Back on here after some time. Just browsing for friends or something more. Not in a rush to find anything. Pretty chill and wouldn’t mind meeting someone chill as well. I’m an open book so ask away. Monogamous by nature but I also don’t mind being a third in play. When I’m with someone or say a couple, I’m loyal to that scenario. Workaholic in life and at play. I enjoy conversations about music and cinema. Art also tickles my fancy. I’m sarcastic AF and I like to laugh at dark shit. Don’t judge a book by its cover. I have my professional side and my kink side. Love all things gothic and BDSM inspired. Stocking, corsets, harnesses, heels, shoes, makeup, nails, hair. I’m an audiophile and music nut. To be honest I could just talk music with someone and be perfectly content. Punk, Metal, New York Hip Hop, Jazz, classic rock and roll, hard rock, prog rock. Just some examples. I love all things latex and leather. It’s my main fetish. Simple yet so hard to find people who are into it. Btw, I might comment if I see leather and latex. Don’t freak out , just a harmless compliment. Some people are too full of themselves. Take the damn compliment and stop thinking everyone’s stalking you!!! For real, it’s annoying. I enjoy peoples pics they post on the feed. I might also compliment you on that. Not everyone here is a fuckin douche canoe. I get that we aren’t close, if you don’t want compliments on shit YOU posted, turn it off in your settings. I enjoy handing out compliments and praise. Someone could be having a shit day or have a confidence issue and that one little thing could make them smile a bit. Nothing wrong with that. Just know it all comes from a sincere place. I’m a pretty friendly guy and I love to talk shit and joke. Never serious unless it has to be. I’m good with just friends. If something else happens than let’s go with it. If not then I’m still down for whatever the fuck ever. I’ve been open about my bdsm lifestyle since 2019. I’ve always wanted to explore it, just didn’t know how. All of my experience is as a Dom. Got into this to be a sub. Never trusted anyone enough to get the submissive side of me. I consider myself a switch but like I said, I’m a Dom who wouldn’t mind letting someone enjoy my submissive side. Just has to be trust. And on that note, just be cool to one another and try to be kind. We are all here to find someone, don’t have to be a stuck up asshole to do it. ☺️☺️☺️

Everyone is different so the limits change. My limit is all things illegal and danger to anyone physically and mentally.