Ruby, its about being comfortable with your little side, and then your big. Some of that comfort will be down to trust, and some just due to instinct.

Kink doesnt have to be involved in sex,i know at least one couple where sex isnt even a feature of thier relationship.

Its a way of you keeping track of your journey and also a way of experssing yourself if you find it hard to communicate.
The secondary point is that it allows your partner to see how you where when hes not around, especially if you dont live together.

The definition he used is on Dictionary dot com, under the adjective definition.
However the OED and Cambridge dictionaries dont reference such a description.
I also found it amusing that he used lions as a basis for his comparisson considering Male Lions are bascally the lazy bums of the pride, Read more… they do no hunting, all they do is eat, sleep and act as a moble spern bank, yes they occasionally defend territory and the pride from roaming solo males who are likely to kill any cubs they cime across.

It depends, and a collar should not be given on a whim or quickly. The collar has to mean something not just be made of velcro.
Its alsi not always needed, as the most important collar is the one that collars the mind first, the physical one is just a manifestation.

Have had a chance to think about this, a lot of what makes a woman 'desirable' is dictated by the media.
We're bombarded by images of young women who are held up as the epitomy of perfection, ever wondered why love island doesnt have women who are a dress size 12+. Its because they want to sell the Read more… public unrealistic images.
Its also the same for men, look at most pictures of men in the lifestyle and they are slim and ripped, where are the pictures of men with dad bods who dont have the time to spend in the gym working out.

For me personally its about the psychological connection rather than physical looks. Remember just because the packaging looks good it doesnt mean the contents are.

So because ive stated that there is research that debunks the whole alpha nonsense im a troll.
The sooner you and people like you stop buying into the whole alpha concept the better, i can only wonder why you are so butt hurt about the Alpha business being shot down does it offend your ego?

The theory about Alphas has been disproved and debunked for decades therefore the term Alpha has no basis.

Understand that it is not her fault, as it was not communicated that she should check in with him, so explain why she should be disciplined for something that was not her error.

Alpha, beta, gamma use in physics relies on a different definition of the term and often relates to a different classification, eg Alpha waves, gamma ratiaion but they have specific meanings.
Im terms of humanity, and wildlife the term Alpha is total bollocks and has been discredited for decades,

However you failed to make.the distinction in your original post. Also i wasnt discussing evolution but the theory of Alpha/beta style labels being applied. It i wanted to discuss evolution id be referencing the likes Dawkins and other evolutionary biologists not naturalists.
The clarification in Read more… you second post is a partialy valid contextual statement for the use of the term alpha. Although i still dont accept the premis as surely a dominant is the 'Alpha' in any dynamic regardless of it being a primal or pet play oriented dynamic.