I’m sapiosexual if you don’t know what that means then…. move along.
Walls and boundaries are much different. A wall gives power to others. A boundary is standing in your own power.
I appreciate this conversation. Especially the verbatim discussion. I am also interested in the secret control drama. Please let us know the outcome. Thank you for your vulnerability around your sneaking.
Communication. Communication. Communication. She should be checking in with you often. If not advocate for yourself. Also. Making sure of the level of after care you receive. If there’s not enough right away. You can gauge that later more impact won’t be either. If she’s caring and attentive and Read more… strong and listens well. Then enjoy.
I found it helpful to try some restraint time with conversation and scissors near by.
Wow. Thank you fir the reminder. So pleased to see this. 💗