Hey! I’m new here but not new to being kinky. I’m here to connect with people for friendship, to share knowledge, or play if someone very local shares values and kinks (Update: I don’t currently feel like I’m in a position to meet in person)…
I’m an artist. I also love movies and food. I only started my kink journey 4-5 years ago and it’s been a slow but steady burn since- experimenting, gaining knowledge and learning what I like and who I am. I understand consent, communication, safety and the techniques for the play that I like - but I don’t claim to know everything about everything and I’m always willing to learn more.
The thing I enjoy most is giving/leading/controlling someone in a fantastic shared BDSM experience. Sensual bondage is my favourite kink play: I like the contrast between soft and hard, rough and gentle that sensual bondage can facilitate.
(Things I don’t enjoy/do:
Really bratty Brats, spit play, extreme * play, medical play, breath play.)
Small disclaimer: I have Chronic Fatigue Syndrome, so anything in-person will need to accommodate/work around this.
Desires and Fantasies**
I’ve been fantasising recently about pet play… cat/kitty/kitten to be specific. My pet wearing a Black body harness or lingerie, a beautiful black collar and leash, topped off with a black leather cat mask… so sexy. As for what we get up to, well… some things remain secrets.
Maca root powder is absolutely something to look into… it’s shown in clinical trials to help treat Antidepressant-Induced Sexual Dysfunction. Maca root has helped me for sure, but please make sure it’s right for you before trying it.
I think the mechanical/physical techniques mentioned already could work well, clamps and pumps etc. But, you could also try a pharmaceutical approach - a few companies sell orgasm gels or balms designed to increase sensation; they mostly rely on Arginine (an amino acid found in many foods) to Read more… increase *** flow and therefore sensations, and also mint/menthol which does the same thing but in a different way.