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Description
purple monkey dishwasher
My roles & archetype
My kinks & fetishes
I like:
- Anal Play
- Anal Sex
- Anal Plugs
- Blindfolds
- BDSM
- Biting Fetish
- Bisexual
- Bondage
- Bondage Rope
- Breast Fetish
- Breath Play
- Breast Play
- Cunnilingus
- Dildos
- Edging
- Facesitting
- Female Domination
- Female Ejaculation
- Restraints
- Fetish Wear
- Fingering
- Floggers
- Foreplay
- Goth
- Handcuffs
- Hentai / Anime
- Genital Piercings
- Kinky Sex
- Kissing
- Licking
- Masks
- Masochism
- Masturbation
- Multiple Orgasms
- Mutual Masturbation
- Nipple Clamps
- Nipple Play
- Nipples
- Oral Sex
- Orgasm Control
- Piercings
- Polyamory
- Porn
- Scratching
- Shower Sex
- Sex Toys
- Strap-on
- Striptease
- Vibrators
- Voyeurism
Wanna know what interests me?:
- Anal Hook
- BDSM Branding
- Bondage Stocks
- Bondage Harness
- Bondage Hood
- Bondage Tape
- Cuckold
- Double Penetration
- Threesomes
- Edgeplay
- Elbow Harness
- Fire Play
- Fisting
- Gangbang
- Torturer - Captive Prisoner
- Knife Play
- Body Modification
- Medical Restraints
- Armbinder
- Needles
- Pegging
- Rimming
- Sadism
- Sex Swing
- Suspension Bondage
- Sybian
- Taser
- Wax Play
- Straitjackets
Fetish.com gives you…
Fetish.com is like an appetizing smorgasbord in Colorado Springs with lots of hot guys to meet up with. Have a look around first if you prefer to see who’s around, or if you know what you want, search by selecting the right category "Kinky Dating”. Nobody stays alone here for long! Fetish.com has tons going on!
purple monkey dishwasher
Brats
I'd like to understand the brat role better and so I've decided to ask the brats some questions.
First off, there are a lot of opinions about brats, and I'm not looking for opinions about them as that doesn't help me or anyone else try to understand them better.
So, for the brats in the Read more…audience:
Why do you identify as a brat?
What does brat mean to you?
How does it manifest in a dynamic for you?
What dynamic types do you think work best/worst for a brat type?
Is there anything you want to say about being a brat to help people understand your role better?
First off, there are a lot of opinions about brats, and I'm not looking for opinions about them as that doesn't help me or anyone else try to understand them better.
So, for the brats in the Read more…audience:
Why do you identify as a brat?
What does brat mean to you?
How does it manifest in a dynamic for you?
What dynamic types do you think work best/worst for a brat type?
Is there anything you want to say about being a brat to help people understand your role better?
Likesugarberry, SammyBand 10 more… · 66 Replies
TammyNatalia ➦TammyNatalia quote SirGreen:❝I also think it is important to remember that there is something about the anticipation, something to look forward to when you know your Dom is coming over or your meeting him somewhere. Its all part of the "foreplay" to the play. Planning the event and getting ready Read more… for it. Online just doesn't have the same feeling to it.❞
I can so agree with that. I love the build up to a scenario. It is also the same with punishment. I like to be told I am going to be punished (not Funished) and then I have to think about it before it happens. It is so much more exciting that way. But online is not the same for me. I am quite old fashioned in some ways I suppose. I like hands on. That's my preference I think. Lol.
I can so agree with that. I love the build up to a scenario. It is also the same with punishment. I like to be told I am going to be punished (not Funished) and then I have to think about it before it happens. It is so much more exciting that way. But online is not the same for me. I am quite old fashioned in some ways I suppose. I like hands on. That's my preference I think. Lol.
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· 16.07.2020 19:25:32
SirGreen I also think it is important to remember that there is something about the anticipation, something to look forward to when you know your Dom is coming over or your meeting him somewhere. Its all part of the "foreplay" to the play. Planning the event and getting ready for it. Online just doesn't have the same feeling to it. I also think it is important to remember that there is something about the anticipation, something to look forward to when you know your Dom is coming over or your meeting him somewhere. Its all part of the "foreplay" to the play. Planning the event and getting ready for it. Online just doesn't have the same feeling to it.
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· 16.07.2020 19:18:20
TammyNatalia ➦TammyNatalia quote SirGreen:❝lol a blow up doll is rather like porn. A waste of time and a ***. If i were hungry, i wouldn't phone a restaurant to ask them to read me the menu or show me photos of the food.
I prefer the real thing.❞
I would as well. I did mention to one of the Dominants that I Read more… struggle with the online domination stuff, but it went straight over his head. I am sure online domination suits many people, but the downside for me is that it allows for no privacy or escape from the Dominant. They can be there all hours of the day or night . But hey, I am not condemning or judging what other people do. That is entirely up to them. Lol.
I prefer the real thing.❞
I would as well. I did mention to one of the Dominants that I Read more… struggle with the online domination stuff, but it went straight over his head. I am sure online domination suits many people, but the downside for me is that it allows for no privacy or escape from the Dominant. They can be there all hours of the day or night . But hey, I am not condemning or judging what other people do. That is entirely up to them. Lol.
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· 16.07.2020 18:29:43
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As Pride month draws to a close, we share our view on the recent transphobia from within the sex blogging community, and highlight why it's vital to tackle it.
