About me
Interested in:
I’m looking for:
- Friends
- Kinky Dates
- LTR (relationship)
- Events & Places
- NSA (no strings...)
- BDSM Lovers
Description
I am a 36-year-old Dom with a varied experience with submissives.
I've engaged in play that ranges from single-scene arrangements to full-time TPE.
I have a fairly strong kink for effort that drives most of the things I enjoy. I like to see submissives go through things on my behalf, whether that's spending effort, concentration, endurance, service, etc.
I reward them according to the effort they went to on my behalf.
On the back of that effort kink is a fairly sadistic streak.
If you're looking for externalised consequences or someone to hurt you the way you need it. Give me a try.
Fair warning: I am not a soft Dom.
Limits
My roles & archetype
My kinks & fetishes
I like:
- 24/7
- Erotic Photography
- Accent Fetish
- Amateur Videos
- Anal Hook
- Anal Sex
- Blindfolds
- Ball Gag
- BDSM
- BDSM Branding
- BDSM Collar
- Begging
- Biting Fetish
- Bondage
- Bondage Belt
- Bondage Cuffs
- Bondage Harness
- Bondage Yoke
- Bondage Cage
- Bondage Hood
- Bondage Sleepsack
- Bondage Tape
- Breath Play
- Chains
- Collar & Leash
- Corsets
- Cuddling
- Deep Throating
- Dirty Talk
- Discipline
- Domination
- Threesomes
- Electro Sex Stimulation
- Elbow Harness
- Erotica
- Exhibitionism
- Extreme Bondage
- Face Slapping
- Restraints
- Fetish Wear
- FFM Threesome
- Fingering
- Floggers
- Foreplay
- Gags
- Gangbang
- Group Sex
- Hair Pulling
- Handcuffs
- Handjobs
- Rough Sex
- High Heel Fetish
- Humbler
- Humiliation
- Hypersexuality
- Kinky Sex
- Kissing
- Costumes
- Lip Fetish
- Massage
- Armbinder
- Nudism
- Oral Sex
- Orgasm Control
- Spanking Paddles
- Dogging
- Partner Swapping
- Piercings
- Pinching
- Polyamory
- Porn
- Rimming
- Role Play
- Sadism
- Sensory Deprivation
- Sex at Work
- Sex on the Beach
- Car Sex
- Elevator Sex
- Outdoor Sex
- Sex at the Movies
- Sex Parties
- Sex in the Water
- Shower Sex
- Younger Sex Partners
- Sex Toys
- Photo Swapping
- Slave Training
- Spanking
- Spreader Bar
- Spit Fetish
- Striptease
- Swinger
- Subservience
- Wax Play
- Watersports
- Whips
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The little pop her throat makes when I take my cock back out and the way she proudly blinks away the tears 🥵
Doms meeting Subs Needs
I was just talking to someone about this.
In my view, in all D/s relationships of any severity you are exchanging. The sub gains obligations and the Dom gains responsibilities and accountability.
Your service is supposed to get you your needs met in all instances.
Likedoubletrouble129, Chesterfield_Dreams, MsNubienneand 1 more… ·
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When it is on its knees and crawling...I almost don't care whether it is away from me or towards. It's magnificent. "Don't tempt me."
Sometimes a trial dynamic doesn't work out, and that's okay. It's important to be clear and honest about why and to set clear expectations about any future interactions.
Sometimes it is close but not enough.
I shall move on and try again; perhaps this time I'll find something a lil darker.
Sometimes it is close but not enough.
I shall move on and try again; perhaps this time I'll find something a lil darker.
You wake up feeling full and groggy. You open your eyes but it's still dark. Something fabric is pressed against your face. Something hard is stretching out your ass. Your thoughts start to crystalise: you're being fucked.
The hand on your throat squeezes tighter, and the one on the pillow over Read more… your mouth and nose adjusts against your struggles. Your arms are arches behind you, between your back and a body - there's nowhere to go.
