No needles, no obstruction of MY vision, no ice applied to my skin (have a thyroid problem and get frostbite super easily) nothing in contact with my eyes, no *** or degrading (exceptions- things that some people would think of as insulting but which I consider complimentary: slut, whore, etc )
I'm a switch, pretty right down the center, love being on either side equally... *in general* I've tended to be dominant with other women and nonbinary people and submissive with masc leaning folk and most often I stick mostly which ever side of the spectrum I end up on with a specific person.
I Read more… HAVE been lucky enough to have several partners over the years with whom I COULD switch to various degrees, it can be a challenge to figure out how things will work in balance, EVERY dynamic is different and MY ability to switch may not be there with someone even if THEY could... until recently every partner I've been able to comfortably switch with the dynamic ended up being such that we took turns but when one of us was in TOP MODE the other would be firmly in sub mode for the duration, whether it be for the day, a few days, when i was SUPER compatible with them maybe just an hour and then something would happen to take our minds off it and after we might reverse roles.
My most recent partner is... lol he is SO NEW for me! Our dynamic is, in a TON of ways, not like any ive ever had (or realized i wanted even!) before I met him. But from the start, the thing that drew me to him HARD was that we have my "holy grail" of switch dynamics, the kind i sort of always dreamed about but knew was probably not an actual possibility... we switch completely fluidly.
If the mood strikes one of us our roles can completely reverse IN MID SENTENCE, and we work so well together that if one has that urge to change the game the other just catches that desire like it's contagious and automatically responds in kind!
It almost SHOULDN'T work, it feels a bit like telepathy or precognution at times and I've honestly hard a really difficult time BELIEVING neither of us are delusional or manipulating the situation... but at this point its undeniably real and I RECOGNIZED it between us long before I managed to KISS the boy🤣
I realize the person you were asking already answered but I liked both the question and the response and thought I'd give my 2 cents!
I'm a switch, pretty right down the center, love being on either side equally... *in general* I've tended to be dominant with other women and nonbinary people and Read more… submissive with masc leaning folk and most often I stick mostly which ever side of the spectrum I end up on with a specific person.
I HAVE been lucky enough to have several partners over the years with whom I COULD switch to various degrees, it can be a challenge to figure out how things will work in balance, EVERY dynamic is different and MY ability to switch may not be there with someone even if THEY could... until recently every partner I've been able to comfortably switch with the dynamic ended up being such that we took turns but when one of us was in TOP MODE the other would be firmly in sub mode for the duration, whether it be for the day, a few days, when i was SUPER compatible with them maybe just an hour and then something would happen to take our minds off it and after we might reverse roles.
My most recent partner is... lol he is SO NEW for me! Our dynamic is, in a TON of ways, not like any ive ever had (or realized i wanted even!) before I met him. But from the start, the thing that drew me to him HARD was that we have my "holy grail" of switch dynamics, the kind i sort of always dreamed about but knew was probably not an actual possibility... we switch completely fluidly.
If the mood strikes one of us our roles can completely reverse IN MID SENTENCE, and we work so well together that if one has that urge to change the game the other just catches that desire like it's contagious and automatically responds in kind!
It almost SHOULDN'T work, it feels a bit like telepathy or precognution at times and I've honestly hard a really difficult time BELIEVING neither of us are delusional or manipulating the situation... but at this point its undeniably real and I RECOGNIZED it between us long before I managed to KISS the boy🤣
Ohhhh VERY well said!!!