WyrdOakDaddy Thanks for your concern, a lot of us do have a counselor to assist with the medical and mental aspects of transitioning, so no need to worry about us. Thanks for your concern, a lot of us do have a counselor to assist with the medical and mental aspects of transitioning, so no need to worry about us.
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· 30.06.2020 22:06:11
Funny Moments In Kink
Lau just reminded me I farted during oral one time. 🤦♂️
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Everything will be done, from conversation to sex, with enthusiastic consent. Anything less is not worth either of our time.
Boundaries. I have them. You should have them. They should all be respected. Lying and gaslighting will get you blocked.
I have no intention of cybering or picture Read more… swapping or exchanging bank information with any rando that glanced at my profile and didn’t bother to read it purple monkey dishwasher. Honestly I don’t know why I bothered, scammers don’t read this crap anyway.
I did a ridiculous amount of written work on what I want out of kink and relationships and I worked with mentors to make sure I had my head and heart in the right place. I know what I’m interested in pursuing and what I’m capable of giving. I’m not putting it here because it was like 20 pages total and will likely continue to change as I learn more things. Should we establish we have a connection worth pursuing, just know I come with homework because poly and kink both have the potential to do a lot of harm and I’m not fucking about. Expect things to take time, patience, a lot of discussions, questions, and negotiations.
I hope you genuinely know what you want as well. I don’t want anyone who fawns and gives in to benefit the other person without considering their own wants and needs. Speak to me openly and honestly about what you want. Be confident in your desires and fantasies! I may not be the right fit, but you won’t get what you don’t ask for, and I’m not here to kink shame!
How I identify and what it means to me:
Kinky, poly, demisexual, heteroflexible, demi-guy, switch.
Kinky - should hope so, since it’s a kink site. I’m not a lifestyle person in that I am not interested in a specific dynamic with rules so much as engaging in kinky activities and growing and learning about sexual interests. I’m fairly open to try most things, though my hard limits currently are feet, ***, and urine.
Polyamorous and open - I am open to multiple romantic and/or sexual partners at one time. And also literally at the same time if the energy is right.
Demi-sexual - more on the spectrum, but definitely bent that direction. I don’t really feel sexual urges toward people I don’t have some kind of emotional attraction to. I’m very introverted and enjoy my own company more than most people, so having sex with any rando just feels like an awkward waste of time that could be spent playing Red Dead Redemtion 2 or drawing or literally doing nothing.
Heteroflexible - I strongly strongly strongly prefer femmes (as I view femmes, not a judgement on your gender identity) with literally only one exception to date. I guarantee if you’re thinking you can change that, you cannot because that is already a personality trait I find repulsive and I will want nothing to do with you. Additional note, heteroflexible is more sexuality than romance, as I have not ever had romantic feelings for a man or masculine person.
Demi-guy - I’m mostly a dude mentally. I’m on testosterone and doing my thing to get the body that looks the way I feel. I’m pre-op and the operations I want are currently my business unless I feel we have a connection and it matters.
Switch - Top and bottom and middle because life is full of adventures.
Boundaries. I have them. You should have them. They should all be respected. Lying and gaslighting will get you blocked.
I have no intention of cybering or picture Read more… swapping or exchanging bank information with any rando that glanced at my profile and didn’t bother to read it purple monkey dishwasher. Honestly I don’t know why I bothered, scammers don’t read this crap anyway.
I did a ridiculous amount of written work on what I want out of kink and relationships and I worked with mentors to make sure I had my head and heart in the right place. I know what I’m interested in pursuing and what I’m capable of giving. I’m not putting it here because it was like 20 pages total and will likely continue to change as I learn more things. Should we establish we have a connection worth pursuing, just know I come with homework because poly and kink both have the potential to do a lot of harm and I’m not fucking about. Expect things to take time, patience, a lot of discussions, questions, and negotiations.
I hope you genuinely know what you want as well. I don’t want anyone who fawns and gives in to benefit the other person without considering their own wants and needs. Speak to me openly and honestly about what you want. Be confident in your desires and fantasies! I may not be the right fit, but you won’t get what you don’t ask for, and I’m not here to kink shame!
How I identify and what it means to me:
Kinky, poly, demisexual, heteroflexible, demi-guy, switch.
Kinky - should hope so, since it’s a kink site. I’m not a lifestyle person in that I am not interested in a specific dynamic with rules so much as engaging in kinky activities and growing and learning about sexual interests. I’m fairly open to try most things, though my hard limits currently are feet, ***, and urine.
Polyamorous and open - I am open to multiple romantic and/or sexual partners at one time. And also literally at the same time if the energy is right.
Demi-sexual - more on the spectrum, but definitely bent that direction. I don’t really feel sexual urges toward people I don’t have some kind of emotional attraction to. I’m very introverted and enjoy my own company more than most people, so having sex with any rando just feels like an awkward waste of time that could be spent playing Red Dead Redemtion 2 or drawing or literally doing nothing.
Heteroflexible - I strongly strongly strongly prefer femmes (as I view femmes, not a judgement on your gender identity) with literally only one exception to date. I guarantee if you’re thinking you can change that, you cannot because that is already a personality trait I find repulsive and I will want nothing to do with you. Additional note, heteroflexible is more sexuality than romance, as I have not ever had romantic feelings for a man or masculine person.
Demi-guy - I’m mostly a dude mentally. I’m on testosterone and doing my thing to get the body that looks the way I feel. I’m pre-op and the operations I want are currently my business unless I feel we have a connection and it matters.
Switch - Top and bottom and middle because life is full of adventures.
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