I don't know if it is just me or if the website, it is probably just me. my profile says I am looking to make friends and that seems to go against me. any woman I have actually had message me or even answered a message that I sent out seems to ghost as soon as I ask about them. do I just suck at this swinging thing or am I just that unwanted by every other woman besides my wife. I am really close to just deleting my account and just letting my wife fuck other guys and not try to really be apart of the swinging community. I really don't think I have unreasonable expectations of the women I reach out to. Again it is probably just I am not a commodity that women want.
I am a married man part of a ENM/Swinger couple. I am really looking to build friendships with couples and women( not looking for quantity but quality) who share similar interests and maybe open me up to new things. Right now I know I am into pegging and impact play(usually the one doing the flogging). I know as a guy it is hard to stand out from the crowd when women constantly have men hitting on them and wanting to fuck everything that walks, but I figure if I don't put myself out there I will not get what I am looking for. I want to get to know you and what your kinks and desires are. I am genuinely looking for a friendship that could lead to some kinky play. I travel for work so really anywhere is the US is open. I will be in the flagstaff area for the next 6 months.
Anything bathroom or *** related. Not looking for guys. I am good enough at getting down on myself so don't need to be humiliated by someone else.
My wife and I have been ENM/Swingers for about 7 months. Our communication has never been better, especially about hard topics. Our honesty with our feelings has also never been better. I like your wife, my wife has never wanted me more and let's me know like never before. And yes having another Read more… woman hit on me is definitely a confidence boost.