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Exploring this community as I grow and expand my repertoire. I've known from a young age that I had kinky tendencies but never felt safe to explore them until I met someone who introduced me to his kinks and everything took off from there.
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Despite having a dominant personality, I am looking to explore my submissive side. I am particularly looking for a confident, experienced, and kind Dom (or top - whatever you call yourself) to experiment with bondage, restraints, edging, orgasm denial, threesomes (MMF & FFM), group, stag/vixen, CNC, etc.
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Ultimately, I want to turn off my brain and relinquish control to a person I can wholeheartedly trust.
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I AM NOT INTO YOUNG MEN (younger than 35) or smokers so don’t even go there.
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Things that are a no-go for me: anything demeaning/controlling, defecation & anything in this realm, ***, knife play ... this list is ever evolving so it's always best to ask.
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Things that I find attractive in a person: confidence, reliability, intelligence, being comfortable and able to take control while at the same time being attentive to the other person's needs, sense of humour, and good conversation.
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The conversation bit is key here - I mean, engage with me as you would with a woman you met at a coffee shop. Don't start straight with kink talk, it's very off-putting. Be yourself, catch my attention with your wit and intelligence and then let the conversation evolve into kinks.
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What is most important is that we connect, talk, get to know each other before jumping into any type of play. I'm not down with random fucking - I'm not interested in adding notches to my bed post. I’m human and I expect to be treated as such - of course I’ll also treat you with the same respect.
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So if any of this resonates with you, message me. There’s no need to ask permission provided it’s done respectfully. And while I respect your need for privacy, if your profile pic is a meme or just a dick, I need to know who I'm talking to so please send your picture in private.
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5x vaxxed, in case you're wondering
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Private pictures are for friends. UNSOLICITED FRIEND REQUESTS WILL BE IGNORED until you write to introduce yourself.

Non single people, smokers, and anyone under 35. Don’t, simply don’t even bother, it’s non-negotiable.

Nothing violent, watersports, , - basically I’m not down with bodily fluids and anything excessively aggressive or demeaning