Your orgasm is building as your ass is hammered, you're leaking all over the bed, everything is dark, and hard, and vague. Your breathe is thin and you don't have the strength to fight.
And then your orgasm hits you, a moment later, long enough for you to wish you could get a full breath, the hand on your throat clamps hard, and the vagueness takes you again.
The last thing you hear before ***ness takes you once again is the groaning of a voice that makes you wet. That means "good job". That means you're exactly where you're supposed to be.
Now that's a Friday morning.
The hand on your throat squeezes tighter, and the one on the pillow over Read more… your mouth and nose adjusts against your struggles. Your arms are arches behind you, between your back and a body - there's nowhere to go.
Your orgasm is building as your ass is hammered, you're leaking all over the bed, everything is dark, and hard, and vague. Your breathe is thin and you don't have the strength to fight.
And then your orgasm hits you, a moment later, long enough for you to wish you could get a full breath, the hand on your throat clamps hard, and the vagueness takes you again.
The last thing you hear before ***ness takes you once again is the groaning of a voice that makes you wet. That means "good job". That means you're exactly where you're supposed to be.
Now that's a Friday morning.
I got a headache cause you've been running through my mind all damn day,
The stilettos they echo around my brain driving me insane.
The stilettos they echo around my brain driving me insane.
Falling in love
The only things that matter are: communication and compartmentalisation.
Have you communicated and understood your Sub? Is romance / feelings something they are comfortable exploring?
If the answer is no, is it something you're capable of compartmentalizing? If both parties are not fully on board Read more… with exploring it you could have fairly significant problems and discomfort in your future.
Total darkness suits you. I love that you are bound, blinded, locked away but not deafened. You can hear me on the other side of the door, I'm laughing and chatting with friends. You wonder whether I can hear the bumps and shuffles of you struggling to make your predicament more comfortable. If you Read more…
fall against the door and it makes a noise, will it disturb me enough that I'll come to punish you?
No, that'd be too easy a way out.
So you will wait, while I enjoy my friends, and you will be released from confinement when I have need or use for you.
Just try not to flood my cupboard while you wait.
No, that'd be too easy a way out.
So you will wait, while I enjoy my friends, and you will be released from confinement when I have need or use for you.
Just try not to flood my cupboard while you wait.
iamelodin I love predicament in general, not just predicament bondage. Predicament bondage for me is a bit like the magic the Magician's Choice whereby a person is presented with the illusion of choice (or sometimes a real choice) but one that doesn't effect the overall outcome because other things are at Read more… play.
You can choose to lift yourself higher so that you aren't choking, but doing so puts your foot close to candle. The choice is yours, but the pleasure - your ***, discomfort, and effort - is guaranteed for me regardless.
You can choose to lift yourself higher so that you aren't choking, but doing so puts your foot close to candle. The choice is yours, but the pleasure - your ***, discomfort, and effort - is guaranteed for me regardless.
LikeGeorgina-7400
· one year ago
iamelodin Literally one of my favourite things. Literally one of my favourite things.
LikeMistresstob, MistressNat-3054, jnny-7095
· one year ago
I can see the shaking in your legs start to spread, the twitching in your hand as you slowly squeeze a fist. I can see the hardening of your eyes. You know you're nearly there, the limit of your tolerance, the cliff at the end of your endurance. Just a tiny shift of weight or change of posture Read more…
would be enough to grant you release.
And you hate it, because you want more, because you know deep and instinctually that the only way to get what you want is to hold on. To go far enough to please me. To stretch even just a little passed the line you thought was a wall.
The wetness in your eyes isn't from the ***, it's from being so close to the thing you *** the most: failure.
And you hate it, because you want more, because you know deep and instinctually that the only way to get what you want is to hold on. To go far enough to please me. To stretch even just a little passed the line you thought was a wall.
The wetness in your eyes isn't from the ***, it's from being so close to the thing you *** the most: failure.
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