I should first explain I am legally blind; that means I can see some things but not small or distant stuff. It's not a major issue for me, but I want to make sure it's not an issue for you. I have a lifetime of adapting to it, but you may need some time. Because of that I may miss some body language and facial expressions, so communicating clearly is key. It also prevents me from driving, but beyond those two issues, I can do most things.
At heart, I'm a nice guy who enjoys many things, both vanilla and spicy. Communication is the cornerstone of any functional relationship, that goes double for fetishes; consent is another major component of a successful fetish relationship. I'm eager to work to ensure we always have safe fun and I'm willing to take my time to get things right. I'm a retired government accountant so you know I'm trustworthy, patient and careful.
Ideally, I'd like a long-term relationship, but I'm open to other experiences in my search for someone.
Some of my vanilla interests include technology, politics, economics, science fiction, fantasy, horror, and videogames. I also frequently go to the gym and would love to have someone to exercise with, at least a little.
I'm up for trying anything safe as long as we know what we're doing, research is part of the fun. It also can't hurt anyone else.
I've noticed that they only appear on the mobile app (Android for me) when you haven't gotten that one yet, but in the desktop browser (Chrome in my case) they're always there. So pick whatever works best for you.