Training and Playing with Music. A BDSM Question.

[Dw****]

Hello.

So, a question for all my BDSM practitioners out there. Well, a statement then a question to be more precise.

When I am practicing/training my techniques and or running something new I am usually listening to music. I'm sure this isn't something I alone do. My question is:

How many of you who also do the same, prefer to have the same song in rotation while playing/during a scene? And if not the exact same track, something similar? Do your scenes or playtime involve music or not? And for those that do, do you usually have a running "theme" for all or does it change depending on the partner/place/time. Example: One might be upbeat in tempo, something heavier, and another may have a more subdued feeling, sadder in tone.

It is either that above, some type of variation of that, something you don't really think about or I am alone in this and crazy to have even put thought in it (which I would find the most farfetched)

I am looking forward to your responses, if there are any. Thank you for your time.

[Pe****]

Isn't it the details that make the difference? Details like environment, music, light, scent and attributes always make the difference. I believe that you can't pay too much attention to this, it stimulates the senses.

[ey****]

music is a tool, and like all tools can be used to enhance a scene, or if used incorrectly - ruin it

Something high tempo, hard industrial, rock/metal, some dance, etc. can be good for impact play - but might not work for something more sensual.

Sometimes something dramatic and atmospheric can fit many moods

ultimately though, always make sure music isn't a distraction - be it too loud so you can't communicate - or something where you're more focused on the music than the scene or your partner.

[Ro****]

I fnd music sets the mood, Pace and intensity of any scene I'm involved in, and music helps me stay put of my head during a scene, so it's always playing. Your not alone in this

[Ro****]

Stay out of**

[KiaOra]

I have some sik play lists just for those occasions 😈

[Ne****]

Once the mood and mode of a fav and apropos groove takes hold I want it to last the duration.. until the next phase is to take place.. otherwise it rips me out of space… and I do so abhor that.

[Ba****]

Oh completely! I’m not so particular about what music, I only have to know it and like it. I find it helps me last longer in a scene and relax into it. It ties in with sensory play and is a well reported memory technique so, if you’re listening to one track while learning something, hearing the song will trigger your memory

[Dominodomdomino]

Usually my sub has noise cancelling headphones on which I put white noise through. 
 

If there are no headphones I have an album that is in-line with the mood. An aggressive-ish and fast album if it’s more of an aggressive scene, a more soft and romantic one if it’s a caring scene