Thanks for posting this, there has been so many stories about people getting scammed, I get it, I get that there are some who just want to be able to find someone I really do, but please you have to be careful, the last post about being scammed in the UK when the Domme didn't meet him - it took Read more… me less than 5 min to find out that she was in the states. Look closely at pics, see if there is anything in the back round that might tell you if they are being untruthful.
Do your homework and usually if you think it's too good to be true, it usually is.

Right, did a little bit of digging this woman is in the USA not in the Uk at all. Please before anyone hands any *** over do some digging and find things out.

Hi Fuzzy I'm sorry this has happened to you, it's disgusting that someone has used these things against you, I had a quick read of your profile and please do not think for any minute that I am blaming this on you in any way, please. But the info you have on there is like honey to a bee. she has Read more… gone on there and read everything you have said and taken your loneliness and used it against you.
Please as some others have said contact someone that you can speak to about your mental health as this lifestyle can take a toll on you if you are not 100% healthy. I hope you can get your *** back but please be careful in the future and do not send a complete stranger any . Even Pro Dommes only take a deposit and never the full amount. also if she is saying she loves you then she would not be asking for ***.
Again really sorry this has happened to you.

Yeah, I pop in randomly now and I loved coming in and checking the threads but to be honest I am getting bored and annoyed with the constant come on's and when I say me I'm the one thats wrong.

It's not just submissives, its any female, they believe that because we are on a kink site that we all must be sex starved. Ive taken a bit of time away because I was getting annoyed with all the rude messages. Not really sure what the answer is to be honest with you.

Yes was great thank you everyone and @PixieDust for that clue I needed.

who dared to spank me(you) !!!! lol
Thanks for the clues guys and girls

It's def original, a little like a Kali for the penis. My main concern would be infection if its leaving scratches on your skin so make sure and clean the area properly after.
If they are breaking the skin I would suggest to file down the points slightly but again make sure and sterilize the Read more… tags.
Like a Kali bracelet the spikes are slightly dull so that they apply pressure rather than cutting into the shaft.

Sending hugs xxxx

Confess your deepest darkest kinks
and thanks everyone for the clues

I had a quick look at your profile and although very detailed it actually doesn't say anything about you out with being a Dom.
yes this is a Kink site but its so much more than just BDSM. I of course do not know what you are messaging, but maybe as Leisa stated try the chat room out and look at Read more… it as making friends first, you never know what will happen.

I think a lot depends on the dynamics and the relationship you have with your sub. If it is only a play session I tend to keep my emotions to myself, However we text and chat on the phone and I will share if I am having a bad day.
Yet my two online pets, I talk to everyday on the phone (it's Read more… the two that I will be meeting when I go back to UK) they have heard my cry an supported me and admitted it made me more human and made them love me more.
Confidence does not mean emotionless and I believe that all Dominants should show that side of them because after all we are all human.
There is a time and place for it of course and I think taking time away from the D/s to actually talk to your sub about anything and everything only cements the relationship more.

Thanks for the clue's everyone and thanks for the help the other day @PixieDust x