Simple answer is, No. They shouldn't matter, but they do.
But longer now, I personally believe that the terms sex and gender have been mixed up.
To me, sex is your biological reproduction system.
Gender is a social construct.
So if we were to ask someone's sex, there are only 2 answers, male Read more… and female. With the exception of genetic abnormalities.
Gender being a social construct is alot more difficult, because it's defined by society. And with the globalisation are society is forever expanding and changing.
Gender is a learnt behaviour, we learn about masculinity and femininity from our primary care givers, parents, siblings. grandparents.
At around the age of 5 we recognise our position as masc or fem, and then discover the opposite. This is most often happening at School.
By the time puberty hits, we are mostly set on our sex and gender. Introducing sexuality. Both gender and sex influence this.
An example from my experience would be a male growing up with their primary care givers predominantly female, and they're sexuality being gay. Seeing mum, ***s, ect interested in males influenced his development.
So it's a 3 leg stool, each are important and if there is a focus one over the others it becomes unstable.
So, this is what has happened in society, people are focusing on one aspect of this, gender. Which is making it unstable. So i personal believe that if we got rid of all gender related tags, we would get along alot easier, but that's me focusing on onenover the others.
It's not a simple discussion, and can easily be misunderstood but im essential saying just be nice to everyone and accept them for who they want to be. It doesn't hurt you to use pronouns they they request. Also on the flip side of this unintentionally mis-gendering or using a dead name isn't an attack on you, it's a mistake. Inform them discreetly, don't make it a drama.
If someone continues to mis-label you, they are a dick and don't deserve any discretion call them out haha.
I had an argument and ended up deleting someone from my socials.
I knew them as a different name in school, 15+ years later we don't talk but I had them on socials. I saw a post by them saying basically if anyone calls them by their dead name they will be ignored. I proposed a scenario of me walking along the street 15+ yeas after school and seeing them and calling them by the name I knew them as, and they went shit crazy at me. Saying that they would ignore me, and I was arguing the point of, just update me on your new name. But they weren't getting it. They wanted the world to bend before them, without informing the world.
That example happens to often and that is just as big of an issue as the people that misgender use dead names, just to be spiteful.
It's not hurting anyone to follow what I want to be called. So what im saying is whatever side of this you are on, just be nice.

Just grid 22 now

Still looking for 8 and 22

Still looking for Grid 8, 22 and 24

Iv got 5 left to find, and i swear I have been on every page on this site and I cant find them haha

Biteing is automatically a kink. There are many reasons that someone might bite, I would say do you get any sexual gratification from biting someone? If so yeah.
Also, you could just bot put a name/label to it and have conversation with perspective partners.

I love a good make out session, might be coz my age.

That's terrible, I'm sorry that happened to you. As any proper dom would know that's not a Dom/Sub dynamic, unless it was discussed before hand. Like iv called girls that and alot worse, but there was a conversation beforehand.
I don't know if this site has a report function but you should look Read more… into that.
And please remember that not all Doms are like him. he sounds like a controller.

I'm shocked to see so many people not know what body dysmorphia is, or giving terrible advice.
My first thought is about your mental health and sucideality, are you experiencing depression or thoughts of suiciding? If so, seek mental health support right away.
Second, speak to your doctor, I see Read more… you from the US so I don't know how it works there, but I'm sure you can see psychology to get long term support.
Lastly, if your insides make you happy keep engaging that person, there are lots of tips on this, most sound super cheesy but from what I have heard from people with dismorphia they work.
One that comes up repeatedly is, getting a full length mirror stand in front of it and write on it with lipstick, white board pens, glass pens all the thing that you love about yourself.
I'm sorry that this is happening for you, and not that it means anything, you look really good, love the goth look. I really hope that you can be comfortable in you body, and you are amazing for reaching out to the community.

I personally believe sexual contact is important for a relationship, building connection and shared experience.
But that's just me, that's not who you are, as long as any potential partner knows that, then it's fine. It's all.about communicate what you want and setting your boundaries.