She may have other things going on in her life, but the first thought I had was that she's married or has another man in her life. I hit it off amazingly with this guy I met on line, we even met up a few times. Some things were red flags, friends gave me their opinions but after a few years (yes Read more… years) I thought there's no way he could keep up a lie for that long. I honestly trusted him. However, I did eventually find out he was married by finding his wife on Facebook. Just something to think about.