Aaahhhh..
I got it now..
Duh..😆😆
Thanks.

Quite an interesting subject this... Don't really hear about this type of kink.. (well I don't anyway haha).. but interesting actually.. and I can see the enjoyment actually..

Sorry dee I don't know how to tag you..😆😆
Just a beginner here..lol.x

I know what you mean. I don't know stats.. just a guess..haha.🤷🏼‍♀️🤷🏼‍♀️
But im definitely with you on the BDSM side of things as there has to be a whole lot more involved (openess, trust, respect, loyalty etc) moreso than a vanilla relationship.
So sorry about your own experience and hope things Read more… work out for you.xx

Couldn't agree more. And not being ssxist but it always seems to be the guy that does the above.. not always but I would say 90% of the time
This happens a lot with normal 'relationship' start offs...
But I also have to agree that any person should be given the full info as to anyone's intentions Read more… and their future plans and/or choice they wish to make down the line.. it's only fair.

Well that's good.to hear and you sound sensible.enough to have looked into things and been able to ask advice and things like that.. yeah block and ignore is what to do..
But some total newbie without even having tried any kink at all might well get sucked in I guess. Hopefully not, but it's life Read more… and it happens..
Your never going to stop the assholes.. but this is a great site, help is just a comment or a msg away and there's always.people to.help.you.out and advise on lots of.different agendas.. just glad you sorted things out your end xx

Yeah.. keyboard warriors as thwr known as eh..lol..
And I agree, those are the ones that have never really even tried any kink in there real life.. maybe watching it online etc, then that makes them a real kinkster..lol..
But it takes more than that, you both sound like you have had your fair share Read more… of kinkiness.. and can spot the tell tail signs of a thirsty bloke/woman online... But a complete newbie that's here for a first time could very easily get sucked into a thing like that thinking their doing the right thing, but in reality there being played , so to speak.. why can't people just be normal/polite and go about things in a right way??.... Thing is, your always going to get them and never stop it . .

I agree with you both Sammy and dee..
A connection is made first of all through an inbox.. but to me that msg and onwards communications is getting to know the person, as a person... It's not hard to be polite and just have a normal decent conversation as you would if you met in a bar .. what Read more… follows after that (and a long way off for me after speaking for a while I would say) is what your actually into, and if someone wants you to call them sir, or wants tasks for you to do after 5 mins of chatting to me, means absoluty nothing.. to me it's letting me know it's someone that's just here for a quick fix of sexual horniness and not here for the long haul to be able to actually meet someone for real..
Me for one would want to get to know that person inside and out, likes dislikes, their daily life as they go along there business, kids, or just chat about everyday things to ascertwether you would both be compatible to start with.. it's a connection you need to make first off.. not just jump straight into a makeshift scenario and think that's it, your my sun from now on.. it just doesn't work like that..
It's nice just to be polite and always have that respect for whoever you do end up chatting to..
But that's just my opinion. Obviotby the sounds of it, some will disagree with me there. But that's just me, and hopefully the majority of people on sites like this think the same..(but in reality we know that's not the truth.)
Well I hope you are both ok and sensible enough to whittle out the assholes from the genuine ones... Judging by your comments above you have already done that as you have same inboxes .😆😆😆