Personally, I can equally enjoy kink with and without penetrative sexual activity. Some of my most memorable and intense experiences have been without ‘PIV’, to coin a phrase. And I really love PIV!
It absolutely comes down to the connection and context of the relationship/scene.

Very generous of Sir and Miss L to afford gimp this indulgence. It should consider itself very fortunate.

Be yourself and be true to your needs. A good Dom will nurture your true self and encourage your development.
How much is too much - don’t put on an act, just be yourself, and then it’s not a pretence.
Don’t feel compelled to do everything all at once, and never ever allow yourself to be Read more… pressured into anything you really don’t feel comfortable with.

This is such a positive statement that this behaviour is not ok, and I have heard some horrific stories from ladies who have been subjected to this and then suffered incredible *** as the direct result of rebuffing said advances.
I can’t help but sigh though, that it has come to this; should we Read more… really need a Law enforcing this? Have we simply given up on educating what’s right and wrong 😔

Nobody is able to tell you how to respond, so all I can say is from a personal (caregiver) perspective. As a Daddy, I see my role as one of nurture and guidance, thus such topics would be discussed considering the pros and cons; what, why, how, outcomes, etc.
Stepping outside of our comfort zones Read more… is healthy for growth, but you should know that your personal safety is also important within this as well as your instinct to protect her.
You cannot provide for her safety if yours is compromised, and she has to hear this if it concerns you.
Just my personal perspective, certainly not qualified advice. I wish you well with however you proceed.

Lovely to see your insightful words again. A truly welcome sight, and so very well said.

Quite beautiful. You describe your deserved *** well.

Utterly beautiful. Captured to perfection.