and treat people with respect.

Oh yeah I like buying my dommes stuff but I don't like tributes or findoms. If I'm buying something it's because I choose to but don't have to... if that makes sense. But as this is a new relationship I have I'm holding off for now poetry however I might try my hand in. I'm not very good but she Read more… might appreciate the effort?

I've acc thought of writing stories for her so you mentioning that is my motivation to start, so cheers!

Eh always be sure the person you are talking to is genuine so I start off talking about myself or them without kink, get to know who they are a bit, vet them so ask for pics to verify who they are ect. I'd also set all your social media to private so people can't find where you work, go to school Read more… all your friends and family in one single search. (Trust me I've been blackmailed before). And don't use your real name straight away 😂. Once your safe and confident the person is real and has no malicious intentions a meet up is safe but I'd recommend a public place like a coffee shop to start. If the person says they want to stay now or seem inpatient, get outta there, a genuine person would understand and also want to get to know you too.

I currently have a dom in an online dynamic. It's great. For some part I make my own rules such as if I'm caged I stay caged end of. She gives me tasks each night for her own entertainment, she asks how it makes me feel. But the kink part aside, she genuinely has an interest in my well being making Read more… sure I always tell her when I'm feeling down. Personally online play for me is a great stepping stone for irl play. It helps you recognise your limits, what you enjoy and it builds a connection and trust before you see them irl. I think online can be an ongoing dynamic aslong as both sides are putting in effort!

Once I was seeing this girl and we went out to a mall/shopping centre. We went shopping and all that until it was closing and it was really just us and a few security guards. We were talking on a bench until she moved her hand to my belt buckle, unbuckled, unzipped, and moved her hand down my Read more… pants grabbed and tugged and I was on the floor in *** as she mistook my dick for my balls. That was the first and last time I seen her. 😂

Yeah I also disagree unless it's an agreed upon kink they share. I was scammed and blackmailed when I didnt hand over *** to a domme so now *** is my biggest turnoff. I also think it does generally ruin the whole experience of kink because for me it's about the connection and vulnerability of Read more… eachother and the trust that I enjoy the most. *** makes it seem all insincere and fake. Kink is fun and should be fun for everyone so demanding *** when it's not a job or kink ruins that. (God that was pent up for a while.. )