Plus-Size Men

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A fan of plus-size men?

We all have our type, don't we? Even if that's quite a broad definition. Some people love red hair or blue eyes; others love long legs or plump bottoms, a sweet smile or big hands. Some people love plus-size men. There are lots of body fetishes, but when the whole person is a fetish, it's important to remember they are a person too, not just an object that turns you on. Unless that's one of their fetishes, then get your consensual kink on! From big bears to cuddly cuties, there are all kinds of super sexy plus-size men.

Is it OK to have a fetish for plus-size men?

Yes, as long as you remember that there is another person involved in your fetish. It's not good to objectify someone just because you have a fetish for plus-size men, but if you remember the whole person, not only their size, then it's perfectly OK.

What's the difference between plus size-men fetish and feederism?

Feederism is a separate fetish that involves a person wanting to gain weight or wanting to see another person gain weight. This can form part of a plus-size men fetish, but in essence, they're different fetishes.

What is plus-size for a man?

Plus-size clothes vary from shop to shop and brand to brand. Everyone has their personal opinion, too. If someone identifies as plus-size, then they are plus-size. Some people with a plus-size men fetish might specifically look for men of a particular shape or size, but that doesn't mean that is the only shape or size a plus size man can be.

Is it OK to compliment a man on his body shape?

It depends on the man and how well you know them. Complimenting a person on their body is something you need to know is OK. If it's a stranger, it's probably best to avoid it, unless you ask for consent to compliment their body first. Remember the person first, before your fetish.

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