Experienced Dom, but historically a serial monogamist. Exploring beyond now and interested in ENM, NSA, ONS/hookups. Very caring and supportive if needed, mercilessly cruel and sadistic if wanted! Into most fetishes and edgeplay, especially CNC, caning, flogging, and breath play. Though happy to just tie you, slap and *** you while I fuck you, if you need to wade into things first.
There is no BDSM without trust, and I am highly trustworthy and respectful of your limits. Communication is also a must, so let's connect and see if we vibe first before discussing your kinks and wants in a scene, then go from there.
, , too much *** (minor cutting ok) and anything that will end you up in a penitentiary.
But that’s not on you, or not completely. A good Dom reads you, and if they can’t, they check in. It sounds like to me you are asking your partners to do impact play instead of looking for an experienced play partner. I would suggest looking more for the latter, at least until you have a better Read more… handle on what you need and can communicate it.
But that’s not on you, or not completely. A good Dom reads you, and if they can’t, they check in. It sounds like to me you are asking your partners to do impact play instead of looking for an experienced play partner. I would suggest looking more for the latter, at least until you have a better Read more… handle on what you need and can communicate it.
First of all, are you getting any aftercare? If you’re not familiar, then definitely look into aftercare and sub drop. It’s a real thing. What were some of the differences between your play partners? Perhaps there is something in different approaches that you respond to better? And last, but not Read more… least, it could just be that you’ve changed and that’s OK too.