About me
Description
Hey, I'm a computer science student.
I'm a switch so I'm down with switches, subs and doms 
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in my vanilla life I'm a big metal head nerd, I love videogames and horror movies. I'm also very dependant on caffeine lol.
in my kink life I love bondage with ropes, gags, impact play and more.
currently just want to build meaningful connections and relationships with people. maybe some friends outside of college or ppl to play some videogames with sounds dope.
Limits
, ageplay, extreme
My roles & archetype
My kinks & fetishes
Wanna know what interests me?:
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Couple these with quick release equestrian Read more… locks and you can be reasonable safe as possible.
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Arrange a safe call with a local kinkster you trust or your dom so the can check in, no answer = something has gone wrong.
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Practice slipknots, that wont tighten but can enable you to release them with teeth etc
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Always make sure you have saftey cutters in easy reach. If you are doing a standing predicament make sure you have something soft around you to fall on to incase you space or fall asleep before the locks give out .
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Finally always start simple and test relaese mechinisms, durations of locks etc with someone present. Eg your dom even use it as a prelude to play. Eg put yourself in self bondage, and the Dom keeps watch and if you struggle to release yourself he helps.
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This can lead to some interesting optioms.eg, your dom is visiting for play, you put yourself in self bondage 20-30 minutes before they arrive so you are ready for then
Always have tools handy to help facilitate your escape. Knife, hacksaw, drill; one-handed tools.
I’ve gotten myself into a few predicaments over the years and struggled for hours to get free. It can be funny and frustrating. I actually had to hacksaw my way out of a situation the other night.
Siri voice dial a friend if need be. Leave a key under the mat. Slipknots and simple hitches. Avoid bowlines.
Always have tools handy to help facilitate your escape. Knife, hacksaw, drill; one-handed tools.
I’ve gotten myself into a few predicaments over the years and struggled for hours to get free. It can be funny and frustrating. I actually had to hacksaw my way out of a situation the other night.
Siri voice dial a friend if need be. Leave a key under the mat.
I currently have a dom now. What worked for me is I didnt expect a relationship right away. Femdoms are people, they have other interests and hobbies than just when you want to get off. I became friends with someone who had similar kinks as me and it turned into a d/s dynamic. I recommend just Read more… making friends and talking about your interests and hobbies too not just straight into what your kinks are. Be nice and friendly and treat people with respect.
Oh yeah I like buying my dommes stuff but I don't like tributes or findoms. If I'm buying something it's because I choose to but don't have to... if that makes sense. But as this is a new relationship I have I'm holding off for now poetry however I might try my hand in. I'm not very good but she Read more… might appreciate the effort?
I've acc thought of writing stories for her so you mentioning that is my motivation to start, so cheers!
Poetry IS a lovely thought especially if you can find out what her favorite author is, or if maybe there is a famous author from around where she lives or where she grew up. That would show your attention to details about her life and I feel it would be very much appreciated... Just a thought.😉💜😎
or, of course, gifts - especially if not expected and especially if tie in with any other events (birthday, christmas, anniversary since you met) ❞
Oh yeah I like buying my dommes stuff but I don't like tributes or findoms. If I'm Read more… buying something it's because I choose to but don't have to... if that makes sense. But as this is a new relationship I have I'm holding off for now :) poetry however I might try my hand in. I'm not very good but she might appreciate the effort?
Eh always be sure the person you are talking to is genuine so I start off talking about myself or them without kink, get to know who they are a bit, vet them so ask for pics to verify who they are ect. I'd also set all your social media to private so people can't find where you work, go to school Read more… all your friends and family in one single search. (Trust me I've been blackmailed before). And don't use your real name straight away 😂. Once your safe and confident the person is real and has no malicious intentions a meet up is safe but I'd recommend a public place like a coffee shop to start. If the person says they want to stay now or seem inpatient, get outta there, a genuine person would understand and also want to get to know you too.
I currently have a dom in an online dynamic. It's great. For some part I make my own rules such as if I'm caged I stay caged end of. She gives me tasks each night for her own entertainment, she asks how it makes me feel. But the kink part aside, she genuinely has an interest in my well being making Read more… sure I always tell her when I'm feeling down. Personally online play for me is a great stepping stone for irl play. It helps you recognise your limits, what you enjoy and it builds a connection and trust before you see them irl. I think online can be an ongoing dynamic aslong as both sides are putting in effort!
Once I was seeing this girl and we went out to a mall/shopping centre. We went shopping and all that until it was closing and it was really just us and a few security guards. We were talking on a bench until she moved her hand to my belt buckle, unbuckled, unzipped, and moved her hand down my Read more… pants grabbed and tugged and I was on the floor in *** as she mistook my dick for my balls. That was the first and last time I seen her. 😂
Yeah I also disagree unless it's an agreed upon kink they share. I was scammed and blackmailed when I didnt hand over *** to a domme so now *** is my biggest turnoff. I also think it does generally ruin the whole experience of kink because for me it's about the connection and vulnerability of Read more… eachother and the trust that I enjoy the most. *** makes it seem all insincere and fake. Kink is fun and should be fun for everyone so demanding *** when it's not a job or kink ruins that. (God that was pent up for a while.. )